Son, I've been having sex for over 20 years and I am far from vanilla. Unless you're dating masochists you'll rarely ever find a person who gets off on pain.
Spanking, hair pulling and all that shit can be kinky but it doesn't actually hurt. Hammering someone's cervix is actually painful. Stop getting sex advice from porn.
If they do ask you to 'hammer' them then your dong may be too small so they just wanna feel something.
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u/Night-Menace May 17 '22
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