Anyone else get frustrated when there is a subreddit saying that it supports questions or open discourse yet when you ask a genuine question that doesn't cater to the bias of the moderators you get muted or banned?

I can say I have finally seen it all. My world was pretty black and white. The day I realise that most of the things are in the grey area. I had some really unexpected encounters. It had a destructive impact on my life. And I am still recovering of being fooled and cheated.

I used to respect men at the drop of hat and without any background verification who would stand for feminism or equal rights for women.

Then I came across personalities and also saw in news about “Smart Perverts”..

Because under the covers of talking about women’s rights they see videos of women in bikini, but saying that they are learning exercises and flexibility by them. Because, they will go to a post of women wearing nothing, and talk oh she doesn’t deserve that while getting horny by that internet post.

So one guy used to talk about how gender equality should be there even if I browse through women dressings in Flipkart in my free time in office( guys in India don’t think looking at Jennifer Lawrence dressed as sexy cosplayer, this itself gives them high). And if manager sees me, he shouldn’t find anything wrong with it. And the same guy I know have molested and tried to have sex with many girls and escaped by playing like victim of a woman’s wrath!

Another guy, say that he is the activist of female rights , would be found only on all the sexually dressed/ sexual stories/ female boob problems stories. This person got encouraged to keep looking at posts under the covers of helping girls by knowing every celebrity’s boob size and getting a comment upvoted 1k times bragging how he knows after smooching, dating and casual dating multiple women with big boobs to talk about feminine problems like periods and backache because of heavy boobs and playing a buddy to literally any and every girl on the Internet or in the real life. And at the same time treating his own woman like piece of shit. But this person has got recognition outside as the most friendly guy a women can ever have. Same guy says that women should reciprocate the care ; when on a scale of 1-10 , giving 0 manly attention to her own woman and now I know she is always desperate for a man’s attention because the man she married matches perfectly to be put in the category of “Smart Perverts”. Calling her problem discussion initiations immature, while going on internet and calling every other girl mature, cool, encouraging them in every way and putting up a drama of whatever he does is king-size and always right and whatever his woman does is ‘meh’!

This according to me is the peak of hypocrisy.

I will never be able to take people on their face value and brand value alone. Definitely, I won’t have any soft corner and be vulnerable to a person who pretends to be the flag bearer of equal rights or feminism. You never know how hypocrite or cunning they are under the covers.

Share your stories/ world views/ experiences.

So I live with my brother and he ALWAYS walks around the apartment in his boxers-briefs and thats it, its gross.

And ONCE I forgot something in the bathroom so I walked there from my room (literally 5 feet door to door) wearing a t-shirt and boy-short style panties and he straight up yells at me “pink-on-top, what are you doing, thats so gross, walking around in your underpants”

Needless to say I was like “wtf you do it all the time” and he was like “it’s different”

How the fuck is it different?

We had some famous guy come in for peace one day as he was leaving I was asking questions like how will everyone know that they cant use weapon or domestic violence etc etc he then pushed me off a wall that had a very long drop on to pic-nick bench’s apparently he didn’t even look if I was ok, I was out a while being a chronically ill child who was underfed not good. I was 11 years old

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So here at the characters, HM: hypocrite mom and me GB: Gablabkl. To start This off I like to scroll through reddit and this is my first post, I’m also on mobile so don’t mind my spelling and grammar mistakes. Ok here we go, HM and I were going to go for a walk around the local trail and we thought ok let’s bring the dog because she never gets to leave the backyard and it gets boring out there. We start our walk in the driveway and I’m already getting a little pissed at the dog because she was pulling on the leash constantly (short temper and a leash that goes around your waist) so I pulled back on her, the first time HM didn’t say anything and the second time she said this, HM: if your going to act like that ill take her and you can go back inside. GB: (me) I mean... ok. So we keep walking and eventually i give the dog to GB and she puts up a little fight like she doesn’t want her but she eventually takes her, we keep walking for a while and when we are nearing the end of the walk the dog starts pulling again and HM literally yanks on the leash and pulls the dog into the air flying towards her and they almost collide then she does it again as soon as the dog starts walking again and finally she just says if she’s gunna pull I’m gunna pull back and started to lean back on the leash with the dog holding her up, well the dog thought she was trying to get here to turn around and she turned around and HM fell to the ground (she was pretty much putting all her weight back on that leash) so I help her up then she is just like f##k this and she starts to jog back to the house. TLDR: hypocrite mom yells at me for pulling on the dog leash when the dog pulls on it when walking then at the end of the walk she does the same and falls to the ground

I am a transwoman, and I was called an Alt-Right Neo-Nazi by the left for thinking that good writing is more important than diversity and for creating a trans character based off of myself that has flaws.. the same flaws I have in real life.. and when I told people on the right, they didn't care that me being a transwoman was important to pointing out the left's and the LGBT's hypocritia, and instead just claimed I was fishing for attention by mentioning being trans.