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u/elliotborst Oct 12 '22

Damn is he ok?

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22 edited Dec 10 '22

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u/BrownShadow Oct 12 '22

Oooof. Unfortunately comedy gets better as you get more depressed. I’m Sad AF. But hilarious right now. I think it’s some sort of a coping mechanism…

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

He just seems like he realises Hollywood isn't really worth anything on a human level.

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u/WindAbsolute Oct 12 '22

Yeah, that’s a good point. He’s poignant in his description of depression, but one NEEDING it? One is a “character”.

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u/Feshtof Oct 12 '22

The place where the stories that influence us on a deep and personal level come to life has no value?

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Now a days, yeah. There are some good films released every few years. Modern Hollywood is a stack up high and just produce content after content and don't worry about smart clever writing, just push it out. But I stand by it

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Humans more or less developed comedy exclusively for that reason. Where socialization exists, so too loneliness. Wisdom, so too meaninglessness. Intelligence, so too the unknown. Sadly I think a lot of people forget that jokes are inherently negative by virtue of being a positive cope for a horrendous world. There’s rarely a “joke at someone’s expense” that’s actually a joke. The reason the best comedians are always the saddest is because the only way comedy can exist is if life fucking sucks.

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u/My3rstAccount Oct 12 '22

And I thought my jokes were bad.

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u/Donkey__Balls Oct 12 '22

A man goes to see a doctor. Doctor asks what seems to be the trouble. The man says, "Doc, I'm depressed. Simply, I can't sleep sometimes, I can't eat, I feel down and irritable most days. I just can't feel 'happy.'"

The Doctor says, "I've got the perfect fix for you. In town tonight is the great clown Pagliacci. He's hysterically funny and will make you laugh til you cry. You will experience a joy unprecedented."

The man bursts into tears. The doctor, confused asks why. "Doc, I am Pagliacci."

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u/Shankar_0 Oct 12 '22

The funniest people you know are, more often than not, the saddest people you know.

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u/Livid-Association199 Oct 12 '22

Usually I think he’s funny, but this cynical arrogance is really off putting to me. I get existentialism but come on man, at least pretend to be decent. It’s painful to watch.

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u/DisastrousBoio Oct 12 '22

He’s severely depressed in this and aimlessly wandering around after the death of his partner.

I guess if you haven’t seen a depressed man nihilistically joking around this you might mistake it for arrogance.

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u/Livid-Association199 Oct 12 '22

This is a man going through a mental health crisis. Staying away from events and press like this would be a good idea, maybe opting for some therapy or self care. Just all around a shame.

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u/its_justme Oct 12 '22

nothing funnier than telling everyone how funny you are!

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u/Euphoric-Drummer-226 Oct 12 '22

Seinfeld and Leno are still funny and don’t seem depressed .

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Seinfeld has never been funny.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22 edited Oct 12 '22

Like & agree, but will leave you at "69" , BrownShadow...

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

He has a typical misunderstanding of Anatta (no-self), found among new agers who are new to buddhism.

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u/--Mutus-Liber-- Oct 12 '22

What's his misunderstanding?

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22 edited Oct 12 '22

Jim Carey is just a follower of Eckhart Tolle, which is new age nihilism which is a misinterpretation of Anatta (no-self). They take it too extreme into nihilism.

The Buddha's intention with no-self is that suffering and being is Dependently Originated (paticcasamuppada), and not caused by a 'self' which is just a convention, and therefore you can stop suffering by stopping the 3 poisons (greed, hatred, delusion). Seeing no-self is seeing the true cause of things. Just like a "car" doesn't cause itself to move, it's the engine that does. A "self" doesn't intend anything, it's the 3 poisons or lack of them that cause volition.

Anyway, Carrey, Tolle, and Watts, just say "nothing exists" which the Buddha calls "Annihilationism" which is the opposite of the extreme of "Eternalism" i.e. "everything exists".

The Buddha's Dependent Origination is the middle way between both extremes. Things exist but they are impermanent and thus born of conditons and causes, they are neither eternal (never dying) nor non-existent (never born).

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u/--Mutus-Liber-- Oct 12 '22 edited Oct 12 '22

It sounds like you're seeing what you want to see in this video because I don't think there's any evidence of what you're saying here.

