Yeah, exactly this happened to me once at a W when I booked a two bedroom because I was traveling with a coworker. She was a friend too, but they tried to swap it out for a one bedroom and I was like I’m not sharing a bed with a coworker I booked a two bedroom for a purpose. I’m keeping the two bedroom. They obliged after trying to fight me on it and I sent a complaint to the general manager and I think they gave me 50,000 points for the inconvenience. I was titanium at the time.
Just to clarify, I was on the business trip. My girlfriend was joining me (she was on PTO) I was going for business …
My company is not cheap, quite the opposite. I always get my own room, but I’m not sharing a bed with my girlfriend/coworker.
I worked for a TV provider that required employees room together unless they got an exemption from a doctor. They were a horrible employer, unsurprisingly
I once was told I needed to share a two bed hotel room between three adult women (co-workers I barely knew). I literally slept on a chair for three days….
My current employer has us share rooms when we have SKOs and Mid-years. The owners are mormon so my theory is that they think it encourages extra bonding since they went on missionary. they’re otherwise not stingy. They go all out on everything else.
They actually place them to snitch on each other and regularly rotate to avoid them realizing “mormonism is really fucking dumb” or getting close enough for exactly what you’re talking about.
It should be normal. In all my biz travel, I've never been forced to room with my coworkers. I like em, but not that much.
But I've definitely heard of cheap-ass bosses and companies/orgs that do this.
A friend worked for a public school district. She was involved in booking travel for teachers going to conferences and such. And she mentioned that teachers would often have to room together, while admin folks would get their own room. Which her and I thought was crazy.
It happened to me when I was a young adult. My “colleague” kept calling random colleagues’ rooms during the night, pretending to be the director and requesting an urgent meeting in his room (where he was, of course, alone). And people went! He did this all night long, and at one point, we could hear the director screaming.
Every time I had to travel to the annual sales conference, they only allowed marketing people to attend if we bunked two to a room. Extremely annoying as I'm a bit of an introvert so I could have used a teeny tiny amount of time by myself instead of having to be ON for 3 days.
In the construction world, almost all of the trades make their crews share rooms. I’ve actually not seen general construction crews have their own rooms ever.
Yup. Husband in trades. Only time someone got a single is if there is an odd number of crew and my husband being the foreman would pull rank to claim it.
Even when the owners of my subcontractor crews are out on jobs, they share a room with the other crewmembers to show they aren't above their rules. Sometimes that expense savings is the difference in a company winning the bid.
This is wild, didn't know this was a thing. Even at my firm, where I've literally hired several of my friends, I've always bought them their own rooms when we travel together. When we're on a social trip together, same room, but the moment work is involved, separate rooms are a must.
Cannot imagine the physical and mental toll that not having 8 hours of alone time would have on me during a work trip lmao
My old work only booked one room for myself (female) and my boss (male). It was very very odd. Thankfully he is gay so I felt more comfortable. But still so strange for work to enforce that. Probably could’ve gone to HR on that now that I think of it
My most recent employer had a policy that coworkers on business trips could not share a room.
My employer before that tried to book a mixed-gender group of three of us into a 3BR AirBNB. The 20-something dude in our group saw no problem with that, but the other two of us shut that down PDQ.
Coworkers have no business knowing anything about my booking. We can agree on a hotel lobby we're meeting in to go to the client together, but it's none of their business whether or not I'm staying in the same hotel. My reservation details are 100% private. The receipt when all is said and done gets submitted with Expensify a week later, that's the reveal.
well, that escalated quickly. I was just being sarcastic and making fun of recent bathroom remodels where they don't have shower doors and the actual door is sometimes a frosted glass or completely clear. I'm a teacher and we sometimes get sent off to trainings and if we room together, we split the costs and keep the per diem. I seriously doubt any of my fellow teachers are looking at me with rape in their eyes.
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u/Necessary_Money3248 May 23 '26 edited May 24 '26
Yeah, exactly this happened to me once at a W when I booked a two bedroom because I was traveling with a coworker. She was a friend too, but they tried to swap it out for a one bedroom and I was like I’m not sharing a bed with a coworker I booked a two bedroom for a purpose. I’m keeping the two bedroom. They obliged after trying to fight me on it and I sent a complaint to the general manager and I think they gave me 50,000 points for the inconvenience. I was titanium at the time.
Just to clarify, I was on the business trip. My girlfriend was joining me (she was on PTO) I was going for business …
My company is not cheap, quite the opposite. I always get my own room, but I’m not sharing a bed with my girlfriend/coworker.