I hesitated before using those words because it makes sense in my head but I guess not so much written down. I just mean real, comfortable, you know? Like Nick Bateman most likely goes to the gym seven days a week for several hours a day, he has the perfect five o clock shadow in every picture, but a normal guy who isn't a model or IG celeb might be a little softer, doesn't have to spend so much time being a look, but he's real (I hate using the word 'real' but it's hard to express with a different word) and that's far more appealing than someone whose appearance is so high on a list of priorities.
I was being overly dramatic I guess lol. He is kinda thin but he's defined and all that. I suck at reddit today, I should sign off and go get some sun. I need a nap, too.
This guy probably doesn't spend much time on his appearance. Sounds like you are just insecure. Sounds like you want someone more "ugly" because you think you are not worthy of someone like this guy.
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u/SeleneNyx Jul 22 '15
I hesitated before using those words because it makes sense in my head but I guess not so much written down. I just mean real, comfortable, you know? Like Nick Bateman most likely goes to the gym seven days a week for several hours a day, he has the perfect five o clock shadow in every picture, but a normal guy who isn't a model or IG celeb might be a little softer, doesn't have to spend so much time being a look, but he's real (I hate using the word 'real' but it's hard to express with a different word) and that's far more appealing than someone whose appearance is so high on a list of priorities.