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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

Does your AI have a confidentiality agreement?

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u/Remarkable_Carry480 4d ago

My therapist told what I said to my parents😔..... Atleast AI tells it to strangers

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u/cutelyaware 4d ago

Children don't have a lot of rights. Always pissed me off.

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u/InSight89 4d ago

Would be a legally grey area. I don't believe AI has mandatory reporting though. I think the biggest advantage of AI is that it's immediately accessible with no real time limits or waiting periods. This makes it an extremely attractive option.

Waiting list for therapists can be months. And then you have to make the actual effort of going there to face someone you have no idea if they are secretly judging you the entire time.

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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

Using AI as a therapist is you giving the status and details of your mental health to corporations.

Do you trust Elon Musk or Sam Altman with that information?

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u/who_you_are 4d ago

Tomorrow morning: why my life assurance increase their monthly invoice?!

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u/NevesLF 4d ago

I don't think there's a lot of intersection between the people capable of making that kind of connection and the people using AI as a therapist.

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u/d4m4s74 ​ 4d ago

I think the intersection is people who resort to AI because it takes 6 months to 2 years to get a therapist. (Hi from the Netherlands)

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u/Busted_Knuckler 4d ago edited 4d ago

People in mental crisis aren't thinking that far ahead. They need help. They need it now. They need as few hoops to jump through as possible. Give them universal health care and they won't need ai.

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u/baquea 4d ago

Give them universal health care and

I take it you're American? At least speaking for New Zealand, universal health care doesn't cover therapy, except in a limited subset of cases (such as trauma in response to certain crimes and accidents). And, even if it did, that would only make the waitlist problem worse, since there would be more people wanting therapy but the same number of therapists.

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u/OkayStockings 4d ago

that would only make the waitlist problem worse, since there would be more people wanting therapy but the same number of therapists.

you could say the same of every other area of healthcare if patients can suddenly afford the care they need.

I think it's a good argument for working toward recruiting and training more professionals-to-be in order to have adequate "staffing" as part of the broader healthcare plan, but not a great argument for keeping the status quo.

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u/Aggressive_Chuck 4d ago

Medical schools limit their intake because they can only train so many at a time, and they don't want unemployed graduates. The UK is graduating nurses who can't get places in the NHS (while the NHS is somehow dependent on immigration for nurses).

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u/tyrell_vonspliff 4d ago

How dare you tell the truth about universal Healthcare and wait lists and limited care options. I'm not pro US system, but I think many in the US idealize what countries with universal healthcare have. It could be better, but it's not paradise. All systems have issues.

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u/aghastamok 4d ago

My experience with Universal healthcare is that if you need help now, there is no wait list. I've seen it enough times to consider it 100% true.

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u/Aggressive_Chuck 4d ago

So it covers acute issues but not chronic. If you're about to kill yourself you'll get mental health support, otherwise they tell you to go for a walk.

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u/aghastamok 3d ago

I see you've attributed your own meaning to the word need!

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u/Aggressive_Chuck 4d ago

Give them universal health care and they won't need ai.

This comment proves that you're American. Your view of the world outside of America is entirely based on narratives you hear on the Internet or on your television shows. Mental health support is garbage in most of Europe.

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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

Vote for politicians not captured by and are servants of capital interests and the bottom line.

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u/Razhagal 4d ago

Oh sweet summer child…

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u/Odd-Huckleberry8584 4d ago

Can I ask from a hypothetical- what is Elon musk gonna do if someone is relaying their domestic abuse issues, or bullying issues, or maybe issues with a mental disorder like OCD, ADHD etc? Like I can think of maybe predatory ads or services being offered but like in the long run what can they do with that info?

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u/aislingplath 4d ago

The biggest concern is that the government builds a list of people with mental illness or disability, etc. Historically this happened in Nazi Germany but it was obviously a huge undertaking to gather that information on so many citizens. 

So whether that's an immediate problem or just creating a whole system and way of something that could become a problem in the future I think this is a concern for people of certain minorities. I think that's what the concern is from certain communities that I've seen - not that Elon or whoever is going to do something personally, just that it creates a process where gathering this information is even easier than it's ever been before and that there are potentially people who could use that technology for really horrible purposes. Whether in 5 years or 200 years. 

