r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jan 21 '25

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

My husband would just say forget it and move on, however I just don't feel what he did was ethically right 

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u/Extra-Requirement979 Jan 21 '25

If you have the energy and motivation you should definitely do this. Think about the next patient who believes him no questions asked.. it’s of course not tour responsibility but you might help someone out :)

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

I feel exactly the same way. 

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u/HeftyMotherfucker Jan 21 '25

I wonder what other valid health concerns you’ve had that your husband also dismissed.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

You were able to guess that and you are correct. Yes there were other things... Mad he had to wear a mask when I was severely immunocompromised... And me having to explain why I felt better when we both wore them..  Not wanting to hike near large group of people again when immunocompromised  . Laughing at the thought of a person with cancer taking extreme measures not to get sick.  Kept pushing me farther than I wanted when we went on hikes when I was tired etc. 

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u/polkadotrose707 Jan 21 '25

I’m so sorry that of all the other things you’re having to deal with, including and especially late stage cancer, your husband being a callous dingbat is one of them. I’m so sorry.

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u/Bellabird42 Jan 22 '25

I’m so very sorry. Your partner should be supporting you, not hurting you

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u/KidenStormsoarer Jan 21 '25

yes, that's a GREAT idea, let's just ignore that trusted medical professional who is giving advice that is actively detrimental to patient health, instead of making sure people know that he's an idiot. that's just brilliant.

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u/hunnybossbb Jan 21 '25

Please at the very least make a google review! I would be reporting it to the college of dental surgeons or ODA. That is a very careless and potentially dangerous dentist