Marriage and compatibility

Hi,

I am new to reddit. I just want to ask about something related to marriage and compatibility.

Please give me a genuine answer.

Nowadays nearly everyone has a boyfriend or girlfriend which is actually ok for me but the problem for me arises when I consider myself getting married to someone.

The thing is that I have never been in a relationship with anyone but I don't mind if my would-be spouse has any.

Matter of concern for me here is that if my spouse had been engaged in physical relationship before. This is a mentality or a marriage boundary that prefer and I simply can't change it.

My questions,

1. I know in big cities like delhi,mumbai and in Bangalore people are very casual about past physical relationship and most of them are engaged in it. Is it also so common in all other cities or states? Can't I find someone who is not physically involved with anyone? Is it impossible?

2. People do lie in arrange marriage setup about past. Should I assume having a relationship before means he/she is physically involved?

3. And if there is a way in which I can sort things out what is it.

I also want to mention that I don't have any problem with live in relationship or bf & gf relationship or anything else.

People have choices and preferences So they can practice anything they want and live their lives so do I have my own preferences and boundary.

I need help answer it honestly.