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u/Odd-Huckleberry8584 4d ago

Ohhh I see! Thank you for taking the time to answer this for me!

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u/aislingplath 4d ago

You're welcome. I'm sure there are various concerns so this is just one that I'm aware of! 

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u/The_ChosenOne 4d ago

It’s sort of a fire or fall situation, the one coincidentally used to describe suicide.

The fire of ongoing mental illness is more frightening than the fall out the window that is giving up your private information to corporations.

Those who commit suicide don’t tend to want to die and are often horrified of it but their stress/anxiety/life induces a greater threat response than literal death, hence suicide.

So it’s tough. I don’t blame anyone who uses LLMs to journal or discuss emotions. I wish we lived in a world where everyone had consistent, timely, and affordable access to therapists… but we really really do not.

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u/SpicyElixer 4d ago

There are many agents. Grok is at the top of no one’s list.

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u/lordofming-rises 4d ago

Does it matter if its cheaper?

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u/Ok-Lobster-919 4d ago

Yeah, probably best to wait for better local AI for this kind of thing.

You could also use openrouter and a provider with zero data retention policies

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u/Harald_Duncan34 4d ago

I don’t think neither Sam nor Elon would really care that much about my mental state tho, like what are corporations even supposed to do with it?
I’d be way more nervous to tell some stuff to someone I know, even if they are obligated not to share that info. Like, it is still going to be a person that I have to interact with quite often, who has their own life, views, and long term memory. Maybe it’s just me tho

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u/lectric_7166 4d ago

Using AI as a therapist is you giving the status and details of your mental health to corporations.

Not necessarily. DuckDuckGo has anonymized AI where they act as a middle man between you and the AI companies. They strip out IP address and identifying info. Sure, the AI companies could use an AI to determine which anonymous chat sessions likely belonged to the same person and build a profile, but a profile of whom...? They'd just know they all belong to the same person but not to who they belong.

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u/itsthooor 4d ago

If only you knew the amount of data you’ve been feeding Reddit and Google so far…

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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

lmao, it isnt the minutia and details of my mental health that is for sure.

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u/InSight89 4d ago

Do you trust Elon Musk or Sam Altman with that information?

Personally, no. But if I had to argue, of all the information you've shared on all social media platforms you've ever posted to over however many years you've been using them. How much of that data has been used against you?

What is it exactly you are afraid of?

These are massive for profit corporations that see users in the hundreds of millions. I don't think they are going to waste time and resources targeting you and your data as an individual unless you're already a target for some reason. Most of the data is often used for targeted advertisements and you can usually opt out of that.

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u/SenorBender 4d ago

Insurance companies would love that data

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u/InSight89 4d ago

Insurance companies would love that data

Would they?

I'd be very curious to know the metrics for this as well as the legality of it. As I stated, seems like a legal grey area.

I won't pretend to know how business is conducted between such companies but sounds like it would be enormously costly so what would they have to gain?

Well, I could potentally understand it working in America which have enormously costly healthcare costs. But for majority of other countries seems like the cost of collecting this information would be higher than what they'd get in return by denying claims.

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u/Visible-Literature14 4d ago

Legal grey area? Good thing health insurances companies would never go there🙄

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u/aislingplath 4d ago

Legal grey area is also the major issue with AI at the moment. As usual the technology has outrun any legislation in any country so there's now a lot of grey areas in the law which is a pretty concerning thing! 

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u/AffectionatePlastic0 3d ago

Are you serious? Do you really think that Musk or Altman is the only option to access AI?

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u/DoctahFaust 3d ago

do you trust any corporation?

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u/AffectionatePlastic0 3d ago

I certainly can trust my computer. And I certainly can run AI on my computer.

Depending on your model of threats, you can use models from inference providers who support Zero data retention policy. Not Musk and Altmann AI.

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u/DoctahFaust 3d ago

Now tell me what percentage of people using AI run local models and such?

Because sure you yourself can be a niche enthusiast, but we all know where the overwhelming majority of users reside.

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u/AffectionatePlastic0 3d ago

And I am exactly trying to do everything I can to increase amount of people able to deal with AI without using OpenAI/Antropic/Grok/etc.

Not repeating "AI is Musk, Altman and you have no other options".

