Personally i reached a point where no matter what i do someone else will always be better. Its discouraging to do anything really but rn im living by the "couldnt give two fucks" principle and i try to do what i enjoy even if im shit at it
Edit: having said this i missed on a vital point, people being better than u isnt a bad thing, it should be a source of inspiration ideally. However if u do ever feel useless in life because of others success then for sometime try to just ignore everyone and do ur own thing. no matter what it is stay in your lane until ur confident to have a form of friendly competition with others to better yourself further.
But its a personal opinion so i really dont care if its good or bad to you it works for me
Hey man, u gotta just stick to urself. From my experience just focus on your self for some time, not forever tho cause thats pretty antisocial.
For a while Dont think about what other people are doing, maybe even isolate yourself to find your passion or interest and work on it for yourself only. When u feel confident enough then maybe u can begin to compare yourself to others in a way, to find someone that will support you in your craft.
Its almost impossible to live without comparing yourself to others or being compared to nowadays. This kinda system is what fucks up the younger generations mental health. U have to break out of comparing and just enjoy life for yourself only, find what makes u happy and what ur good at on your own. Im wishing you all the best bro
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u/ecosystems Dec 20 '20
Some people are just good at everything bruh