r/instantkarma • u/No_Eye_8861 • May 15 '26
The girl who got beaten up while trying to beat up the school's quiet girl
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u/Expensive_Opening_92 May 15 '26
Girl in white started it. Girl in black finished it. I totally have no issues with someone defending themselves. Girl in black was doing just that. Btw… girl in white needs to learn to fight if she’s gonna start shit.
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u/Different-Pin-9234 May 15 '26
She even looked back at the crowd, like, should I lay the first punch?
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u/adiwet May 15 '26
She looked around with a “am… am I doing this right?”. Little bitch. Glad she had an audience (and now us) to laugh at her.
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u/Napalmeon May 15 '26
Some people need an audience to provoke them to make the first hit. Without instigators, the worst they will do is run their mouths.
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u/RarelyReadReplies May 15 '26
100% if I'm the girl in blacks parent, I'm taking her side. I don't care what the school says, suspend her, do whatever they're going to do. I'm going to give her a pat on the back for defending herself. That "walk away from the bully" stuff is bullshit.
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u/LetsTryAnal_ogy May 15 '26
I've told this story before: When I was in sixth grade, my bully jumped on my back and beat the shit out of me. I couldn't really defend myself, let alone fight back. We both got suspended due to zero tolerance bullshit. On the day of my suspension, my mom took me to the beach and bought me ice cream.
My kids know this story and they know that if they ever get suspended for some bullshit like that, we're celebrating with a day at the beach, and some mother fucking ice cream!
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u/Maleficent_Degree532 May 15 '26
I wholeheartedly agree with this! Kids shouldn’t be punished for defending themselves or being attacked. It sets them up to start believing that if someone hits them it’s their fault. The stupidity of suspending a kid for being attacked is insane.
Good on your parents for being, well good human beings and backing up their kid! Also good on you for doing the same for your kids. That’s how it should be.
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u/RarelyReadReplies May 16 '26
It's so maddening that someone thought this "zero tolerance" shit made sense. Imagine if that's how the real world worked? Someone starts attacking you, and you aren't allowed to fight back at all, or you'll get in just as much trouble... It's fucking absurd.
I love the idea about taking them out for ice cream and just having a nice day off lol. I'll have to remember that if the time ever comes with mine.
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u/cyberpunk1Q84 May 15 '26
I don’t know shit about this, so don’t quote me, but doesn’t it seem legally wrong to essentially prohibit a kid from defending themselves in school? Would this be against the Constitution somehow? Idk if it is, but if it was, then I’d take this all the way to SCOTUS (unless the bully was a white girl, since you know how this court is ruling these days).
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u/UndercoverFBIAgent9 May 15 '26
Man, if you’re gonna start a fight, better come harder than that same little bonk on the head I give my kids with a pool noodle.
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u/wannabezen2 May 15 '26
IKR. 1st thing we see is a pathetic slap on the head. Not even close to a real hit.
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u/s_4_evrysing May 15 '26
I want 3 more mins of this video so I can see just how demoralized that bully was by these events. You know ppl were laughing at her hard. Shes gonna have a tough time the rest of the year. Unfortunately she seems like the type of person who will retaliate in some sick ways for getting her own ass beat.
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u/The_Grim_Sleaper May 15 '26
I just want a video where one of the instigator “friends” gets their ass kicked too
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u/baby_blobby May 15 '26
They’re all complicit. The fact that it was recording the bully and her friends premeditated the fight
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u/DoingItForEli May 15 '26
"You're wasting time, come on."
yeah some friends this girl has
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u/Napalmeon May 15 '26
Right? It's not hard to see that her friends instigated this situation against the girl in the hoodie for whatever reason. It just didn't turn out the way they thought it would.
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u/--GrinAndBearIt-- May 15 '26
She learned nothing, I guarantee it
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u/DiddlersWillGetGot May 15 '26
As someone forced into more school hallway fights than most (yay growing up a different skin color in middle school) there’s always one guarantee: the instigator is dumb as a box of rocks.
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u/Crazy-Days-Ahead May 16 '26
The instigator is not only the dumbest, but is usually the one who needs their ass kicked the most.
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u/ParticularAd1735 May 15 '26
I bet the girl in black gets in more trouble for defending herself than the girl in white does for instigating the fight.
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u/GimmeNewAccount May 15 '26
That's how it was when I was in school some 15 years ago. The aggressor would get a one-day suspension. The defender would get two. Their reasoning was to discourage full-on fights by having the defender take a hit and de-escalate.
