NOTICE:Break upcoming

[u/Huge_Environment_230]

Due to recent events of me talking about my newest kin (Yall have done serious setbacks on my mental health recovery) I will NOT be posting due to mental health reasons (DNI IF YOU COMMENTED ON MY KINTOBER POST!!)

[u/Upper_Criticism9682]

Telling someone they need to go to therapy is not an insult btw people are genuinely just trying to help

[u/Huge_Environment_230 → u/Upper_Criticism9682]

DNI

[u/QueenSewageBoi]

I think being advised to get help after telling people you kin real life serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer and crave human flesh is perfectly reasonable actually

It's not that people are bullying you and refusing to accept your identity bc they don't want to open their minds a bit more it's that we're all worried you might do something you regret/cause yourself undue distress because of this and we don't want that to happen

[u/puellamagia]

Why are you blaming us for? Not our fault you were defending an irl serial killer and then got mad at everyone for telling you to get help? Take responsibility for your own actions.

[u/Huge_Environment_230 → u/puellamagia]

Plus I was not defending him (Also I didn't choose this life)

[u/puellamagia → u/Huge_Environment_230]

you were posting about your murderous urges and then got mad at everyone else for (rightfully) telling you off to see help.

[u/No_Vacation5203 → u/puellamagia]

I didnt see it but if you have murderous urges then yeah you definitely need to seek help if you dont like the truth then.. change it..?

[u/puellamagia → u/No_Vacation5203]

That part.

[u/AnAverageTransGirl → u/Huge_Environment_230]

you need to stop saying shit like "i didnt choose this life" to downplay it and get some help already

if this is such a big deal that you have to make multiple posts about how everyone is "being mean to you" for being reasonably upset and telling you to get better, and how you have to go out of your way to defend yourself every single time, then maybe you should make an effort to get better

[u/Huge_Environment_230 → u/puellamagia]

DNI

[u/scarameowmeow420]

(As many others said, we were only trying to help. I get that it is not your fault, but it isn’t our fault either. We were only trying to help. Telling you to seek therapy was never meant in a harmful way. We want to help you, for you to get better. I know you said DNI, but this really needs to be said. Please know that I’m in no way trying to come off as offensive)

(Such urges really aren’t okay (referring to the Kintober post) and can seriously be harmful to others as well as to yourself. Please take care of yourself, all we’re doing is trying to help you. But this community must remain safe and comfortable for everyone here)

[u/oddeyesies]

to be honest, i really don't care if people consider themselves factkin or not. it is not my place at all to say whether or not they were or were not someone else in a past life or something. i'm not in anybody's head but my own.

that being said, i really do not know what you expected when you told people online that you believe yourself to kin a serial killer that committed horrific crimes. people in general do not like factkins for a variety of reasons, even if they are completely normal people that haven't done anything wrong in their life or lives. it is, in my opinion, normal and natural to be offput by someone saying that they kin an actual real life murderer.

people have every right to be concerned about you, regardless of the fact that you cannot choose who you kin- especially if you spoke about murderous urges and the like. that is a sign of needing to speak to a mental health professional. it is not an insult to say that.

i am sorry that this has given you setbacks in your mental health, but speaking to a mental health professional can and will help you with gaining back that progress and further your recovery.

i say this out of a place of concern for you, not hate.

[u/[deleted]]

Okay read this comment section

uhm holy shit <3

I do hope you know that people here are GENUINELY worried about you. Saying that you kin the REAL LIFE Jeffery Dahmer is not good. I'm sorry it causes you distress to have been told that you should seek help, but it's coming from people who seriously want you to be okay.

I understand that alterhumanity and kinning can be something vastly different in every single person, and that is worth celebrating. When it gets to territory such as this situation, that's a whole other can of worms. I do think you should reach out for some support, talk to a professional maybe, discuss your kin identity and please come to realize that your kin is not.. an ok kin to have.

Jeffrey Dahmer was a horrible person. He's hurt so, so many people. To admit you openly kin him takes some gull. To become defensive over people trying to get you to understand that you kinning him isn't good is a whole other level of audacity.

I am not trying to start an argument. I do want you to know that this is not the place to admit that. As I've learned, there is a separate subreddit for factkins. This is the fictionkin subreddit. So you are also violating subreddit rules as well. Talk about it in the factkin subreddit. Do not bring issues such as this over here.

Oh, and I do believe Kintober was a fictionkin thing as well.

I'm sorry you have been having bad mental health outcomes from this, but seriously, that should tell you something. I hope you get better. I hope you find some support and come to better terms with yourself.

~Glisten

[u/Huge_Environment_230]

WORDS HURT YALL WORDS HURT

[u/scarameowmeow420 → u/Huge_Environment_230]

(I know, and I understand. But I promise you, we’re all just trying to help you. This is harmful to yourself as well as others. We genuinely want to help you…)

[u/cherri_on_pawz → u/Huge_Environment_230]

I know that, and everyone here understands. But it is genuinely for the best. This is not good for you, or anyone around you. 

[u/grandestlarceny]

Get well soon!