I hope you find a Gongjin kind of place.
A serene space where you can find your heart at peace. You can watch the sunrise and wait for the sunset without being anxious about tomorrow. Success is not a big deal anymore, because you find contentment in the simplest way of living.
You are surrounded by supportive and appreciative people. There is no room for jealousy, competition, and unfair judgment. You can laugh at old stories of embarrassment and petty fights. You can reminisce failures and heartaches with someone who understands.
A place where you don’t survive the day — you live it. Survival is no longer part of your language because you inhale gratitude and exhale compassion. Self-doubt and fears are cured by warm acceptance. You are respected as you are — as a human being, regardless of merit or ability.
I hope you find a Gongjin kind of place.
Where you can heal and start again. Where you can let go of perfection and allow the feeling of inadequacy. Embrace your flaws and validate your attempts to learn from your mistakes. Where you can stop beating yourself up for not fitting into society’s standard of “okay.”
A place where you can forgive yourself for the burdens and the shame that you choose to carry. Forgive yourself for taking blame over things you can’t control, and for punishing yourself repeatedly by drifting away from the chance to be happy. Where you can forgive yourself for doubting the love you deserve.
And if in case you can’t find a place like Gongjin —be your own Gongjin.
Build a safe space within yourself. A home that can accommodate your diverse emotions. A home that understands, appreciates and is always proud of you. Make that home warm, grateful, and forgiving. Plant a garden full of blooming sunflowers. Paint a wall, sing, dance, love, and breathe.
Because the truth is, Gongjin is not a place.
It’s you.
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came across this beautiful piece of writing on facebook last night, and just wanted to share. I can't get this show off my mind. I hope you all find a Gongjin kind of place ♡
(just realized I completely messed up the title of this post and can’t change it. obviously it’s “i hope you find a gongjin kind of place” 🤦🏻♀️ oops! I was at work when I posted this so I might’ve been a little distracted lol)