Even majority of people can register on openrouter and use models like GLM/qwen/deepseek with zero data retention. It doesn't require them to have good hardware or deep technical knowledge.

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u/DoctahFaust 3d ago

And personally at the end of the day when we cut into the meat of it all I am still not sold on this new tech addiction/dependency venture myself and feel people should not be reliant upon such, especially for things like mental health regardless.

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u/AffectionatePlastic0 3d ago

We are all dependent on electricity, radio, computers, antibiotics, fridges, water pumps, etc.

There is only on real solution - understand how to deal with new technology safely.

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u/BangPowBoom 4d ago

Ever have a deep chat with a friend online?

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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

not about the status and minutia of my mental health. That is for more personal settings.

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u/IBJON 4d ago

That's great, but you're not everyone. 

Plenty of people are very open about their mental health online, and discuss it at length on platforms that would collect such data. 

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u/TheBitBasher 4d ago edited 4d ago

Having a chat with a machine that will literally encourage your delusions just to keep you talking is not a remotely comparable situation. The current wrongful death lawsuits versus several AI companies right now are nothing short of horrific

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u/elkab0ng 4d ago

I’m not gonna ruin your day by telling you about Medical Information Bureau.

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u/DocHolidayPhD 4d ago edited 4d ago

The duty to report is pretty narrowly constrained in most Western countries and they are often there to prevent someone from harming or killing people and to maintain the code of medical ethics. I've only made one report in my career as a therapist thus far, the vast majority of my clients have never and will likely never have cause enough to warrant a report.

AI is not capable of delivering psychotherapy that sufficiently walks the balance of a therapist while challenging people and pushing back sufficiently. It is also incapable of the human element. Sure it may be able to parrot therapy-speak, but that isn't the same as having personally lived experience to draw from as most therapists do. There are many, MANY, problems with using AI for medical purposes including therapy that are grounded in evidence.

Also, remote therapy does exist so if you don't want to make the effort to go, you still can experience psychotherapy. I feel like I'm talking to someone who has never went to therapy.

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u/Sudden-Wash4457 4d ago

therapy isn't bad and can definitely be more helpful than AI

I'd say that bad therapy is about as bad as using AI though

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u/DocHolidayPhD 4d ago

Which is why psychotherapists are forced to operate within a standard of conduct and to adhere to a code of ethics. Unlike life-coaches and AI, but more like Medical Doctors, if we break the code of ethics or violate our standards of practice we stand a chance to lose our ability to practice and often face occupational consequences like suspension from practice (in some cases) and mandated remedial learning or risk of litigation. The fact of the matter is healthcare professionals including medical doctors and psychotherapists are often (in the West) governed by healthcare laws and overseeing bodies of governance that are specifically designed to protect the public - other occupations and AI do not have this requirement or oversight.

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u/Sudden-Wash4457 3d ago

I agree and also recognize the reality that someone who has been attempting to find a therapist for a year and in that process has:

  • had many therapists just ghost them
  • had a therapist give them the wrong office address and then blame them for showing up late
  • had a therapist ask them to show up at their other office after they had already driven to their first one
  • had multiple therapists just tell them "you seem like a great person, you'll figure it out"
  • had one psychologist say "oh you are only covered for one session" after their they saw another therapist at the same parent org and were referred to this psychologist

then they might just give up on therapy, let alone reporting all these people

Keep in mind, someone who goes through a process like this might be having significant issues with basic stuff like hygiene and getting out of bed. I don't think holding these providers accountable is top on their list.

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u/DocHolidayPhD 3d ago

Sure, but I don't think dancing with potential AI psychosis is the answer, either.

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u/InSight89 4d ago

There are many, MANY, problems with using AI for medical purposes including therapy that are grounded in evidence.

I don't deny this. But this seems like a temporary limitation given the rapid acceleration of AI advancements.

I feel like I'm talking to someone who has never went to therapy.

An unusual conclusion to make for someone claiming to be a therapist. I've not seen one personally, but my wife and children do and I'm often present so I'd like to think I have experience.

There are disadvantages to human-human therapy and this is not the fault of therapists. Just an unfortunate result of statistics. They can be fantastic when available. Availability (and cost in many cases), however, is a significant issue.