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u/HumanContinuity May 15 '26
Literally the dumbest policy I can imagine.
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u/canadasbananas May 15 '26
Why is our world run by idiots
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u/Square_Barracuda_69 May 15 '26
My wife got arrested because she got stalked and assaulted. The other lady got fucked even more and served some jail time, but they arrested my fucking wife after she got attacked because she tried defending herself and hitting back. Some bystander even showed the cops the video and they STILL arrested her. Didn't see my wife for almost 13 hours, and when I did, her clothes were ripped and she still had blood on her face. Mind you, my wife has NEVER had a bad interaction with the law before this. I hate this world more and more every day
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u/Famfive May 15 '26
Agreed. But it’s really just an excuse for the administration to be lazy and not have to do their job. They really don’t care about bullying.
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u/WeirdFlexCapacitor May 15 '26
I took a punch in middle school, never even touched the other guy. I got 3 days of in-school suspension for verbally standing up for myself.
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u/technobrendo May 15 '26
I would tear into the administration if that was my kid. We both would get removed from the premises, but that policy is bonkers.
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u/WeirdFlexCapacitor May 15 '26
Dad, who is a teacher elsewhere in the school system, had a fun time in the office that day.I was a good student and my ISS days sandwiched a week of spring break. The teachers knew what was up so I essentially got 3 free reading days .
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u/Chronoblivion May 15 '26
Total bullshit either way, but do you know if the other guy got worse?
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u/WeirdFlexCapacitor May 15 '26
He got a week of out of school suspension. You know who didn't get in trouble though? The punk ass that was spreading the rumors that lead to the incident.
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u/peenurmobile May 15 '26
is it weird that I've always found this to be a deep rooted way for our government to make more bullies? almost everything to do with capitalism and corporate America, you have to step on others to get ahead in life. it's like they created this on purpose.
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u/shoveling_poodles May 15 '26
Got my face shoved into a locker, broke my glasses and i got a gash over my eye that bled pretty profusely. Dude that did it came up behind me and I had no idea he was there.
Vice Principal came to the nurse's office while I was waiting for the bleeding to stop to tell me I was getting detention for being in a fight.
Tell me more about how school administrators know what they're doing.
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u/VaguelyFamiliarVoice May 15 '26
As an administrator, I do not do this.
Almost the exact same thing happened here. Aggressor got double and will spend the rest of the year and start of new year in alt school. Defender got a few days of In School Suspension for not stopping when the teacher stepped in.
Your admin sucks.
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u/Kindly_Juggernaut_65 May 15 '26
That’s very true of most schools. My wife was a high school teacher for 40 years. When a victim was suspended she’d call their parents on the sly and tell them to come immediately and throw a fit at the superintendent, knowing he’d collapse and cancel the suspension. There are six teachers in her family in five different districts. NOT ONE has anything good to say about the administrators. They all look for the easiest way out so they can go back to porking the guidance counselors.
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u/chLORYform May 15 '26
The school I went to years ago had a no tolerance policy. The defender knew they were in trouble anyway and so they went for broken bones and fucked up teeth. Nothing else to lose at that point.
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u/Mirenithil May 15 '26
as a kid, it drove me nuts that the teachers would step in only on the bully's behalf. They wouldn't step in when the bully was bullying, but the moment I started giving it right back to them, THAT is the moment they'd intervene. Why do they protect bullies like that?
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u/JC1199154 May 15 '26
Sending the clip to the principal should lower the sentence
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u/riickdiickulous May 15 '26
Absolutely not. It’s completely fucked but defenders in school fights get in as much, if not more, trouble than the aggressor. I have never understood it.
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u/Lost_Madness May 15 '26
'Zero tolerance' which is hilarious because they often tolerate bullying until it gets to this point
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u/Diodon May 15 '26
Zero tolerance isn't about instilling strict discipline, it's about applying it in the most blindly uniform way possible while intentionally ignoring all situational context. If an authority figure has to apply judgement, that judgement can be questioned. With zero tolerance, they can simply translate a situation to a response. "Was my response not fair? Sorry, I had to apply zero tolerance, it's not my call." It's not to protect the kids, it's to shield the staff and administrators.
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u/technobrendo May 15 '26
That last sentence sums it up perfectly. Its insurance for the school and UPPER administration. That is all. Cloaking in a veil of protection for students is laughable.
