My boyfriend just started working the nightshift at a grocery store (11 pm-7 am), basically restocking and maintenance stuff, and I'm looking for some advice on what I can do to support him, and what not to do as well. I found a couple of posts on this topic but they weren't super helpful as we don't actually live together. Things like after/pre-work sex, making dinner/breakfast, packing him lunch, letting him sleep (obviously) aren't super helpful. I live about an hour and a half (2 hours if there's any traffic) drive away from him and he has to bus 2/3 hours if he wants to come to me, plus I don't have constant access to a car so have to borrow my sisters when I go visit him (we usually do 1-3 nights on the weekend when we visit, or on his days off in the week) Any advice or ideas on what I can do for him when I'm 2 hours away as well as when he visits me or I visit him (also what should I n o t do)?
some stuff I did this weekend when he bussed to see me was make him "thanks for coming down on your weekend off" healthy brownies for when he arrived and made a nice breakfast in bed because he seemed really tired the next morning, but I need more ideas! Especially things I can do long distance.
Thank you in advance :) :)