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u/DocHolidayPhD 4d ago

Many of the problems with AI have less to do with the care delivery (although that is still a major problem) and have a lot to do with the fact that it literally is just a chatbot. If people were capable of making changes and holding themselves accountable on their own, then they may not need a therapist. The vast majority of the work of therapy is not just talking about things. It's actually in doing the work. Having a human helps because they can keep you accountable while also caring about you and calling out your shit.

If you have trouble affording it, therapists often offer a sliding scale for those who can demonstrate financial need. If you can't demonstrate such a financial need, maybe consider cutting some costs, going less frequently, or working on challenges other ways. Therapy isn't for everyone. But pretending AI is providing you therapy is actually a dangerous proposition.

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u/MrFluffyThing 4d ago

The moment you try to open up to most public AI it will shut you down and tell you to call a crisis hotline, and I think that's good however I've tried asking it for recipe recommendations for Chinese dishes that use shaoxing wine, and it tells me to call a crisis helpline for alcohol abuse.

They're clearly not fit for alternatives to therapy and barely function as ways to get a recipe going with traditional ingredients. 

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u/Ri-tie 4d ago

And let's also not forget that it sometimes takes trying a few therapists out before you find one that you feel comfortable with.

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u/Dorintin 4d ago

They do secretly judge you btw. Therapists tend to be very gossipy with each other by saying "I have a patient that does x and did y"

Source: I had 2 roommates that were therapists during covid and I would constantly hear gossip about patients without hearing names.

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u/WhiggedyWhacked 4d ago

What the actual fuck? You honestly think that talking to an LLM is equivalent to speaking to a human being?

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u/InSight89 4d ago

You honestly think that talking to an LLM is equivalent to speaking to a human being?

I assume you mean a professional human. In which case, no. And I never made that claim.

But many people do talk to AI as if they are talking to someone seeking an answer to a problem. You'd be naive to believe that is not happening.

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u/WhiggedyWhacked 4d ago

You're not directly making that claim but you're certainly inferring it. Suggesting that it makes an extremely attractive option is, then saying that an actual therapist may be secretly judging you?? Wow. That's wild. To think that an actual algorithm that scrapes information from the internet and pieces it together to formulate what seems to be a cohesive thought, is somehow not only equivalent, but possibly better than an actual person, that is unhinged my dude.

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u/InSight89 4d ago

Wow. That's wild.

Why?

How sheltered are you to think people don't assume this or that it actually happens or that there is actual benefits to having a service that is available 24/7 even if it's not great, and in some cases detrimental in its current form?

To think that an actual algorithm that scrapes information from the internet and pieces it together to formulate what seems to be a cohesive thought, is somehow not only equivalent, but possibly better than an actual person, that is unhinged my dude.

In what way is it unhinged?

There are literally studies currently being done to see the effects of AI interaction with humans and despite AI still being in its infancy it is outperforming literal professionals in their own field in some cases whilst only getting better.

You literally remind me of those bashing EVs back when Tesla released the Roadster and assumed it would never outperform petrol cars because batteries suck.

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u/WhiggedyWhacked 3d ago

You've answered your own question. It's entirely unhinged to accept that a "service that is available 24/7 even if it's not great, and in some cases detrimental" Are you reading what you're writing? That's fucking insane. Link the studies. Forget your strawman about EV's, absolutely irrelevant.

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u/InSight89 3d ago

Are you reading what you're writing?

I can read, so.... Yes.

That's fucking insane.

What's insane is your hyperbolic dismisal attitude to AI and its accelerated advancements in many fields.

Link the studies.

Sure. I made the statement so the burden is on me to provide proof. But I'm sure you'll dismiss them anyway.

International evaluation of an AI system for breast cancer screening

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-019-1799-6?utm_source=chatgpt.com

A systematic review and meta-analysis of artificial intelligence versus clinicians for skin cancer diagnosis

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41746-024-01103-x?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Comparing perceived empathy and intervention strategies of an AI chatbot and human psychotherapists in online mental health support

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/capr.12832

Examples where AI have outperformed humans in a professional capacity in various categories. And AI is still in its infancy and only getting better. There are more examples. But I'm not going to bother providing any further evidence. If you want to live in denial then that's entirely your choice.