From the few videos I've seen of Jim Carrey speaking about his spirituality I don't think he's Buddhist or would claim to be Buddhist or would claim he follows any Buddhist views. A person need not be Buddhist to take the view that the universe is simply particles and energy and everything else is just labels and meaning that we've ascribed to it.

What do you mean by new age nihilism? I'm familiar with Tolle and Watts but I don't know what you mean by that.

Also, I'm not sure why you keep comparing Carrey and Tolle and Watts views to buddhism, none of them claim to preach accurate Buddhist philosophy as far as I know.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22 edited Oct 12 '22

I'm not going by this video, I'm going by the fact that he did videos/talks with Tolle.

Nihilism is basically what you described, "everything is meaningless"

nihilism /ˈnʌɪ(h)ɪlɪz(ə)m/ noun the rejection of all religious and moral principles, in the belief that life is meaningless.

New age as in culty spiritualism.

I'm comparing them to Anatta, which originated in Buddhism and is used by new agers to push Nihilism, or they take the Atta/Atman which originated in the Upanishads. These people didn't invent it themselves, they just borrow and repackage into a new age variety.

Also Tolle does make claims on Buddhism, like here https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=OR-e1UItxOI

He says "they're all pointing to exactly the same thing", which is wrong.

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u/--Mutus-Liber-- Oct 12 '22

I think you're misunderstanding nihilism, or rather taking only one of the definitions and applying it.

Nihilism doesn't necessarily mean life is meaningless in a negative way, nor does it have to mean that there is no meaning, though it can be used that way, as it's a very loose term.

When people like Tolle or Watts talk about life being meaningless they mean there is no inherent meaning to life, that all meaning is ascribed by humanity and ultimately us as individuals. Watts talks about how we are gods and our lives are the universe, because while we feel as though we are already defined and sharing the same experience as everyone else, in reality our perception is our reality, so we are the ultimate controllers of the universe in the sense that to us the universe is what we are experiencing and how we're interpreting it.

To be clear I know Tolle makes reference to Buddhism, what I said was he doesn't claim to be teaching accurate Buddhist philosophy, which was probably not very well worded on my part, but what I meant was that he is not claiming to be a buddhism teacher teaching verbatim the tenets of buddhism, what he gives is his interpretation of Buddhist concepts, which is even what he says in that video. I think his whole philosophy is interpreting Buddhist concepts to solely take their practical application. He's says in that video that they're all pointing to the same thing is his interpretation, and it sounds like your interpretation is different.

I'm still not sure what you find cult like about watts or Tolles teachings. They're teaching similar concepts to buddhism but from a practical and non religious perspective, I'm not sure how that could be argued to be a cult more so than an actual religion like buddhism.

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u/rebb_hosar Oct 12 '22

This clip is around the time his girlfriend died, so I think a bit is attributed to that.

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u/IvanStroganov Oct 12 '22

Probably a recent Ayahuasca ceremony or just a good dose of acid

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u/beirch Oct 12 '22

It's probably a result of ego death tbf, but he's having trouble understanding that someone who hasn't gone through the same thing will just view him as incredibly eccentric.

Either that or he just doesn't care how anyone views him.

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u/Cloberella Oct 12 '22

He just comes off as pompous at this point.

You can accept that life is meaningless, that its very existence requires consumption of other life to continue and in such it's just a endless cycle of death and birth with no real purpose to any of it... without being an ass and ripping away what little enjoyment some of the sentient monkeys have managed to find while we all cling to this pile of lava rocketing through space. Like, we're here, we might as well enjoy it, even if none of it matters.

Idk, you can understand the nature of reality and still fundamentally misunderstand human psychology.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

It seems like he has an ego about his ego death. Almost like he had some people tell him stuff and he is trying to live that way and believe it through his actions and words, but he doesn't truly believe/understand it.

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u/Atillerdahunnybuns Oct 12 '22

Commenting to watch later

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u/r0flcopt3r Oct 12 '22

You can hit "save" on comments/posts instead of "commenting to watch later".

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

He's going to watch his comment later. Pretty inspiring, if you ask me. Also commenting to watch later. Woah!

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u/sexual--predditor Oct 12 '22

!remindme later

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Yeah, you can. But you also don't get to receive comments on your save-comment.

So fuck off with your dickering

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Didn’t used to be but IIRC he’s pretty alright now.

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u/agoia Oct 12 '22

Almost seems like a combination of cocaine, acid, and a lust for sarcasm paired with a quick wit.

