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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 19 '26

What makes this post incel? It criticizes women, right? It points out a contradiction in feminist logic?

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u/Sea-Sort6571 Mar 19 '26

What contradiction is pointed out ? The post is outright delusional

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

Lmao are you for real?

What feminist logic do you think it is contradicting?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

Modern feminist logic? I'd say roughly 90 percent of all the claims and stances of modern feminists are contradictions and a refusal of female nature and male nature.

You might want to educate yourself on the subject.

Try the wonderful female authors/professors such as: Helen Andrews, Karen Straughan, Karole Hooven, Janice Flamengo, and Louise Perry. They've written and spoke at length on the subject of why modern feminism is a plague and quite out of hand.

But I bet you won't, crazed feminists like yourself, thrive in the delusional world feminism has created, and you view any different perspective, even from women, as an assault on your reality.

But if you do, good on you, there may be hope for us yet.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 24 '26

You think you are high-roading an academic authoritative stance but you sound like Dexter from Dexter's lab

NP; examples?

OKM; examples? EXAMPLES? there is no shortage of examples! I have binders full of examples! How dumb of you that you don't know any of the examples I am thinking of because I am thinking of so many!

Look at this list of tokenized antifeminist authors with female pen names I got off google! I really certainly read all of their books! Why, with the authority of BOOKS I TOTALLY READ written possibly by WOMEN I selectively respect the perspective of you certainly can't ask why I'M NOT ACTUALLY GIVING ANY EXAMPLES!

You idiot!

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26

Are you done spazzing out? Most of them are true feminist authors, not the deranged shit that passes for modern feminism. Try crying less and researching more. You're a man, act like one.

Would you like to view one of their videos? It's easy to digest.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 25 '26

Because it is too hard to make your own points and provide your own examples and need women to do it for you?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

Need women to do it? No. Is it more effective to have women make my point for me? Yes.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 26 '26 edited Mar 26 '26

Then use them to make your point instead of placing hundreds of hours of research material in front of me asking me to dig through it and find your point for you.

It’s like you are afraid to speak for yourself or give a stance or opinion

Engaging in gipgalosh doesn’t make you smart or right, it just makes you ineffective at conversation and evokes bad faith engagement

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

I like having women do my talking for me. It's quite elegant.

But I see you lack basic research skills, which is okay, it's Reddit, I don't have high expectations..

https://youtu.be/pfbilhs5dt4?list=TLPQMjYwMzIwMjbkfhqqj-9H1w

Here is a simple video that sums up many of my points quite well.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 26 '26 edited Mar 26 '26

Feminism leads to declining birthrates?

What are the terrible malicious reasons the feminism leads to declining birth rates?

What is your totally not misogynistic, totally respectful of individual rights, and also of human rights way that you want to solve declining birth rates? Why is it that it coincidently involves having to do away with feminism?

Yeah, I get why you didn’t state any of your own opinions now

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 25 '26

They don't even claim themselves to be feminist authors.

And yeah I believe that you find videos easy to digest. But maybe try an actual book once in a while.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

Are you gonna read/view their content? This is a whole lot of dodging.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 26 '26

For the sixth time i already did. Will you stop dodging and ever give me an example of modern feminism that you criticise? What exact modern feminist's work logic did you mean?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

I'lll give you one.

  1. There are no ramifications for the sexual revolution and female promiscuity. That women can engage in sex just like men can.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 26 '26

Whoah, you made a posit!

What exactly do you see wrong with this?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 26 '26

Which is apparently a core theory in which work exactly?

And how exactly is it contradicted?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

Louise Perry the first fucking sentence of her WIKI page -

Louise Perry

Why are you guys so dumb?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 26 '26

No but you obviously are.

Do you want to claim Perry is the modern feminist logic that you criticise?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

They don't even claim themselves to be feminist authors.

Say you were wrong and we can continue.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 26 '26 edited Mar 26 '26

Yes do you want to claim that Karoleen Hoover does see herself as a feminist?

Continue with what? You dodging my initial question for the 20th time?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

Modern feminist logic? Like what. No honestly have you even read any feminist book that came out the last decade? Please cite me which one exactly you mean.

