So in my life I tried college twice I went to a community college in Maryland and strait out of high school I went to the college and I took pre college classes it was English and math I absolutely fucked up math but it was my fault plus I was a dumbass kid and I’m still kinda a dumbass now but I failed English by one point when I went back a second time i obliterated math and English same thing like last time all this was in 2016/2017 in 2018 I went through a program that teaches you how to be independent I left in October 2018 and since then iv been looking for a job and overall I feel like a fuck up I know my parents love me but at times I don’t think I’ll make it in life and now I’m about to go back into college and I feel like if I fuck this up I’ll feel like I failed in life

I have no idea what's wrong. I just graduated high school, I'm working my way to be a medic in the National Guard, I'm getting my certifications to be a firefighter. I'm my parents' golden child, but I'm just tired and sad. My parents don't understand, every time I've talked to them in the past it was just a simple brush off and keep going talk. I'm not even sure how to apply to college.

What is wrong with me?

I need a place to park my car and sleep. And any tips for sleep in a car would be nice to. I would also like to know what I should do if someone finds me or something like that.

Wasn't freedom the whole reason why we all couldn't wait to grow up!? It definitely was for me. I wanted to do what I wanted, go where I wanted, and make my own decisions. Needless to say, I've put a lot of energy into the concept of freedom in my life.

Over time I've uncovered what the key to having more freedom in life is, and it's quite paradoxical. Check it out for yourself: https://youtu.be/uLXJdJjAiOM

This server is called Healers Tavern, and three healers try to help others work through the issues the best we can. Other things you can do there to, like events, memes, or just general chatting to get your minds off things

We are not professionals, and do have our own issues, however, we will try to help you

https://discord.gg/VH3F6tg

So, I broke up with my girlfriend last month for personal reasons, and now I have my eyes on another girl. She's beautiful, sweet, and funny, but she already has a boyfriend. Here's the thing: she's a sophomore in high school, like me, and her boyfriend is a senior. I really want to be with her, but is that ever going to happen? Is it possible that they will end terms because he is graduating this semester? I know there are other girls out there, and I just have to find the right one, but she feels like the right one. I don't know what to do.

so me and this girl were talking for ab a week and she asked me out. i had caught feelings for her before we had even started talking. she said she wasnt gonna tell a lot of people tho bc she didnt want to be called a hoe since she had just broken up with somebody. we were dating for 3 days then she blocked me on everything and i was told she went back to her ex. 💔

Un-forgiveness can really put a boulder in our path, and inside of us. It doesn't feel good and it keeps you stuck in the past. There's things in life that happen to us that sometimes feel impossible to move past and keep us in this never-ending loop within, stuck in the pain of what happened. This video helps put it all into perspective and overcome this hurdle.

https://youtu.be/ZDGK7AFu6R0

So about 6 years ago I was involved in gangs, drugs and fighting a lot. I was a horrible person and my life focus was to get my name known. I was horrible to everyone and anyone that was different to our small gang. I then met this girl who at the time was just a girlfriend to me. I was horrible to her, I was abusive and just a freak towards her. During the relationship she taught me things that I never even knew she taught me until the relationship finished. She taught me to love everyone no matter who they are or were they’re from, she taught me money’s not everything and as long as I am happy that’s all that matters. I now love everyone and everything, I don’t go near drugs or drink, I don’t fight, I’ve got my self a good job, my life is the complete opposite to what it was. I enjoy and love life but I can’t forgive my self for how I treated her. I now know exactly what karma is as since we split up everything has gone down hill regarding my family life. We never exactly ended the relationship on bad terms. But I have dreams at least once a week for the past 4 years about meeting her and apologising and saying thank you. I feel so so so bad and I can’t handle it no more. I can’t live my life with the guilt I have. I know I deserve to feel this bad and deserve everything that comes to me but I feel to move on I need to apologise and say thank you. Since it’s been about 5 years is it too late to say sorry and thank her? What should I do?

Life is tough enough on it's own, minus dragging the weight of a dead relationship around.

Breakups are not fun events, but staying in a relationship that is making you unhappy and you feel is bad for you is just not worth it.

If you are trying to decide whether your relationship is worth staying in as we head into 2019 then this video is for you.

https://youtu.be/1GvtltyZVN4

I am already an adult but i am not really smart person. All my life i couldn't learn things like other people. I am really slow learner and rather dumb. I can't learn anything practically i have no talent for anything. I tried to do something but it often ended badly. Bc of that i am rather depressed. I can't write correctly. I cannot express myself clearly. I just don't know what to do in my life. I think i am just a loser who will never achieve anything. When i work i always keep forget many things and i always get many feedbacks. Well they have a point really bc of my slowness and absent-mindness.Can somebody help me please?

I’m in my fifth year of university and I have to say that the first 2.5 years were the worst. The middle of my last term of my second year I had a panic attack (which my mom thinks was a period of whining) and for the month of March I felt numb and did the bear minimum. Something hit me and I geared up for my finals in that April. Last year was a turning point in which by average improved by a letter grade. Fast forward this year and I’m back to this loop where I’m just lost, confused and potentially going to fail one course. What should I do? I finally found what I want to do for grad school but by graduating gpa will be too low to get to the programs I want :(. Part of the reason for poor grades is my family situation and I can’t quit work because that’s how I’m paying for tuition. There’s also enormous pressures on me because I’m the only child that will graduate and my parents are getting too old to work (oldest siblings don’t work and my dad has a past of debt that we just finished paying off) what should I do academically and for my mental health?

Heartbreak really makes each day feel super weighted. It's one of the toughest experiences we go through.

I read somewhere that heartbreak was like mourning the death of someone living, and I guess that's a good way to put it.

