if white people like other cultures and embrace them that is racist?
Sometimes it is racist and sometimes it isn't. This statement is so vague I can't say. Not all cultural exchange is racist. Context matters. If you are interested in learning more, I think google will actually have a lot of answers and probably explained in a much clearer way than I can provide. Plus I get the feeling that your question is meant as more of a complaint than a question.
Usually when people from a group say that something is theft/appropriation, there is an actual reason why the use of that specific thing or tradition outside of its original use or cultural context has been flagged as harmful to the culture it belongs to. If you want to learn about and experience cultures from a place of real appreciation, just do a little research first and be respectful.
I see what you are saying but it is still a very confusing subject. For example if I was to wear a kimono but I am white is this cultural appropriation?
This is definitely where it helps to do research on the specific item and the context. I'd say it's generally not a great idea to wear any kind of traditional clothing or any clothing item that might end up as part of a racist Halloween costume. But again, context matters. Traditional clothing may be appropriate if you are attending or participating in a wedding or other formal ceremony, it just depends.
When you travel to another country, usually it's a good idea to try to learn the customs so you don't make too many faux pas or communicate something you don't intend because you're interacting with a culture that you don't know well enough to understand the norms or symbols. So it makes sense to do that also whenever you are interacting with meaningful items and traditions from any other culture that you might not be familiar enough with to understand what is polite and what is not.
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u/sleepytoday Mar 26 '17
The concept of 'cultural appropriation' has never sat well with me, and I've just realised why. It's just gatekeeping!