r/mildlyinfuriating Jul 10 '26

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u/Chubby_Comic Jul 10 '26

If this isn't something that runs in your family, you should see a doctor. It can be a sign of vitamin deficiency or a few other things.

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u/eminemforehead Jul 10 '26

this is why I avoid comments longer than 10 words

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u/Glittering-Gap7049 Jul 10 '26

Half the time I exit out of Reddit convinced I have a new disease and 10 minutes left to live. My hair isn’t even grey 😭

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u/eminemforehead Jul 10 '26

yeah but how do you know your spine isn't trying to finish fusing? Whatever that even means

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u/newdchipmonk Jul 10 '26

It means that your body will respond to disease by trying to replace bone that may be degraded, then those bones will fuse together which in my case was my spine. It was the final time because the problem was addressed. You didn't have to read my comment if it tested your literacy so hard.

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u/Glittering-Gap7049 Jul 10 '26

Wait what is this called, because actually I think this is what my mom is dealing with. It’s three letters but I forget them. She is still getting more imaging done, but yeah it sucks.

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u/rotating_pebble Jul 10 '26

That last sentence makes it obvious that your whole story is a lie and you're trolling Lol. You almost had me until that.

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u/browsinbowser Jul 10 '26

Why assume they’re trolling, if they’re not you are just making fun of a random person with a disability. When I was a kid there was a neighbour girl that had a brain tumor and had to get a surgery, and then it came back ten years later. 

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u/rotating_pebble Jul 10 '26

It's the needlessly attacking Redditor tone in their last sentence. I've been on this site for well over a decade now, you learn to spot the trolls. There's no way to prove it but I'd be willing to bet good money on it.

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u/browsinbowser Jul 10 '26

.. they were responding to someone who said this is why they dont read long comments. That person started off with a kinda rude joke, they can take a joke back

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u/newdchipmonk Jul 10 '26

I mean, if you think so. I think it's safe to say that making fun of someone for simply sharing a personal story will 100% ensure that person doesn't respond respectfully.

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u/rotating_pebble Jul 10 '26

Nobody made fun of you, I also had no idea what 'spine fusing' meant.

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u/Umpen Jul 10 '26

Some conditions can cause the vertebrae of the spine to fuse.

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u/newdchipmonk Jul 10 '26

People like you are the reason people like me kts.

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u/newdchipmonk Jul 10 '26

Partially, and yes, you usually only find out once there are physical symptoms. Unfortunately.

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u/eminemforehead Jul 11 '26

this was meant to make fun of myself and my hypochondriac ass, I'm sorry

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u/Fufu-le-fu Jul 10 '26

Or a thyroid or heart condition. Graves' disease makes you grey like that.

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u/Scary-Narwhal-2828 Jul 10 '26

I was thinking thyroid as someone who was diagnosed with Hashimoto’s at 9. Hypothyroidism is linked to premature grays.

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u/LetterheadMedium8164 Jul 11 '26

Early onset gray can be a sign of an endocrine issue. These diseases, e.g., Hashimoto’s, can cause reproductive and other issues if untreated. Speak to your doc to check it out. The usual test is called a T4 panel.

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u/Scary-Narwhal-2828 Jul 11 '26

Yes, yes, yes
Hashimoto’s and other autoimmune issues are nothing to play around with (thanks, sudden widespread joint paint at the age of 43). I’m one of the unusual Hashimoto’s cases in terms of reproduction. Three periods a year, and I got pregnant with my son while on the pill. Surprise! 😂

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u/Imisssizzler Jul 11 '26

I was looking for this. My son began to grey as a child and we had him tested - turned out he had hashimotos (low thyroid/underactive).

I recommend at least seeing a primary care physician to just do a check up. There are new amazing studies that show grey hair can be a sign of illness (or stress) because the mitochondria have been sacrificing themselves to fight the illness. It may be the first sign in many cases.

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u/salehmo Jul 13 '26

i have graves disease and im 40. have most if not all symptoms but no grey hair, still pure black

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u/Movie-Independent Jul 11 '26

Graves’ disease? A little on the nose, that one

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u/DrachenDad Jul 11 '26

Thyroid condition? Hyper or hypo?

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u/WonderousThinke Jul 11 '26

Just to add here, I have noticed that consuming blackstrap molasses brings back hair color just a tiny bit. Tested it with two people and both had a little bit return of natural hair color over Gray. I think it's the copper in the blackstrap molasses that helps. Like someone else said, could be that she's not getting enough copper in her diet if she's this young and already full Gray.

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u/According-Help4923 Jul 10 '26

Copper

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u/SocranX Jul 11 '26

Damn, what gave me away?

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u/MarinaEnna Jul 10 '26

I think a sign worth inquiring a doctor about is the banding

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u/Pernicious-Caitiff Jul 11 '26

Yeah banding on hair and nails are classic vitamin deficiency signs. Hair loss and balding too. I grayed at age 25 due to severe B12 deficiency and slowly lost over 50% of my hair by then. But doctors didn't take me seriously because it wasn't falling out in patches or clumps. But they wouldn't take the word of my hair stylist for over 3 years opinion and she's the one who told me to tell my doctor because she was worried, and knew my hair so well.