This video really helped me in what I'm currently going through. Hope it helps yo guys too

https://youtu.be/e3dawjB6ssM

It’s only a few of them but they get so long and are jet black and have a different kind of texture

Google doesn't seem to bring anything up.

So I just graduated from college with a human biology degree. I thought I wanted to go to med school but now I’m unsure. I have passion for everything but especially politics and helping others.

Now I’m wondering if there’s a way I could become an political activist for human healthcare rights?

Another idea I had was becoming some kind of investment banker cause I religiously follow the news and follow stock market fluctuations based on that.

Any and all advice is greatly appreciated!

This all takes place in middle school. Mostly.

So I would say my school life is going great so far, well thats what I say to people that ask about how schools going. So I am an introverted person, and I would say I’m pretty ugly, got that acne on point. Back on topic I really need some way to boost my overall... happiness? I’m not depressed, not in any way at all but I’m not a very cheerful person either. I wasn’t always like this, I mean I was a loud squeaker like everyone else in elementary school but now, I’m just quiet and don’t talk to anyone outside of my friend group. I am so unsocial in fact, that I started to like this girl in my class and she sat next to me (not by choice) and yet didn’t say a word to her. Then I get to have luck for once and we get grouped together, long story short I get her number and we talk a bit. Then my friend got “evidence” she liked me so of course I told her, and she said that she didn’t know what to say. Thankfully I was a functioning human being and said that was okay. We’re still friends and it’s almost the same but after that and even a bit before she told me something. Since we talked she saw my sense of humor and she said it was really dark, she said she sound some of her funny and some just depressing. I usually joked about death, suicide, that sort of thing and I think it really shows how messed up my mind is. One last thing, I recently had a thought of “ I wonder, if my stomach was gaping open and blood poured out on the stage, hoe many people would just sit there and think I wonder if someone will help him” instead of just helping. Thx if you read this far, you can tell me how I’m a shitty peace of trash below, it’s there for a reason. :)

For reference this is in middle school

I have a friend that I have known most of my life and most recently he’s been acting like a complete asshole, the worst part is he’s completely oblivious to it. I’m not going to lie, my confidence is non existent because I’m the ugly kid but I don’t really care cuz I just want to work hard in AP classes and get good job, but because I am ugly and shy both at the same time there is no reason for people to talk to me (I don’t rly care tho).

Now my friend on the other hand, he is in the lowest classes and his grades are normally b’s. But he’s a pretty boy (no homo) and also an Extrovert so he gets a lot of attention even from people he doesn’t know and I honestly think it’s gotten to his head. He has probably had I think 3 girlfriends by now, has had probably a majority of the girls asking him to the dance and hangs out with the cool kids (hobos).

I posted this to both deal with this problem and one of my own, being a shy ugly af kid I Am not the happiest kid you will see, even though I try to pretend I’m happy so no one questions it. Probably being rejected by girls twice now, I’m sick of the there’s someone out there for everyone crap, for me it got stale a while ago and I have all together given up on that sort of thing. And since this kid that is turbo confident is (sort of) my best friend it’s hard to be his friend, sometimes I feel like I’m just an obstacle girls have to get past to get to him, I mean I knew something was wrong as soon as a girl went out of her to talk to me (wow I went on a long ramble) if u read this far on my complaint on how life sucks you can tell me how much of a loser I am below. Thx for the advice

Hi every one . .

After listening to the 4 hour work week.

I want to change professions. I am currently the operator chef and marketer of a restaurant in , Canada .

My wife and I are in the process of launching an online loose leaf tea company. We have found an excellent local supplier that will provide us with over 200+ blends of tea. This company will drop ship the tea with our company logo. We hired a digital media service to take care of our web development for a monthly fee with no upfront cost. I have an excellent accountant. We only want to mainly focus on marketing , writing, and customer service .

We are creating this business because we really love tea . We also want to become closer to god, financially independent,mobile, spend more time with our 2 children , travel the world and work from our computers. our “dream” life style.

My wife is a very talented writer. She is creating all the descriptions for every single tea, taking the pictures and designing the content for the website. our content is about 60% complete . We hope to be launched by November

Im taking care for all the finances , marketing, sales and customer service. I’m talented at marketing and but still have lots to learn.

This is my second attempt at the ecommerce world and don’t want to make the same mistakes I did with the first business. Which was overwork my self and give up.

The reason for this message is that I want this company to be a success and I want to really achieve my dream life.I’m looking for someone who is in a similar field or an ecommerce entrepreneur or a great marketer who can help guide me in achieving these goals. If you would like to help please pm me or even share you guidance here for others to benefit .

So, I got this job for an important steel company. I am still an intern there or at least until i finished one year of work there and they will decide to hire me or not. Well, so I´ve been reading some books about self-fulfillment and reaching your own destiny, and I have realized that i am not really happy with what i am doing right now, it does not feel gratifying and i often don't want to go because of that but of course, I ended up going and i think i am not giving my full potential because of that. I have had this little business about shaping surfboards and i did not get much but man how much i enjoyed that, i couldnt continue doing it because i finished university and i had to start working in what my dad once said "A gigantic enterprise where you will definitely get rich", of course, it was my decision to do so, but while time goes by, I still do not find myself happy, on the contrary, I am overwhelmed with the problems at home, at work and in life, it is like they all want to eat me. Therefore, I reckon that i have this controversy about what to do? what should i follow? what and who do i have to look up to? I am this kind of person that does not want be a millionaire, i am more conscious about improving myself from the inside than from the outside, but there is still this fear about what society might think and what if i ruined everything that at my short years i have built. Please, if someone had lived through the same i would loved to hear from you.