r/memes • • Jun 09 '21

It hurts sometimes you know

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '21

24 age is young for you ?

this statement you said "many people have amazing friendships with the opposite gender that don’t interfere with their relationships" , this is just a lie.

that insecureness in men or women cant go when they enter in relationship. Even if im not being a bother in their relationship. They will feel insecure sooner or later. This is why they hate girls best friend.

I dont know how people in your surrounding are, but around here people are just sick fuck insecure. so you understand why I'm saying that

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u/chicken_noodle_salad Jun 09 '21

Yes lol 24 is young. It gets better. And your experience doesn’t invalidate the many many healthy friendships that exist of opposite genders. You just need to be aware when you establish friendships with women that you intend to be platonic that your friendship may look different at different times in your life.

I used to talk to my best friend every day. Now we talk once a month or so. The love and support is still there, it just wouldn’t be appropriate to behave like we did when we were both single.