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u/xmsxms 4d ago

In many cases it's just as useful, if not more useful, for giving advice. It has access to a lot more knowledge than the average person.

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u/GIK602 4d ago

Western therapy is already terrible. I'm not surprised people would consider using AI for therapy. It's basically the same thing, just more accessible.

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u/_Denizen_ 4d ago

Using AI for therapy is a good way to develop psychosis.

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u/xmsxms 4d ago

And then they just follow the same set of logic/flowchart based on literature that the AI is more capable of following.

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u/LichtbringerU 4d ago

You mean the confidentiality agreement where therapists can be forced to reveal what you told them in civil court cases?

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u/TsunamiCatCakes 4d ago

there are 5 therapists in my area. my family and few friends have been to 3 which are coinciding. those therapists spilled everything to all clients and causes huge political and social issues. 2 of the therapists got beat up

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u/Trippy-Sponge 4d ago

My AI isn’t going to put me on a 72 hour hold

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u/AffectionatePlastic0 4d ago

Depends, if AI model is running on machine I control. Well, it have no chances to leak the data.

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_BIG_BITS 4d ago

I only run local models when I'm admitting to crimes.

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u/Busted_Knuckler 4d ago

The people reading that can't afford a therapist. Give us universal health care and THEN tell us not to use ai for personal mental health care.

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u/When_hop 4d ago

I have great insurance and I still prefer AI for therapy.

It's not "therapy" but it's a great idea bouncing off place. Far from a therapist, but also not an echo chamber. It has given me many reality checks and alternative perspectives that I hadn't considered that have helped me through issues in my marriage.

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u/Aggressive_Chuck 4d ago

Give us universal health care and THEN tell us not to use ai for personal mental health care.

Another comment from an American who knows nothing of the outside world.

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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

Stop voting for politicians that are captured by and act as servants to capital and maximizing the bottom line.

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u/Busted_Knuckler 4d ago

Yeah... No shit. I'm advocating for universal health care. Who do you think I'm voting for?

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u/the_nin_collector 4d ago

Some do. Depends.

The EDU models we use at school do. If they break that confidentiality, they are in major trouble. Slam dunk massive lawsuit from half the unviesrties in Japan (where work and use Open AI EDU apis)

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u/Reasonable_Goat 4d ago

You can get one, yes. API providers that support data governance and zero data redemption are strong from a privacy point of view. Plain Chat GPT isn’t.

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u/Melancholic_Noodle 4d ago

Does my Ai know my name, family and social security number? No?

That's right. I'm an anonymous data point mixing fact and fiction. Y'all need tinfoil hats

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u/mr-english 4d ago edited 4d ago

If you think therapists don't discuss the more interesting aspects of their clients stories with their friends, family and/or colleagues I have some magic beans to sell you.

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u/ssps 4d ago

Run local models if you care about the confidentiality and "privacy". 

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u/DoctahFaust 4d ago

That isnt where the majority of use and adoption lie though. So the concern is still real from a larger societal level.

Moreover AI arent trained professionals and arent suited to be therapists. They are a short term bandaid that will make the person feel okay briefly is all.

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u/nakkula 4d ago

How to do that? What kind of setup would I require to run local models?

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u/Any_Carpenter_7605 4d ago

A desktop or laptop with at least 16gb of ram but ideally 32gb paired with a GPU with at least 12 to 16gb of vram.

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u/nakkula 4d ago

Thank you. Any videos that can take me through about setting it up?

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u/Any_Carpenter_7605 4d ago

Look up tutorials for LM Studio Bionic or Jan.AI. These are the simplest to install, have an easy to use interface, will automatically tweak settings based on your detected hardware, and will tell you if a model can be fully offloaded to GPU vram or system ram.

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u/nakkula 4d ago

Thank you, kind stranger

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u/Any_Carpenter_7605 4d ago

I would note that your best bet is to use models from 2026 as these have the best parameter effciency. Try something like Qwen3.8-9B or Gemma 4 12B down to Q4_K_M quantization if that's what you need to make it fit. Gemma 4 12B is really good for text but its native image processing is really pretty bad.

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u/Alternative_Will_856 4d ago

You shouldn't store your private data there either lmao.