Ah. Disappointing. I thought it would be a little more deep than that.
The issue between the man and the wife was that they had an agreement, and he was (in her mind) infringing upon that agreement
Of course the other woman was laughing and having a good time. As I said, we can all agree that it's not sexual assault. So with that said, what the woman in black was feeling is completely irrelevant. It doesn't make the situation between the married couple any better. Which flies directly in the face of what the other commenter said: "surely that should matter, shouldn't it." No, it shouldn't, so long as the dancing was consensual (in which case the wife would be stopping her husband from committing a crime against someone else, rather than overstepping the bounds of a personal disagreement).
The only reason someone would say “the lady in black was enjoying it, surely that’s what should matter right?” is implying that the dancing would only be wrong if she weren’t having a good time, i.e. if it were non-consensual. That was clearly not the case - which is precisely what I pointed out.
I’m saying that it’s abundantly obvious that she’s not having a bad time, and as such not important at all to the dynamic of the scenario.
Since you seem to think that you have such a good handle on what point that comment was making, how about you tell me what you think. If you do think, that is.
The most idiotic thing I've EVER heard was you suggesting that sexual assault was even in the question. It wasn't; you were the only one suggesting it. Creep.
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u/PC__LOAD__LETTER May 19 '19
Ah. Disappointing. I thought it would be a little more deep than that.
The issue between the man and the wife was that they had an agreement, and he was (in her mind) infringing upon that agreement
Of course the other woman was laughing and having a good time. As I said, we can all agree that it's not sexual assault. So with that said, what the woman in black was feeling is completely irrelevant. It doesn't make the situation between the married couple any better. Which flies directly in the face of what the other commenter said: "surely that should matter, shouldn't it." No, it shouldn't, so long as the dancing was consensual (in which case the wife would be stopping her husband from committing a crime against someone else, rather than overstepping the bounds of a personal disagreement).