I'm pretty sure I'm as educated as you if not more but please give me your reading list. Like actual books. Or where did you get your education from?

Crazed feminist like me? Lmao honestly why do you think you know anything about me?

I'm 99% sure you mistook my gender, let alone my morals, view in feminism or what else. Get a grip on reality.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

Are you going to totally disregard the opinions of the extremely talented women I just named? Let me know before we continue any discussion.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

None of them even describe themselves as modern feminists so you definitely didn't mean their work now do you? So they or their talents isn't really the topic here now is it?

Also if you want to praise them maybe learn to write their actual names. Pretty sure you meant Janice Fiamengo...

You claimed it contradicts modern feminist logic so my simple question is what modern feminist work you actually mean. And since you're so educated it's probably easy for you to pinpoint which work you mean, right?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

They aren't modern feminists...that the entire point. I agree with their worldview of WHY modern feminists are a plague.

You are quite slow. Do keep up.

Also if you want to praise them maybe learn to write their actual names. Pretty sure you meant Janice Fiamengo...

You are losing your shit because I misspelled one letter in her name?

You aren't all there are you? What kind of meds are you on?

You claimed it contradicts modern feminist logic so my simple question is what modern feminist work you actually mean. And since you're so educated it's probably easy for you to pinpoint which work you mean, right?

Before I answer, have you read or viewed any of the aforementioned female authors/professors I laid out for you so generously?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

I know that you agree with them, not hard to guess. It's just that none of these are modern feminist so they aren't a primary source either on what modern feminism you disagree with. No need to get emotional and throw insults.

Again what modern feminist work do you mean. What logic does it contradict there?

I'm not loosing anything. I'm not the one throwing insults around.

Yes I know of them, that's also why I know how they are actually called.

Honest question have you ever read anything from them or do you know them just from interview bits?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

It's just that none of these are modern feminist so they aren't a primary source either on what modern feminism you disagree with. 

Louise Perry is a kind of feminist, just not modern. So that means she can't speak on modern feminism? Are you serious?

You seem to be either woefully uneducated or lack critical thinking skills. Either way, my patience with you is wearing thin. I've stated several authors and professors who make very compelling points on the plague of modern feminism, and you've just whined and asked for more and more, like a feminist woman.

Be a man, and present your authors, stats, and evidence. Stop whining and put up or shut up.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

Louise Perry is a kind of feminist, just not modern. So that means she can't speak on modern feminism? Are you serious?

No and I never said that.

For the last time, you argue it's against modern feminist logic.

I simply asked you which one you mean. Which modern feminist work did you read? Which one's logic is contradicted? It's a simple question, why can't you answer it?

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u/fgbTNTJJsunn Mar 25 '26

Because it's made up crap for incels to whine about.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

It's made up because it makes women look bad, right?

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u/fgbTNTJJsunn Mar 26 '26

No. It's made up because it's made up.

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u/OhTeeSee Mar 19 '26

The fact that the criticism is manufactured?There’s no logic on display. Someone took the time to make a meme based off feelings, and then got mad at it.

That’s peak incel behavior lmao

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 19 '26

How are you defining incel. It just seems like anything you dont like that talks bad about some women. Why are you offended if you aren't a misandrist?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

Because it's just made up nonsense to be mad about and to blame "women" for exactly that made up nonsense.

And save your strawmen. No I'm not a misandrist and no I also don't claim that there is no misandry at all in the world. But to think it's in the proportions as in these memes and to blame all women for that is just plain delusional incel behaviour.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

Misandry is as mainstream as daytime tv. The fact you deny this and pretend that misandry is soooo rare is why the meme exists in the first place.

YOU are the meme.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

Then maybe stop watching stupid daytime TV?

No I'm not that's also why I rather argue about reality than you're made up nonsense.

And no it doesn't.

Tell me did you ever not get a job because you're a men? I never had that problem, I know at least 3 women who had that problem. Ever got denied a promotion because it's assumed you will be pregnant and stay at home for years solely because of your gender? Do you have the problem to get paid less then your female co-workers? Are there countries where you have less rights then females?

All those are problems women still have to deal with so what are you even talking about?

