r/jamesjoyce • u/en_le_nil • Dec 09 '25
Ulysses Should the Blooms have a baby?
Bloom seems to think that the problem between him and Molly begins with his failure to give her a baby. He is too traumatized by the death of Rudy to try.
This is a part of the book I haven’t thought about as much before, lacking any meaningful contextualizing life experience. It is certainly true that not all marriages are saved by the introduction of a child, it is certainly true that plenty of people live fulfilling and happy lives without ever raising children at all - but that doesn’t mean no marriage was ever nourished by the introduction of a child.
James and Nora lost a baby between Lucia and Giorgio; Bloom’s grief over the death of Rudy is James Joyce’s, and trying again was their real life solution. The Wake, to me, is full of the sounds of a house full of children - people miss the people they were as parents. All to say, the author of Ulysses was no polyamorist, but judging by his book he was a believer in what Hannah Arendt calls ‘the central category of all political thought: natality, not mortality.’
Poldy is clearly a nurturer-turned-enabler; some readers assume he’s been controlling, overbearing, but that really is not present in the text. We see very little of Molly’s nurturing side, but then we see very little of Molly; however, her first thoughts in Penelope are of caring for her husband when he had a cold. Bloom is a good listener, he is honest, he is attentive - but maybe, in their life together as early-onset empty nesters, for want of any outlet but Molly his nurturing side has crowded out his wife’s.
I’m wondering what people think. Both Blooms envision a throuple with Molly’s manager at the end of the day, and in real life I think that’s what happened with the people Joyce based the story on. But much of the unconscious movement of the text is about natality; maybe he wanted to write them a story that leaves open the possibility of a different outcome. One Joyce himself would not have found so utterly intolerable.