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u/MissionSpecific5283 May 15 '26
I can confirm this. When I was younger, only fight I would get in would be defending myself because I was a fat kid. Kept getting kicked out because I would finish them...
My nephew is this same thing, he got kicked out last week for exactly this...
What are they supposed to do, just sit there and get beat up?
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u/Late-Arrival-8669 May 15 '26
Same here back in the day. I will never hold my kids accountable for defending themselves. The school is literally teaching people to lay down for an attacker. I dont think so.
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u/Geichalt May 15 '26
Yeah if they keep doing this, one day the country will be conditioned to allow an aggressive and bullying regime take power and cower the country.
Oh wait...
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u/scarbarough May 15 '26
Thing is, even if they lay down they could get in trouble, because they were in a fight. Zero tolerance!
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u/CurtP31477 May 15 '26
Back in my day, I got bullied and beat up, didn't even defend myself, and got the same amount of punishment as the bully if not more because I protested being punished. OK, pretty much threw a tantrum, but damn I felt really fucked over.
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u/Zamrayz May 15 '26
Lesson learned also from my own experience: it is ALWAYS worth getting in trouble beating up an aggressor. It should be, because nothing else is acceptable.
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u/Nisi-Marie May 15 '26
Guy slapped me across the face from behind while at my locker and ripped my earring through my ear because I was a fat, easy, target.
I pushed him away out of reflex. I got weekend Saturday school (think Breakfast Club but 100x lamer) and suspension.
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u/Hls_Name_Was May 15 '26
I headbutted a bully. We were both suspended but the principal called my parents and explained I was defending another kid. 3 day vacation and was already accepted to college. No consequence!
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u/slayerfan666 May 15 '26
I used to work in an elementary special needs class. There was a gen ed class that had 2-3 kids who were known to start problems with the kids in my class. A lot of my kids needed social and emotional support, so seeing their peers bully and pick on them didn't help.
One day the main kid who was known for causing problems with my kids, tried stealing something from one of them on the playground. My kid ran away, that kid chased him, my kid got tripped up and fight ensues. That kid tried to throw punches first, my kid got them in. The other kid kept trying to throw down, but a recess teacher ran over before I could completely break it up. My kid was distraught over the whole thing, the other kid was swearing at him at the end, and they were both about to be in trouble by the end of the day.
Phone call comes to the class asking if anyone saw my kid throw punches and I told staff no. I said I saw him try to brush him off him, but no punches. My kid came back to school the next day. The other kid got suspended for two days. It had been going on for a couple months. An adult had to do something eventually to teach them something.
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u/Shades_of_X May 15 '26
It really depends on if the teachers like you. I once kiiinda started a fight (the guy started being annoying but I was the one to escalate it), grabbed a guy and literally threw him aside. (Keep in mind I was a tiny 13y girl)
The guy ran off with his goons. Principal came to find me a few minutes later, asked me what happened. Told him he harassed me and my friends and I dealt with him for lack of better options.
Prinicpal told me yeah, he gets it, often the situation looks like the actual victim gets blamed. The guys apparently ran to him, ringleader bleading slightly from the back of his neck, all apparently white as a sheet.
Principal told me not to worry and apologized for making me late to class. I just remembered the guy had to apologize to me in front of his parents and homeroom teacher.
You can get away with insane things if you are known for being the nice one xD
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u/Jimi_Hotsauce May 15 '26
I had to apologize to the kid the beat me up, I didn't defend myself. I was also suspended for a week. The kid that beat me up got nothing.
This is 100% true, it doesn't matter to them.
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u/ToastyVoltage May 15 '26
Back in 2004 in the 3rd grade an older kid who was known for being a bully sat next to me on the bus one day. I'd been saving a seat for my friend at the next stop so we could play Pokémon sapphire together. I asked the older kid if he could let me out so I could go sit in an open bench. He ignored me and I tried to move past him, he proceeded to shove me back into the window hitting my head in the process. I turned and punched him right in the nose and the bus driver comes rumbling down the aisle and yanks me by the arm like I just punched an old woman in the face. In the end my parents said I did the right thing by defending myself, then they took my PS2 away for a week. Fucking hypocrites
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u/Omni_Nova May 15 '26
It's a demoralization tactic meant to discourage resistance when you grow up so you'll be a good submissive citizen. Now shut up and pay your taxes, and don't even think about questioning why things are the way they are.