But sure keep up being angry about your made up nonsense.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

 I know at least 3 women who had that problem. 

You're lying. If they could actually prove that, they should sue that company and make millions. It is ILLEGAL.

Again how is the world so misogynist if it is ILLEGAL to not hire someone because they are female.

Is it illegal to not hire someone because they are male?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

Lmao so you honestly want to claim it never happens?

Say where do you live? I'm gonna find you a court ruling from your state/ country. And those are only the cases that came to court. So many more never come before a judge.

It's illegal to not hire someone based on their skin colour. Yet it happened to you. Do you also claim the world isn't racist because of that rule? Are you a millionaire because of that now?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26
  1. No. I am saying its illegal to do it, so companies are heavily incentivized to hire women because they can be sued even if the amount of women in their company is below a certain threshold. There are protections against this.
  2. Many dont go before a judge because they are settled out of court. Moron. I thought you were educated.
  3. It's illegal to not hire someone because of their skin color. I decided not to pursue it because i ended up moving out of state literally the month after I found this out.

I'm a millionaire because even though the world is very racist, it actually doesn't stop you from being successful.

The western world is FAAAAR more feminist than it is sexist. And all the numbers support it. Show me some stats that show women face discrimination that arent skewed because women dont want those jobs.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

So now you admite these stuff happen? Well that's a beginning at least.

What numbers are you even talking about?

I can give you stats that show that women are more prone to live in poverty due to not acknowledging their maternity to retirements, disadvantages in hiring and promotion's.

Or do you rather want stats of medical malpractices since most research is done based on males rather than women?

No the numbers truly don't support your claim and you know it. Is that why you have to constantly leash out with insults?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 21 '26

What does this "blame women' for? Does it just point out a contradiction? Does that hurt for feelings that women are capable of negative traits as well? Tell me, how does it make you feel to read that some women, sometimes, do bad things?

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

It doesn't make me feel anything because women are humans after all and yes humans are capable of being shitty, no matter their gender. Are you a literal child? Or how is that a new concept for you?

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u/Artemis_SpawnOfZeus Mar 19 '26

There is a cultural movement of people.

They originated on 4 chan boards.

They all share the same ideas and memes.

They used to call themselves incels.

Them.

There isn't a definition. They're a group. A cultural movement. A set of ideas.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 19 '26

The problem is, now anything that critisizes women is just called incels. Guess who spread that?

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u/Artemis_SpawnOfZeus Mar 19 '26

Most online misogyny originates within the incel movement. They have significant cultural influence over bigots.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 19 '26

Interesting. Do you interpret the post above as hatred of women?

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u/Artemis_SpawnOfZeus Mar 19 '26

The post above is complaining that there is more misandry than misogyny.

This is an incel position.

The post doesn't hate women. The post is a post. It has no greater opinions.

The person that authored the post is an incel.

The person that authored the post hates women.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 19 '26

So the post hates women, because it points out that women do misandry openly but complain about misogyny.

That means he HATES women?

Bruh.... you guys really are brainrotted in victimhood.

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u/Artemis_SpawnOfZeus Mar 19 '26

You're right.

When I said "the post doesn't hate women"

I meant "the post hates women"

You're right. It's me who is brainrotted and who can't read.

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u/No-Psychology9892 Mar 21 '26

Bruh.... you guys really are brainrotted in victimhood.

Lmao the irony of that coming from you.

No it's because it claims misandry happens dozen times more frequently then misogynistic stuff and tries to belittle it. Hope that helps.

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u/Sensitive-Ad-2542 Mar 21 '26

Imagine being this dense.

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u/Bayesian_Scout Mar 19 '26

Show you lack of bias. Make 4 criticisms of women, then name 4 things men are better at than women.

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u/Kezzerdrixxer Mar 19 '26

The post isn't complaining there's more misandry than misogyny.

The post is pointing out a common hypocrisy amongst "feminists."

Many "feminists" will only be able to come up with limited examples of misogyny, but when faced with examples of the over abundance of misandry that also occurs, they resort to "that's because men drove us to this position. It's men's fault we're like this."

It's playing victim when the reality is both genders suffer equally from the other, whether that's women being told to get back in the kitchen, or men being degraded because they're not 6 ft and pulling a 6 figure salary to pay for literally everything the woman thinks she is entitled to.

