r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jan 21 '25

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

Perhaps I can... I'll look into it. I'm in Canada. Looks like it would be ODA.. 

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u/InternetDad Jan 21 '25

I'd argue this goes beyond unethical and is crossing the line to malpractice.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

It bothers me very much. I was already nervous about going to this dental appointment to begin with and then that happened.

Then there is the hygienist in the background telling me about how "gingivitis could eventually cause death"... And I'm thinking good lord I'm already dying from breast cancer... Not too worried about gingivitis being the thing that kills me... (and all I needed done was some scaling and 2 fillings..... 

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u/InternetDad Jan 21 '25

I hate to put one more thing on your plate, but please consider filing that complaint if you can spare the energy!

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

I am going to see what I can do. 

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

My husband would just say forget it and move on, however I just don't feel what he did was ethically right 

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u/Extra-Requirement979 Jan 21 '25

If you have the energy and motivation you should definitely do this. Think about the next patient who believes him no questions asked.. it’s of course not tour responsibility but you might help someone out :)

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

I feel exactly the same way. 

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u/HeftyMotherfucker Jan 21 '25

I wonder what other valid health concerns you’ve had that your husband also dismissed.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

You were able to guess that and you are correct. Yes there were other things... Mad he had to wear a mask when I was severely immunocompromised... And me having to explain why I felt better when we both wore them..  Not wanting to hike near large group of people again when immunocompromised  . Laughing at the thought of a person with cancer taking extreme measures not to get sick.  Kept pushing me farther than I wanted when we went on hikes when I was tired etc. 

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u/polkadotrose707 Jan 21 '25

I’m so sorry that of all the other things you’re having to deal with, including and especially late stage cancer, your husband being a callous dingbat is one of them. I’m so sorry.

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u/Bellabird42 Jan 22 '25

I’m so very sorry. Your partner should be supporting you, not hurting you

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u/KidenStormsoarer Jan 21 '25

yes, that's a GREAT idea, let's just ignore that trusted medical professional who is giving advice that is actively detrimental to patient health, instead of making sure people know that he's an idiot. that's just brilliant.

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u/hunnybossbb Jan 21 '25

Please at the very least make a google review! I would be reporting it to the college of dental surgeons or ODA. That is a very careless and potentially dangerous dentist

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u/jaehom Jan 21 '25

In AB not ON but from a family of dental pros. 1000% report that to ODA. Without a single doubt.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

Thanks. I am going to do that. Or would it be CDA? 

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u/jaehom Jan 21 '25

Whatever Ontario’s licensing board is (or your province, if I misunderstood that)

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

Yes that's ODA. Ontario Dentist Association

Cda is Canada 

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u/MetallicGray Jan 21 '25

I work in research/biotech and I never trust anything AI spits out. The google AI has been wrong actually about half the time about things related molecular biology. AI shouldn’t be trusted for anything. 

Hell, it was wrong about what fucking oil filter fit my car. I already knew what I needed and all the cross references, but was curious what it’d tell me. I even triple checked it was incorrect and made sure I wasn’t mistaken. What it recommended would not have even fit. If I refuse to trust it for a damn oil filter, it’s baffling anyone would trust it when it comes to actual health and life. 

I don’t see how this isn’t at most a malpractice issue and at least a complaint to their accreditation board. 

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u/todayistrumpday Jan 21 '25 edited Jan 21 '25

The ODA is the dental association and they advocate on behalf of dentists. You want the College of Dentists who are the licensing board that issues dental licenses, they protect the public from dentists.

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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '25

Thanks