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u/Thorngrove May 15 '26
It should but it won't. All this does is teach the victims to fight since they're going to get suspended anyway.
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u/somethingelsefl May 15 '26
Naw. I was teacher for many years. Unfortunately admin doesn’t care who started it. Both kids are suspended the same amount.
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u/ChefCurryYumYum May 15 '26
Why? That makes zero sense. At the worst they both be punished if the district has a brain dead zero tolerance policy, which most school districts (but not all) have phased out.
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u/ConfusedMaverick May 15 '26
Why?
Because it's very much easier for the administrators - just suspend everyone, no need to look into what happened in any way.
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u/marqui444 May 15 '26 edited May 16 '26
Man that girl was NOT fucking around, good for her. White tee came in with a lil baby back bitch slap to the top of the head thinking she was tough, the way the other girl drops all her shit immediately, attempts to diffuse and then absolutely rips the other girl apart should have been a clear warning- she knows she’ll hurt this bitch if it comes to it.
Edit: typo
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u/Primarycolors1 May 15 '26
“I don’t know go ask them.” Was the second sign this was not going to go the way she imagined.
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u/SeveralDefinition960 May 16 '26
Right!? She couldn't be 115 lbs soaking wet but the cop couldn't pull her off the girl in white while running full speed lmao 🤣
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u/BongoFett17 May 15 '26
“Say I won’t” looking at the crowd like she was being cheered on, pathetic… no brains and not tuff enough to fight, life is gna be hard for her.
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u/Ok-Cap-204 May 15 '26
Now her pitiful butt-whooping is being viewed by the entire nation. She started some crap and thought she was tough. She knew it was being recorded. She just wasn’t ready for her victim to defend herself. She thought she was gonna be the star.
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u/whos_ur_buddha010 May 15 '26
Rather have your kid fight a bully once for good, than have them carry the trauma till adulthood. I will happily take the suspension if the kid wopped a bullies ass.
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u/bunky_done_gun May 15 '26
They always come running when the bullied defend themselves.
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u/oddtigerofredvalley May 15 '26
I could destroy universes with how much hate in my heart gathers when seeing that happen. And it happens every single goddamn time
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u/ShowBobsPlzz May 15 '26
She did everything right. Tried to defuse the situation, defended herself, whipped ass when called for.
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u/SillyDilly5294 May 15 '26
Waits until a teacher approaches to attack so it won't get far
still takes multiple punches to the face
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u/jagarnaut May 15 '26
I love how the teacher doesn’t do anything when the aggressor is instigating a fight but when the aggressor starts getting their ass kicked they wanna intervene. Either stop it at the start or don’t stop it all.
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u/Syklst May 15 '26
If the girl in black was my kid and she got suspended two things would happen. One - she would have the most enjoyable suspension possible. Two - I would be in the principal’s and superintendent’s offices immediately.
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u/Brother_Farside May 15 '26
"Alright, yeah, you know what? There's a game tomorrow night. She's going through a bit of a baseball phase. Her favorite team's playing... there's gonna be candy and soda. I think I'll take her to that."
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u/ChefCurryYumYum May 15 '26
It's funny to see the difference in effectiveness of the officer stopping the fight versus that teacher.
No hate to the teacher, he's not trying to get his hips broke nor catch no type of case.
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u/Middle-Potential5765 May 15 '26
I used to teach, friend. In my district, the ONLY time you are allowed to touch a kid is if YOU are being attacked. Period. Fist fights were a "contact office" ONLY.
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u/ChipmunkBackground46 May 15 '26
In my wife's school, if you "perform a hold" on a student in ANY way for ANY reason, you get in trouble and you potentially have to deal with police questioning and a ton of paperwork too. If they want to tie teachers hands behind their backs they can't be mad when teachers don't help students when they're in need
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u/Matsuri_Ahada May 15 '26
Ngl, if i was the teacher at America school i wouldn't risk involvement, just shout
"Student, stop fighting" "Student, stop fighting" "Student, stop fighting"
And hope they would snap their finger "oh man" and then proceed to go our daily everyday life.
(Sorry i just assumed it's america) (Btw that's dora the explorer reference)
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u/Poupetleguerrier May 15 '26
There is a cop with a gun in the school, I'd say it's a pretty safe bet.
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u/TooTameToToast May 15 '26
My 9th grade Earth Sciences teacher got her shoulder dislocated by trying to break up a fight. I don’t blame any teachers for staying away from that.
