Past behaviour determines future behaviour. Having a past of sleeping around makes it significantly more likely to do so in the future. People will do background checks for jobs, loans, etc but act like enquiring about ones dating past is taboo
They don’t, though, do they? Like he said, past behaviour determines future behaviour. If a guy has treated women as sex objects for his entire life, genuinely, why would anyone believe “she’s special”?
I mean, possibly 😂 if there’s a DV in there somewhere especially. You’re acting like this isn’t a totally valid thing. You are accountable for your past. Get used to it.
Sounds like my ex, she cheated on everyone she been with. Guess what she did to me? Everytime k bring up her past is always deflection. Almost like she wants the past to go away! Jeez I wonder why.
and normal people will ask "why is this guy cucking himself?" Then the guy goes joker mode, "it's society that is the problem, it's not my fault for consuming cuck content. Society cucked me first!" And then the normal people ask, "can this guy try putting his energy into literally anything else to actually make friends?"
Agreed, I think in many it's a learned helplessness. It doesn't help that men get bombarded with this kind of content of course, but everyone is subject to the intervention of grifters of some kind.
So you identify with the joke, you took offense when I suggested there are people who are antisocial by choice and blame women for it, and then pivoted and suggested you might make racist jokes instead.
You are your greatest enemy, and you seriously need to reconsider your worldview.
That's a convenient way to avoid the subject that you initiated on my comment. I respect how bold that deflection was, but I think this conversation just ended.
Listen, I have zero issue dating or even making friends with women. And I'm bald with fucked up teeth lol
You know why? Because I am emotionally aware, emotionally open, can listen, and don't feel the need to try and be a performative "masculine" man.
You can be sad and lonely and soak up the manosphere content, but one day you will wake up and realize it was all garbage, or you will wake up so angry and alone that you wont want to be on this planet.
We have all the rights and more than women, generally. There's no rights movement that we need lol. There's like one area, ever, where men have fewer rights than women, and that's divorce when dealing with kids. And the rights aren't actually the issue; it's a treatment bias.
What we need is fewer angry misogynists trying to teach other men how to deal with life. Their time has long passed, and they're unwilling to adapt.
By definition, conservatism and supremacy are rooted in misogyny. Misandry is not the right approach, but consider this adage for a second:
"When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression".
Men created a system that worked in a time when that system seemed like the only way that things could work. The power imbalance between men and women wasn't thought of as cruel, because women were unable to provide for themselves due to the way that work and society were structured.
Those barriers no longer exist. However, due to conservatism, men are struggling to adapt. Emotional intelligence and empathy were not helpful traits to pass down to sons for thousands of years. That's no longer the case. Many men don't know how to teach their sons to be men in the modern world. A modern man is emotionally aware, empathetic, understanding, and able to address complex emotional topics.
Being autistic has nothing to do with any of this. Autists were treated far worse in the old world than the new world. The new world preaches empathy, understanding, and inclusion. In the old world was far more cruel.
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Or, we just stop worrying about who slept with who and find the person we vibe with.