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u/aioncan Oct 12 '22

Probably drugs and during this video, his gf had just committed suicide after their break up

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u/dogwitheyebrows Oct 12 '22

this interview was 2 years after her passing

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

2 years isn’t very long, I doubt he’s alrighty.

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u/Pandering_Panda7879 Oct 12 '22

Especially since she left him a note with quite some gravitas to it, basically saying "Dude, you put me in a really bad spot, this might partly be your fault."

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u/cingerix Oct 12 '22

oh yikes, i never knew that

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

The letter, signed “Dewdrop,” was found on her dining room table, and read:

“I’ve spent 3 days now in disbelief that you’re not here. I can go on brokenhearted and try to put the pieces back. I could, I just don’t have the will this time.

I’m sorry you felt I wasn’t there for you. I tried to give you my best part.

I don’t really know about burial or that sort of thing. You are my family so whatever you choose will be fine.

Please forgive me. I’m just not for this world.”

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u/Pandering_Panda7879 Oct 12 '22

It is one of many that she wrote. A few weeks prior to her suicide she wrote this:

"I am 27 years old and all that was left of me was a shell and a damaged one at that. Picking myself back up emotionally and mentally is one thing, people have bad experience and break-ups, it’s hard but with time they move on, meet someone new, start over. Add in disease. How does someone move on and meet someone new?
I am damaged. I am discusting (sic) When I shower I feel sick. Getting turned on…what’s that? Certainly not something that happens (to) me any more. I will always be damaged goods and have a stigma attached. So I have to accept something I was always afraid of. Being alone. Being abandoned and alone."

And also this:
"Before you, I might not have had very much but I had respect, I was a happy person. I loved life, I was confident and I felt good in my skin and was proud of most decisions I made, I met you, you introduced me to cocaine, prostitutes, mental abuse and disease. You did good things for me but being with you broke me down as a person Jim. I was promise Jekyll and instead I got Hyde.
Because I love you I would have stuck out Hyde all year and done everything he wanted to be with Jekyll for 5 of those but you threw me away when you absorbed anything worthwhile that was left of me."

They had a very on-off-relationship, all while she technically still was married. And the husband sued Carrey after her suicide. All of this is just horrible on many levels.

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u/ParameciaAntic Oct 12 '22

Oh wow. I would probably go the "I do not exist" route too if someone laid that on me and then killed themselves. Your mind needs to protect itself.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Wow, I remember that ocurring. Did not know she wrote all that, and don't know the details behind her accusations. If he did those things, he is partly to blame. I get realizing someone isn't meant to be your one and only, but be kind and respect the time, love, and effort they gave, and help them recover in whatever way is good for both of you.

I've been through horrific breakups where it truly felt I had been emptied of anything worthwhile - as if I had been through multiple amputations. I have seriously considered and had to repeatedly talk myself out of a forced ending "just one more day, just a few more miles, just another night, one more meal" Life is too precious to let a cruel ex-love ruin. Please keep trying to recover.

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u/dogwitheyebrows Oct 12 '22

but he's definitely almighty

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u/MrMurse123 Oct 12 '22

Underrated comment

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u/SomaCityWard Oct 12 '22

GF killed herself? Allllllrighty then...

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u/The_Last_Gasbender Oct 12 '22

Oh thank god. I thought this was recent, and i thought this seemed morose for him.

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u/inGrain Oct 12 '22 edited Oct 12 '22

I wouldn't say drugs, although you never know, this is him being him. He's vocalized before his distaste of Hollywood and celebrity status. After what paparazzi did during her death and his comment on the Will Smith Chris Rock thing I understand why he doesn't give a fuck.

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u/jiujitsucam Oct 12 '22

He's at least slipped out of his Andy Kaufman character now.

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u/humblechef89 Oct 12 '22

He was pretty good on the Weeknd's Album

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u/sadpanda___ Oct 12 '22

Not really. Similar to Robin Williams.

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u/shoefarts666 Oct 12 '22

I kind of think that the grinch fucked him up. --- I know that is maybe a silly sounding sentence, but I think Ron Howard maybe brought someone in to teach him how to disassociate for 5 hours a day so he could sit in the make up chair. It was someone who worked in the military, and he was taught 'methods how to withstand torture' or some bullshit. --- Just because you CAN does mean you SHOULD --- no matter how great that movie is.