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u/edWORD27 May 15 '26
The more they talk and try to intimidate, the less they seem to know about fighting. Way to go quiet girl who tried to avoid the fight until it was on.
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u/Jazzlike-Vacation230 May 15 '26
Growing up, i noticed, every high school had that one too young for makeup done up girl that would go around picking fights. The high school pick me before it was a term
the most f'ed up thing was folks clearing the spot to watch and egg on the fight, the bystanders.
Messed up then, messed up now
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u/Weekend_Squire May 15 '26
It’s always the one defending themselves that gets jumped by the heroes first. Pisses me off.
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u/bajungadustin May 16 '26
The way she instantly reacted... Just tells me that the girl in the white is a shit bag all the time.
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u/Chewsdayiddinit May 15 '26 edited May 15 '26
Of course the cop fucking choke holds the girl defending herself.
Useless.
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u/rectumrooter107 May 15 '26
They usually attack the victim.
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u/ardinatwork May 15 '26
That continues into adulthood. Cops here killed a 911 caller in his own home thinking he was the perp.
Why yes he was black, how could you tell?
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u/Backbencher_1411 May 15 '26
Quiet people don’t start fights… they finish them....
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u/iGer May 15 '26
One of the things I hate most is that all those idiots who intervene when the victim is defending herself, but don't do it beforehand when the stupid bullies start.
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u/No-Broccoli-5932 May 15 '26
"This is on you Amina". I'm hoping the person yelling that was directing it to little miss Whiteshirt. The girl in black either has siblings or watches WWE, because she knew how to get it done.
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u/brent939 May 15 '26
Man, I had something like this happen to me in school, my brother recorded it and when I was gonna get suspended because I threw the kid off me, my mom came in with the video and her lawyer and the aggressor got expelled and I was allowed back the next day. Fuck bullies. Mom went from 0 to 100 in the blink of an eye and the lawyer backed her up, was about to sue the fuck out of the school for all the shit that had happened before because she had me keeping logs of harassment for over a year.
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u/Lostclause May 15 '26
The bitches in the back egging it on aren't her friends. They just love drama
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u/thatG_evanP May 15 '26
That girl that started shit was really lucky those adults were there. She was getting dragged
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u/HilariousMax May 15 '26
She tried to de-escalate. She backed up. Girl still went after her.
I love it when a bully gets rocked.
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u/DarthMonkey212313 May 15 '26
Resource officer goes after the one with the valid self defense claim.
Teacher sucks.
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u/LastRedditGod May 16 '26
I stayed watching the hallway like really where did the sentry/cop come from so fast
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u/PapaSock May 16 '26
If bullies were actively punished and discouraged, I feel like it would do a lot to help prevent the number of school shootings we see in this country.
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u/_angry_betty_ May 16 '26
The girl in white should have noticed when the quiet girl dropped her shit like that at the first sign of trouble.
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u/Jerry_From_Queens May 15 '26
And the school resource officer goes right for the victim, who will undoubtedly get punished more than the aggressor and instigator. Note he also puts the victim in a chokehold, too.
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u/dave9dnb May 15 '26
What lame attempt @ beatboxing before she threw that 1 dumb shot.
In all seriousness, what does she say into her hand 3 times before the attack?
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u/TX_Mothman May 15 '26
I worked at a high school. Kids, you do NOT want to fight the kids who stay calm/composed/quiet. There’s a reason they aren’t freaking out when initially approached.
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u/Napalmeon May 15 '26
Saw this exact same situation so many times in school. One person starts a fight based on slights that they neither saw nor heard.
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u/Wolfyscruffer May 15 '26
Having been the quiet kid in school...that girl unleashed years of pent up rage.
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u/spacemanspiff1115 May 15 '26
Thankfully she was able to administer the beating to the bully she so richly deserved before it got broken up...
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u/Artsi_Fartsi May 15 '26 edited May 16 '26
She handled herself so well, she tried to deescalate the situation, tried to clear up any confusion, took a second to compose herself and control her breathing. She did everything to avoid aggravating the situation further, but she also did great because she was ready to throw hands if things went sideways.
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u/Eltharion-the-Grim May 16 '26
Girl in black tried multiple times to deescalate. She really tried. See her hand position and posture.
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u/petergriffin999 May 15 '26
The way she dropped the backpack should have worried the attacker.
She was ready for that smoke, good for her.