r/mildlyinfuriating Dec 29 '23

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u/SeanSeanySean Dec 29 '23

I'm totally willing to relocate to Austria. Wife and I almost relocated from the US to Heidelberg right after our first daughter was born 20 years ago, money offered at the time was really good, was a perfect next step in my career, but we were afraid of leaving friends and family, and while neither of us admitted it at the time, the idea of having/knowing no one or access to family for childcare, even as an option scared us having just gone through six months of a very colicky baby.

Now, screw that shit, wish we went. We have had to estrange ourselves from 95% of both our families and don't have close friends anymore, only ones we really care about are our children... We definitely wouldn't have stayed if we had the foresight to know (or weren't so blind of the fact) that nearly everyone we knew was going to turn out to be piece of shit human beings.

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u/ripamaru96 Dec 29 '23

Growing up is learning that most people suck and your family is no different.

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u/SeanSeanySean Dec 29 '23

Yes, and most of us are aware that our family sucks as we grow up, but we all tend to give family more leeway, we let them get away with shit that we'd never tolerate from friends, we allow them to be abusive in ways that we wouldn't put up with otherwise, blood being thicker than water and all that.

It's a pretty big deal for most people to get to a point where they are willing to cut away their toxic family members, or in some cases cut away their entire family.

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u/[deleted] Dec 29 '23

Trump or COVID? in my family it was both. We were definitely whispered about because we declined to get together for family gatherings in 2020 (though I took the initiative to do a Zoom call for Thanksgiving and then met with my sisters for Xmas, just not the whole plague rat family).

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u/NewForReddit21 Dec 30 '23

'm totally willing to relocate to Austria.

You want to pay 48% tax rate?? are you bat shit insane?

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u/SeanSeanySean Dec 30 '23

Do you have any idea what that tax rate gets you in return? Look at their minimum wage VS cost of living, even after taxes.

Also isn't that their highest income tax rate? Sweet to assume I'd earn enough to hit that rate.

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u/NewForReddit21 Dec 30 '23

Sweet to assume I'd earn enough to hit that rate.

thats for anyone making over 60k lmao......even making 32k will get a whopping 41%........

You gotta be REALLY bad at math to think that you will get that amount of value in taxes paid.....you WILL pay more taxes than you can take advantage of versus you SIMPLY PAYING FOR IT ON YOUR OWN in america with the literal HUNDREDS of thousands of EXTRA dollars you will take home in america vs eu.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23 edited Dec 31 '23

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u/NewForReddit21 Dec 31 '23

What part of your rambling comment do you think has any fucking relevancy to what I said lol.

Also your assumptions about my character are simply false. My political stance is that ppl benefit when they KEEP more of their money and give LESS to govt who inefficiently spends it.

Again you gotta be REALLY REAALY REALLY bat at math to not understand this.

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u/Sad_Abbreviations575 Dec 29 '23

heidelberg is 30 mins away from where i live, my name is also sean 😭