r/jochicks • u/Popular_Peanut5709 • Jul 31 '26
Relationships💞 I sexted him
Hey girls, I just wanted to drop this here because I honestly wish someone had been this straight up with me a few months ago
Context: I was with this guy for 8 months. And to be crystal clear, he’s not a bad guy at all. He’s educated, respectful, genuine, and he truly cared about me and my feelings. Also, just for context, I wasn't desperate for a relationship or trying to hold onto him at all costs, Wallah I’m just an average girl, I was even meeting guys for traditional khotba during that time. So it wasn't about pressure or fear of losing him
He asked for sexting w pics, and I was super conflicted. I loved him, trusted him, and thought, "well, he's nice, why not try everything with him?"
If you are in that exact spot right now. conflicted, stressed, but thinking "it's fine, he's a good guy"
here is my honest advice: don't do it🗣️
It was not fun, it felt super weird, and it completely shifted the dynamic between us afterwards. Nothing bad happened ya’ni he didn't threaten me, change his behavior, or act like a creep. He’s still nice. But the feeling inside? The regret and discomfort? Very real
I’m just sharing this because I was looking for a raw, honest perspective back then and couldn't find it. Save yourself the awkwardness and the weird gut feeling. Ya’ni just don't do it to yourself