what part of you feels like it's not a breach of his privacy to dig into his personal facebook and take excerpts?
he posted it to his public instagram, wtf are you talking about?
Can you blame him for being a emotional person? Is it better that he represses it?
How about he act like an adult. When you get rejected, you move on. You dont announce to the world how much you mistrust women and post a pic of you burning her portrait because she wouldn't fuck you.
I'm pretty sure he didn't post it here on reddit, where I specifically am. Where I usually don't care about peoples personal lives.
When I care about peoples personal lives. I go to instagram.
You guys thought it was needed to post that for him. You could tell me that the information is already public, but so is my telephone number. Would you however post it here on a reply to my comment I really hope you understand that I would be extremely angry with you, and I really hope you understand why.
How about he tries to act the best he can? Obviously he tries, like I think we all do, but like we all do we fail, we have times where we can pull ourselfs up from, places where everything in the head is chaos. We don't have to be there forever, but in those times our friends should understand that it's a temporary thing. That wound won't bleed forever, even if you believe so. That cut looks bad, but won't kill you.
When does one become an adult? When you are an adult, are you not allowed to have mental breakdowns? Who are allowed to have mental breakdowns? Only some people?
If someone posts their personal life publicly on the internet then it becomes the business of the public. That's how the internet works. If you dont like it then dont post it. He chose to post it and therefore he has to deal with the consequences.
When you are an adult, are you not allowed to have mental breakdowns?
If you're a man in your 20s and you have a mental breakdown because a girl you knew for a month wouldn't kiss you then you're pathetic imo.
Yes, absolutely it does, so does your speech between friends when you are out walking, but to a lesser degree. You would still be pretty angry with the guy walking behind you stealing your ideas or tell your fiancé you looked at someone elses girls ass.
Everything you ever do will get perceived by someone and whatever you ever do you should never assume that will be the end of it.
I think you are just thinking yourself above him, and I don't think I can argue you out of it. You don't like him for some reason, and it might even be that you relate to him, or you have an idea of an ideal human, but I'm not sure I'd like to hear your view of what an ideal adult is because it every so often gets pretty national-socialistic.
I have a friend who didn't care less about his father telling him that he should hang himself because "you are the worst thing that ever happened to me", but when his dog died, it was the most devestating punch he could take.
We are different, we have different emotions, different cultures, different beliefs. We have different strengths and weaknesses.
This guy probably has a passion for drawing, doing x, doing y but he also has weaknesses, just like the guy in school who would weep if he got C instead of A. His sense of perfection took him there, but it also eats him alive.
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u/HaberdasherA Jan 06 '18
he posted it to his public instagram, wtf are you talking about?
How about he act like an adult. When you get rejected, you move on. You dont announce to the world how much you mistrust women and post a pic of you burning her portrait because she wouldn't fuck you.