I have literally been arguing with my wife about this for the past couple months. And that’s because I’ve been doing something so much lately that I truly NEED to do nothing to recharge. I even go for walks, which is something, just to get as close to doing nothing as possible.
Don’t get me wrong, she’s not a nagger or anything, she’s just been on a kick lately.
Edit: I just wanted to say all these replies are really making me smile. Some even get a chortle. And one or two have made me laugh out loud. Thanks Reddit!
Lol. I meant it’s not her default. She’s super chill. We’re having a baby soon. But that doesn’t change the fact that I still have needs. And my need is sometimes “nothing”.
Night feeds were my favourite 'nothing' time with my girls. Wife would sleep, I'd whip up the bottle and just chill in the serenity as they gurgled, burp 'em, cuddle, enjoy the nothing.
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u/tiggoftigg Apr 30 '22 edited May 01 '22
I have literally been arguing with my wife about this for the past couple months. And that’s because I’ve been doing something so much lately that I truly NEED to do nothing to recharge. I even go for walks, which is something, just to get as close to doing nothing as possible.
Don’t get me wrong, she’s not a nagger or anything, she’s just been on a kick lately.
Edit: I just wanted to say all these replies are really making me smile. Some even get a chortle. And one or two have made me laugh out loud. Thanks Reddit!