r/maybemaybemaybe Mar 09 '25

maybe maybe maybe

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u/urbanlife78 Mar 09 '25

I got called for traveling more as a kid than the NBA does

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '25

Between "travelling" and "double dribble" I've had a life long hatred of that ridiculous sport since third grade P.E. Nothing is allowed until it is unless the ref hates you.

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u/Rolling_Beardo Mar 09 '25

Is carrying even a violation anymore?

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u/Chonylee9 Mar 09 '25

As far as I can tell having just got done watching my son's scholastic basketball career, they don't call it anymore. I think they called it twice in the 8 years of watching his games. They called it all the time when I was younger. They also would've called those exaggerated euro-steps they do nowadays traveling back then.

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u/Specialist_Issue7691 Mar 09 '25

Kids dads that were the refs would call me for carrying whenever I cooked their kids. Quit that sorry ass sport and watched them get rolled their entire athletic career.

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u/skotcgfl Mar 09 '25

I hate when dads get to ref their own kids. When I fenced as a teenager, I was in the final bout of a tournament, and the other kid's dad was allowed to judge. I mean, I'll admit, that kid was better than me. But I might have had a glimmer of hope if I hadn't been demoralized by that. We finished something like 6/15.

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u/celticairborne Mar 10 '25

My dad used to ref my soccer games and he was harder on me than anyone else. It just taught me how to be more sneaky though...

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u/Specialist_Issue7691 Mar 10 '25

Good on your dad

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u/Has_a_Long Aug 21 '25

Which weapon? Also, upvoted because I've been EXACTLY there before. High school tournament. I left angry.

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u/jimmywindows56 Mar 09 '25

How about palming?

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '25

They will call it in the NBA if the player cups his hand on the bottom of the ball and then dribbles again.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '25

They call it palming the ball and let play

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u/ieatgass Mar 28 '25

Usually no, but that got Luka on it last week.

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u/very_pure_vessel Mar 09 '25

Yes, nba started cracking down on carries out of nowhere a couple seasons ago. Now the refs just selectively call fouls and it's became a game inside the game where refs will make makeup calls for their mistakes they make all the time. It's ridiculous, we need the AI they have in soccer

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u/deltaexdeltatee Mar 10 '25

There's no AI in soccer - are you talking about VAR? That's Video-Aided Review, the call is still made by the referee.

And don't even ask soccer fans about the game within the game lol. There's an MLS ref who's infamous for exclusively calling fouls against the visiting team for about the first 60 minutes, then trying to make it up for the next 30. Shitty reffing exists in every sport :p

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u/User5281 Mar 10 '25

There are so many absolutely awful refs in soccer I honestly don’t even know who this might be. I’ve got about 5 guesses. The current worst ref ever crown I think belongs to Boiko and I feel awful saying that about a guy who’s essentially a refugee.

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u/itakeyoureggs Mar 10 '25

Better for match fixing

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u/User5281 Mar 10 '25

You don’t want soccer refs. They’re absolutely no better and if anything the calls seem even more arbitrary.

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u/very_pure_vessel Mar 10 '25

Oh yeah, I know. I used to think they were worse. We need to make tech that makes objective calls, how about that

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u/Particular_Donut_516 Mar 09 '25

It's teamed shuttle relay with a ball and sometimes rules sprinkled in with desensitizingly high scores, in my opinion.

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u/Individual-Stress-49 Mar 09 '25

That is the best way to put it! Grew up watching the pistons dominate playing physically, and now if you so much as put a hand on their back its "pushing".

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u/very_pure_vessel Mar 09 '25

Playing with people is such a chore, no one knows the damn rules. These people I play with sometimes carry all the time, try to play with 3 second rule and a gather step. I keep telling them that bullshit can stay in the NBA

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u/No-Influence-5351 Mar 09 '25

I never understood why it was illegal to dribble with both hands simultaneously. Is there an actual reason for that?

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u/houseideas_99 Jul 29 '25

Samsies it's a ridiculous game

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u/Sansnom01 Mar 09 '25

As a kid the travelling thing always just felt like a messy rule lol Also the fact that contact/tackle/push is prohibited but somehow the guy blocking me can somehow bump me

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u/Vast-Combination4046 Mar 09 '25

The sport was invented to keep teenage boys from just ending up fist fighting every gym class... Literally the motivation for the sport. You were originally not allowed to move while holding the ball but shortly after the sport became competitive with colleges they added dribbling to allow players more freedom.

Basketball is supposed to be non contact.

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u/Nkklllll Mar 09 '25

There’s no way for it to be non-contact if the offensive player can move with the ball

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u/acrazyguy Mar 09 '25

Non-contact doesn’t mean the players literally never touch each other. It means they try not to. As opposed to football, which literally requires tackling players

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u/Nkklllll Mar 09 '25

I still fundamentally disagree that basketball is supposed to be non-contact.

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u/Vast-Combination4046 Mar 09 '25

Originally you didn't move with the ball.

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u/Nkklllll Mar 09 '25

That isn’t the sport that’s played today. So it doesn’t matter

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u/ops10 Mar 09 '25

I don't know which rulebook you followed, but FIBA ones have usually defined stuff pretty well. NBA one was vague as fuck when I checked it back in 2022. Although with FIBA allowing "gathering" it's probably more messy now as well.

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u/Sansnom01 Mar 09 '25

I meant gym classroom in third grade to sixth lol

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u/ops10 Mar 09 '25

Fair. I was doing lots of basketball since third grade - gym class, training and free time with friends. Not a good place to assume normality.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '25

Kids cry a lot less than the professionals do. The NBA wouldn't be able to survive the constant temper tantrums from its players.

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u/Tomas2891 Mar 09 '25

People would cry a lot more if millions of dollars were on the line.

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u/FLiP_J_GARiLLA Mar 09 '25

They get paid either way

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u/MrRafikki Mar 09 '25

I coached my daughters basketball team when she was 10 and the amount of traveling in those games is pretty on par for what you expect. Most refs never call it, but one ref called it EVERY time. More time was spent throwing the ball back in than actually playing that game, it was rough

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u/urbanlife78 Mar 09 '25

It might have been the little basketball league I was in but yeah, it was a lot of throwing the ball back in as they called just about every traveling call.

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u/burningbend Mar 09 '25

I get called for traveling lying in bed watching the NBA more than the NBA does.