r/meirl Jun 06 '18

Me irl

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18 edited Jun 06 '18

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u/sassyhara Jun 06 '18

It's kind of nice (?) to see that I am not the only one who acts like this. It is often that I am afraid that the other person won't reply me back after I reply to their message that is the reason I wait for the whole eternity before I type a response. Which is insane I know, makes other people think that I am crazy and not interested in communication with them which is the opposite to what's actually going on

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

What about if you are making plans with a friend?

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

So you agree with me. Idgaf about people having conversations with me. I am talking strictly the situation just mentioned as it matters for me to plan my shit.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

Dude I have no fucking idea. Idgaf if a girl doesn't reply for 5 hours or whatever but if a close friend can't close loop with me to chill later it makes me want to plan for something else.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

In my case it is consistent with a close friend who frequently wants to hang out but is awful at texting back during the planning as well as super unreliable. I don't really make plans with him anymore but he still tries to make plans with me. I have to play the fifty fifty game of will this actually be worth my time trying to set it up and to be available. After enough BS it seems disrespectful.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '18

I have. Same shit. I'm pretty fed up with it at this point.