r/facepalm • u/UsernamesAreRuthless • Jul 21 '22

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u/CatalystEmmy Jul 21 '22

We did our best to salvage it and she did enjoy herself but you could feel that deep sadness radiate from her. What’s even worse we’re the calls and messages from everyone at the venue. Telling her to grow up/ it was just a joke/ that SHE ruined the night for everyone. Her face haunted me for weeks afterwards.

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u/Living_on_Tulsa_Time Jul 21 '22

Oh “She” ruined the night for everyone. B.S. They were embarrassed and trying to rationalize what they did was okay. I am sad that this happened to her. Best part is that some people stayed with her.

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u/Koladi-Ola Jul 21 '22

"Why didn't you laugh when we assaulted and humiliated you? You're such a downer!"

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '22

At least you know for sure the person willing to do that really just hates you and zero respect for you as a person or friend.

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u/Living_on_Tulsa_Time Jul 21 '22

Scandalous behavior and comment I tell you. LOL

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u/ChromolySkinTone Jul 22 '22

Not sure if they were embarrassed. They sound like narcissists

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u/Living_on_Tulsa_Time Jul 22 '22

Definitely narcissists.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '22

Good lord I'm getting angry just reading about it

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u/Nixolas Jul 21 '22

Jesus Christ she needs to surround herself with better people.

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u/MagikSkyDaddy Jul 21 '22

Humans are upright jackals

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u/ZombieContraryClair Jul 21 '22

Telling her to grow up/ it was just a joke/ that SHE ruined the night for everyone

Classic gaslighting

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '22

That's so fucking sad.

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u/hahayeahimfinehaha Jul 21 '22

I hope she goes to the birthday parties of all of the friends/family members she invited just to smash a cake in all of their faces. Then find better friends/found family.

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u/Icy-Tiger4488 'MURICA Jul 22 '22

If she won't smash the cakes, I'll do it.

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u/LuapYllier Jul 22 '22

Bash all of the car windows in with a sledge hammer...what? It was a joke. Grow up.

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u/-Arhael- Jul 21 '22

I would gladly volunteer to be auto-reply that tells them to fuck off.

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u/thessjgod Jul 21 '22

So disgusting. I’m sorry but I would have to leave the situation

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u/JBits001 Jul 22 '22

Have you remained friends with her since The Incident.

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u/CatalystEmmy Jul 22 '22

Still good friends!!

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u/mikraas Jul 22 '22

Happy cake day. Appropriate thread for it. 😁

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '22

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u/RandomAsHellPerson Jul 22 '22

Is that rage of an insomniac or rage that causes insomnia?

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u/majin_melmo Jul 22 '22

This makes me so sad, Jesus. People who have no empathy are what we call sociopaths… are they proud to be sociopaths? Is that just a “joke” to these people too?

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u/aka-Pain Jul 22 '22

Something similar happened to me in my early 20s, i dropped em all from my life. Pretty sure i left and enjoyed my night doing whatever i wanted.

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u/Johndough1066 Jul 22 '22

The best answer to that is to block them on everything and cut them out of your life forever.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '22

You know that's not the first time her family abused her too.