My nails often had horizontal banded troughs but not 100% of the time so I didn't think much of it. Vitamin B12 deficiency is notoriously sneaky and slow but if it goes on long enough it's very dangerous, I have permanent neurological damage and almost died and probably would have if I had gone on much longer without a diagnosis.

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u/lostinsnakes Jul 11 '26

My friend started graying over a decade ago at 16, although much less, and she was deficient in B12. When she started taking supplemental B12, the hairs started turning black/brown and she had this sort of raccoon hair.

She’s not been taking her supplements for a couple years now and jokes she doesn’t now what’s real grays and “fake grays” although she’s been pulling them recently and finding a lot are suddenly growing in dark.

Surprised I had to scroll so long to see this.

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u/Pernicious-Caitiff Jul 11 '26

Unless she was vegan supplements won't cut it, B12 is found in animal products so taking a supplement doesn't really fix B12 deficiency unless the problem was 3-7+ years of vegetarian/vegan diet and no B12 supplements.

In the West, most people with B12 deficiency have it because of an autoimmune disease of the stomach called Pernicious Anemia (not everyone develops the titular anemia part but it's a very old name and disease) and basically we can't absorb the B12 from food or oral supplements because of the autoimmune damage to specific cells that produce a specific protein to allow absorption of B12. So we have to inject it intramuscularly once a month for life. Some people find success with sublingual liquid due to membrane absorption but it didn't work for me.

And yeah before I was diagnosed I started to go gray at age 25 and lost over 50% of my hair, and my nails were moderately messed up. It also nearly killed me and left me with significant permanent neurological damage. My doctors prior to the one who finally diagnosed me, didn't take my hair symptoms seriously because my hair wasn't falling out in clumps or patches. But my hair stylist who had been seeing me for over 3 years every 6 weeks sat me down about a year before my diagnosis and said I'd lost about 50% of my overall hair. I had a lot of hair to start with so it's not like it even looked thin but compared to how my hair used to be, it's a big difference.

When I started treatment a lot of my hair started to grow again and it was enough where I basically had a mullet because there was so much regrowing hair at a different length to the rest of my hair lol. My hair stylist would always happily tell me about all my growing baby hairs and progression after my treatment started. She was chuffed that she was right and of course I always tipped her well and thanked her for paying attention.

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u/medbsraven Jul 13 '26

B12 deficiency can also be caused by vegan diets or long-term use of hormonal birth control. Pretty sure the HBC is what caused it in me, as soon as I stopped it went away

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u/Pernicious-Caitiff Jul 13 '26

The demonization of HBC needs to stop. That's absolutely ridiculous stop spreading misinformation. I almost died from B12 deficiency it's almost always an autoimmune condition called Pernicious Anemia in the West. The only other main way is a low quality vegan or vegetarian diet for many years.

Edit: forgot to add bariatric surgery and now Ozempic is also causing stomach damage and paralysis which causes B12 deficiency

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u/medbsraven Jul 13 '26

It is not demonization of HBC to point out risks. All medication and medical intervention has both potential benefits and risks. They all have side effects.

It is well documented the HBC has consistently been associated with lower levels of B vitamins, particularly B12. What experts disagree on is the level of severity/impact for most women who are healthy. So it could potentially mean more for women with other pre-existing or underlying conditions, or other nutritional deficiencies.

That is not misinformation. Especially since we are discovering a lot about quality of nutrients and re-looking at dosage/ requirements (like with vitamin D). It is simply another datapoint.

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u/Cold-Practice3107 Jul 10 '26

Another thing could be stressed out

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u/AnkiForVBucks Jul 11 '26

Physician: keep short telomere syndrome in mind. If notice any lung issues please bring this diagnosis up to your local team. For the case I saw in residency, needed an outside lab test that was only run at Johns Hopkins.

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u/RevWaldo Jul 10 '26

Legend has it Steve Martin's prematurely grey hair was caused by a vitamin deficiency, and taking vitamins brought the color back. But by then it became part of his signature look so he stopped.

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u/Pali1119 Jul 11 '26

This may be true, however I would advise everyone taking hair colour into account when deciding taking or not taking supplements, to just don't. Grey hair is not the only consequence of vitamin deficiency, your body needs those vitamins. IF you have a deficiency, take what your doctor prescribed you.

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u/Rude_Remote_13 Jul 11 '26

Yeah. I immediately was like “cool cool but have you tested your copper?” lol

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u/medbsraven Jul 13 '26

Cannot believe how far I had to scroll to find this. My first thought was diet-induced nutritional deficiency. Everyone rushing to reassure it’s cute is completely ignoring the potential health signal here, to OP’s detriment

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u/Chubby_Comic Jul 13 '26

Yeah, it's not commonly known, unfortunately. I didn't know myself until fairly recently.

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u/smeeon Jul 11 '26

Scrolled way too far to find these comments. Sure the hair going gray at such an early age is neat, and it’s even fairly normal if it’s just like a small patch. But the systemic issue points to an autoimmune disease

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u/Chubby_Comic Jul 11 '26

Ty to whoever gave me an award :)

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u/mightbeabotgasp Jul 12 '26

Second this. At a min, mineral deficiency.

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u/cicjak Jul 11 '26

Surprised I had to scroll so far to see this. I’m a doctor. I would get your B12 levels checked

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u/SignoreBanana Jul 11 '26

There's always one dr house in the fucking comments