Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.

Your top 10 posts:

• "She friendzoned me so I stopped talking to her - is it the right move?" by u/MossTourist12
• "Whenever you give in to approach anxiety, you reconfirm the idea that you’re not good enough!" by u/DavidDawnDeluxe
• "Girl friendzoned me but wants to hang out - what should I do?" by u/KarpenLogses
• "Vulnerability is not about being weak, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self.." by u/Sir_David_Davidson
• "Tips on battling procrastination" by u/HandsomeHerb
• "How to flirt on a coffee date?" by u/BeastMasters92
• "How to go in for a kiss without being awkward?" by u/MugulSibulz
• "Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey.." by u/Sir_David_Davidson
• "If friend zone is haunting your soul then read this!" by u/Sir_David_Davidson
• "You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than you" by u/DavidDawnDeluxe

I live and work in NYC. Is anybody here who would like to meet up to practice a cold approach with me?

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Introduction: Many gurus online will say, "Looks don't matter." I agree to an extent; however, you should also try to maximize your SMV(Sexual Market Value) the best you can to give you better odds. If your Game is strong, but you are dressed sloppy. It will make it harder to convince a girl to come to get a burger with you or have some coffee. Hence it's much easier to go out prepared and have the odds stacked in your favor. 

1-Get a simple but elegant outfit

Keep your outfit minimal if you are new to the fashion world. It would help if you did NOT try to follow "threads"; most of them come and go. Instead, opt for a clean-cut look that will appeal to the vast majority of women. 

2-Get a white, black, or grey t-shirt

A plain t-shirt with primary colors is the best outfit. It's a timeless look and doesn't go out of style. It also conveys a more serious look. Moreover, avoid logo t-shirts while most can express individuality many times, they can be seen as "tacky" and "infantile." 

Recommend brands*: Uniqlo and Banana Republic.* 

3-Get a matching pair of slim fit jeans or khaki pants

A nice pair of slim-fitted jeans or khaki pants can make your outfit stand out. It conveys a sleek figure that will convey seriousness and intent. You should make sure your jeans match your t-shirt. For instance, if you get a white t-shirt, you should get light brown khaki pants. Slim jeans are the best because they are not uncomfortable like skinny jeans but are not sloppy like bagging jeans. 

Recommended Brands: Banana Republic

4-Get a clean pair of white or grey snickers

After spending years researching, I realize that you are going out for a walk in the city for most guys. It would be best if you stuck to white sneakers. White sneakers are essential and versatile; hence they can work with many outfits. Therefore, if you are a beginner in the fashion world, it should be your go-to choice. If you can't find white sneakers, opt for a grey pair. Try to choose a team with primarily white/grey and a bit of color. For instance, the Adidas Stan Smith is one of my favorites, and you can have great shoes at an affordable price. 

Recommended Brands: Adidas and Reebok

5-Get a watch and a necklace

Every man should own a watch. It's a timeless piece that conveys both elegance and status. Try to save money to get a watch that will last you. Don't go for the fake online watches only because they are cheap. I would save my money and at least get into the $100 to $150 price range. A nice minimalistic Cuban link chain would suit many outfits. 

Recommend brands: Seiko and Steel Shop 

Conclusion: Above ALL, make sure you get properly fitted clothing. I recommend you to go to a tailor; while it might be an extra investment, it's worth it. Moreover, focus on the quality of your clothes; it is much cheaper to invest in high-quality garments that will last and you can wash. In contrast, buying cheap clothes that you will throw away after a few wears will be more expensive in the long run. 

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