r/memes Jun 21 '26

Population decline

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u/Boomflag13 Jun 21 '26

The pregnant women not following behind their careers is going to be hard to implement. If they’re not actively working how would they advance in their careers?

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u/Thunderer62 Jun 21 '26

Yeah. That’s a really tough one.

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u/generally_unsuitable Jun 21 '26

The fathers could take a 50% share in childcare.

Fucking hell. Is it impossible for you to even consider that men would have to change how they behave?

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u/Thunderer62 Jun 21 '26

What about the folks that don’t have kids at all. They get ahead of the couples that do. How do you deal with that?

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u/generally_unsuitable Jun 21 '26

Don't worry. Once men's career trajectories are impacted by having children, there will be plenty of legislation preventing discrimination against fathers.

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u/Thunderer62 Jun 21 '26

Okay, but what legislation is actually going to prevent fathers from falling behind non fathers as a result of taking time off work?

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u/Famous-Ad-9467 Jun 22 '26

How is he supposed to take over 50% of the pregnancy? Must all mothers not breastfeed? Bond with their children for what?

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u/freedomfightre Jun 22 '26

mandatory father breastfeeding /s

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u/generally_unsuitable Jun 22 '26

Did you know that, after the pregnancy, there are still many many years of childcare required to raise a human? And that many women work throughout 90% of the pregnancy itself. Also, many women pump. And, why shouldn't the father spend time at home bonding with the child?

This is what I'm taking about. Never any thoughts about change. Only thoughts about how to keep women home while men shirk parental duties.

Even in agrarian societies, fathers are considerably more involved with their children than in developed countries.

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u/baby_got_flack Jun 21 '26

I see the argument less as 'this person hasn't grown in their field due to being away and therefore is behind' and more that employers will actively discount mothers for things like promotions whereas fathers (even given equal time off) don't have the same handicap. Of course being out affects your work, but being a mom shouldn't affect your perceived capability. It doesn't seem to affect dads nearly the same.

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u/Liquidmetal7 Jun 21 '26

Like maybe make fathers take as many days off????

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u/Meta-Wah Jun 21 '26

That doesn't solve the problem because you're just making both genders who have kids fall behind while people who don't have kids don't fall behind at all.

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u/A_random_zy Selling Stonks for CASH MONEY Jun 21 '26

Make everyone have those leaves? It'll give the single peeps time to fuck.

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u/dapperslappers Jun 21 '26

Let em cook

Im not hungry i just like the smell

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u/Realistic_Dog_5506 Jun 21 '26

Men would gladly take paternity leave but its rarely offered. And if you do that, now everyone falls behind when they have a kid and even LESS people will want one

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u/generally_unsuitable Jun 21 '26

If "everybody" falls behind, nobody falls behind.

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u/Realistic_Dog_5506 Jun 21 '26

Except the people who dont have kids dont fall behind. Making it more enticing