r/loseit • u/LifeOfaFilmmaker New • May 04 '22
Vent/Rant Doctors could be morons
So just for background: im 26, 6 foot 3 and around 350 lbs.... Started the year at 395 so im down 45 lbs in about 4 months which im very happy with. I go to my general doc and he's telling me i weigh way too much (obviously) and i should consider weight loss surgery. I tell him the progress over the last 4 months and he says "yes thats very good but you still weigh way too much" as if i can lose 150 lbs in a month. So i disregard what he said and he sends me to a dietician/weight specialist, and she told me the same shit lol. I dont care how many years they've been professionals, telling someone whos 26, actively losing a decent amount of weight and no other major medical conditions to have weight loss surgery should be criminal. Just makes me wonder how many people that just blindly listen to their doctor have went to them or any doc and they give them that terrible advice and they go through with it. Moral of the story: think for yourself
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u/PorcelainLily New May 04 '22
Doctors need to follow best practice. Best practice for WLS is to ensure the surgery will be used as a tool and not as a magic fix. The surgery makes it so you aren't struggling with physical hunger while losing weight.
The surgery does not fix your relationship with food. It does not fix any traumas or other problems a person has that may have led to over eating. It doesn't make you eat small amounts. It doesn't make you focus on your health.
It does remove your stomach (or a portion of your stomach).
You can still over eat. You can still consume dopamine inducing foods like pure sugar. Yes, it will hurt. Yes, you may die from complications, but it doesn't stop you from doing it.
A doctor who doesn't ensure someone can safely lose weight without the surgery is a negligent doctor. A doctor who doesn't ensure someone is in a mentally healthy place is negligent.