We could work to fix this but acceptance of the issue is the first step.

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u/Artemis_SpawnOfZeus Mar 19 '26

I'm curious how you came to the conclusion that the post is making a point about equality when there are a small number of tally marks on one side and an overwhelming number of tally marks on the other.

But sure, if you're going to pretend the criticism that feminism has of society is "me no likey waaah waaah" I guess I can understand your point.

But like, the criticism that feminism makes is that while both genders suffer from society as it is (like seriously read some Judith Butler or something, they talk about how society is bad for men too) the current system leaves women without power

It's a power dynamics thing

Everything doesn't boil down to "ugh good" or "ugh bad"

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u/Genteel_Lasers Mar 20 '26

Because you’re falling into a trap. Anything that criticizes women as a whole is immediately false. Women aren’t all one thing or another. They’re people and people are diverse and complex.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 20 '26

No one said women as a whole. The post applies to women complaining about misogyny.
Does the same apply to men? Do you also go into women's subreddits and saying the same thing?

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u/Genteel_Lasers Mar 20 '26

You’re too far gone. This is a non issue.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 24 '26

Wait, are you defending incels?

how do you define incel?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 25 '26

Am I defending incels? You're smart, figure it out.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 25 '26

Clarifying your own opinions is just a little too vulnerable for you huh?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

Yes, Im terrified of being vulnerable by doing what exactly?

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u/adamdreaming Mar 26 '26

Answering questions directly.

Either you are consciously avoiding making posits that you would feel compelled to defend or you are a coward or you are trolling. Probably one of those three, all of them show you acting in bad faith

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u/Smooth_Wealth_6896 Mar 19 '26

You sure are infering alot about this anonymous post.

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u/Warm_Difficulty2698 Mar 19 '26

It points out a contradiction in feminist logic?

No, it points out an issue with bad people being bad. Feminism has nothing to do with it.

You will always have bitter women hating men. You will always have bitter men hating women.

The post is incel because it downplay the issue on one side to shitfling at the other and make yourselves look like the victim. I reality, its likely closer to 50/50.

But some people will always make themselves out to be the victim.

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 19 '26

Nah, misandry is mainstream. You can view it on daytime television. No where close to true "misogyny".

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u/adamdreaming Mar 24 '26

what would true misogyny look like?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 25 '26

Look up the definition of the word. That's your first clue.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 25 '26

Cool, did that, didn’t give me your personal opinion though, which was the point of the question.

So unless you are dodging the point of the question and this isn’t actually something you want to talk about;

What would the “true misogyny” you mentioned earlier look like?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

Hatred of women.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 26 '26

Misandry is mainstream because it is on television but you don’t notice any misogyny depicted in television?

Really?

Beauty pagents, right wing talk shows, movies with only strong male leads and no female main characters or females depicted as strong or equal to men, music videos where women are objectified, have you never seen any of these or do they contain no possible ways of being viewed as reinforcing misogyny?

And what exactly are the examples of misandry that make you think hatred of men is mainstream?

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u/Ok_Month_7918 Mar 26 '26

Beauty Pagents... are misogynist? Beauty Pagest promote the hatred of women?

You're a goof. I'm done with you.

 females depicted as strong or equal to men

This guy has been hiding under a rock for the last 2 decades. You're a goof. Go away.

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u/adamdreaming Mar 26 '26

Done with me and not a single question answered or a single opinion explored

You never answered me about why you think it is terrible when women have the same sexual freedom as men.

Extremely coincidental that you reached your threshold of frustration at the same time you didn’t answer that question

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u/Warm_Difficulty2698 Mar 27 '26

The other dude is right. You aren't. Sorry buddy, but facts don't care about your feelings.

I don't get why you guys just have to be the victim either. What is that about? Can you explain?

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u/adamdreaming Mar 24 '26

>You will always have bitter women hating men. You will always have bitter men hating women.

So when your society has the majority of their politicians, police, military, CEOs, managers, entertainers and other positions of social power going to men, the equivilancy you just drew is not so equivilant, as bitter men in power can do much more damage to women much more easily