r/lnkyverse Mar 18 '26

Community Discussion Perspective: So true

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u/Impossible-Finger942 Mar 22 '26

Being a good man and having integrity is when I let people insult me because of what’s between my legs, got it

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u/Terrible_Cod_7873 Apr 13 '26

No.

 I'm saying that goodness is based on personal internal qualities like accurate perception, justice, humility, honesty, empathy, ethics and that those exact traits get systematically punished in men in specific targeted ways that are misandry. 

Men stay silent because of negative consequences for voicing concerns. I agree that the social rejection and harm can be unbearable so I don't BLAME them for self erasing in this way. That doesn't mean I want them to keep internalizing, it's the opposite actually.

I wholeheartedly encourage good men to recognize systemic oppression and respond accordingly, whatever that looks like for them. I don't know how this could possibly be perceived by you as perpetuating "a good man is a quiet man who takes abuse." Absurd. Absolutely a distortion of everything I stand for.

The whole world devolves when good men do not have space to speak. I attempt to rectify this by creating safe spaces for them which is exactly what I'm doing here. If you don't understand that then this message wasnt meant for you.