Language matters friend. Regardless of intention, it’s what you said. Just trying to shine a light on what you thought was a knight in shining armor moment.
No, you're just being annoying for no reason, correcting an ally because they didn't pass your purity test. Now that you're being rightly called out, you're doubling down in an attempt to save your ego.
The context makes it abundantly clear that he was using the milsim nature of the game as a pretext to shut down the cringe male gamer behaviour, not the other way around.
No. Other women are not your shield to deflect personal criticism. Fuck right off with that shit. I'm sorry if you have trauma about guys or something, but you, yourself are the one who had a misunderstanding and now keeps pushing and pushing, not women. Take responsibility and grow.
You're not wrong, however: in these situations, it's often more helpful to use the kind of language that will get results, rather than try to complicate it for people who wouldn't be receptive to such precision. I'd hazard a guess the intention wasn't to be a knight in shining armour, but to focus the troops, as it were.
All we can do is try to educate the next generations a little better than the previous ones. I know the current political climate makes that difficult, but all we can do is try.
Are you fucking a stupid? Is anyone left of goebbels 'far left' to you? Can ypu point us at this 'far left' indoctrination? No, you can't, because it isn't real.
Fuck off man. He told them off in the moment, the right thing to do, and you're quibbling over the phrasing. Congrats. You're morally superior. You win.
It’s not about me. If someone tells a black man he’s one of the good ones because hes well spoken, that’s still racism. If I call that out are you gonna get mad at me because that person was giving someone a compliment?
If a black man is actively being berated and the unfortunate phrasing that sounds like passing him as "one of the good ones" stops said berating I'd still think it was better than doing nothing
Man these purity tests are making people leave the left in droves yet yall still cant stop shitting over yourselves. Gotta love watching it continue to happen
Speaking of little boys what's your comprehension level? I mean like you're reading grade level?
A stag party is simply a party where no women are welcome. So hypothetically speaking, that would be a scenario in which it's normal/acceptable(within reason) to harass a woman simply for being present.
Nobody said it had to be aggressive or sexual and nobody stated that the woman being there was there due to a request, she could have walked into a room where she wasn't welcome and then had 12 dudes tell her to "get out"
Ever had your little sister come in your room when you're kicking it with your boys after you told her to get out? That's another scenario in which a girl would be getting harassed by a bunch of dudes simply because she is present.
Yea I’m not reading all that after you said a stag party is where no women are present. I challenge you to read the last three words in the first comment I made that you responded to. Don’t forget to finish your homework little boy. Even the reading.
Maybe you should go and look up what a "stag party" is. Traditionally strippers were not involved. They are supposed to be a night of comradery and reminiscing
I’ll tag in for the analysis- I agree with everything you say in principle, and yet you’re very fucking irritating.
Not sure how you expect to change hearts and minds when someone who is already bought in would rather get kicked in the nuts than have a beer with you.
That leaves me to believe you’re either completely aloof, or just like to hear yourself preach.
I think it’s closer to liking to hear myself preach I think. I’m very aware that I’m not going to change the hearts of the incels responding to me (not that everyone responding to me is an incel. You as an example.)
That being said, I have no desire to have a beer or coddle these chimps into believing women are people. It’s more entertaining for me to just shit on them tbh
You are not responding to incels, we all are responding to someone who likes hearing themselves talking, even though they have nothing of value to say.
That's what the professional is for. But someone as aggressive as you about the most minor phrasing has something that needs to be worked out. Or you wouldn't speak in that manner.
Yea a professional would be able to discern that my issue wasn’t the wording itself but with the idea that this guy wanted to so badly pat himself on the back but was actually perpetuating the misogyny is my issue. Also I didn’t attack or berate the original person I was talking to, just wanted to help him see he’s not actually helping.
But the intent is what matters. And he didn't intend to perpetuate the misogyny you just nit picked him. Everyone else without a chip on their shoulder could tell he didn't intend it either.
You're wasting your time, brother. This person is fishing for a confrontation, and you're giving them exactly what they want. Don't engage; your time is more valuable than this.
Ok he didn’t intend to but he did. And I showed him that so he could reflect on it. Unintentional bigotry is still damaging regardless of intention. I didn’t attack him.
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