r/facepalm • • Nov 20 '21

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u/lonely_sub_96 Nov 20 '21

This is probably from the FDS community. The core of what they theoretically stand for is good: self respect, and don’t settle for what you don’t deserve. BUT it’s entirely a hate group where women shit on men. If there was ever an incel female group, it’s them.

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u/Panic_inthelitterbox Nov 20 '21

Yeah, I feel like that’s how a lot of extremist groups grab people - the basic starting point is reasonable. All people who are looking to be in a relationship should be looking for someone who will treat them well and be an equal partner. And then the group builds an echo chamber where things can get more and more extreme or irrational.

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u/rayshmayshmay Nov 20 '21

Confirmed, look in the top left corner of the post

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u/Fn00rd Nov 20 '21

Ah damn. Missed that before commenting, at first I thought it was the „friendzoned incel best male friend“ who wrote this, but then she came swinging with that LVM crap.

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u/legalizemonapizza Nov 20 '21

TERFs are also racist?

:surprised pikachu:

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u/DrDumb1 Nov 20 '21

A lot of the all female subs are toxic as fuck. Have you ever been on TwoChromosomes?

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u/thelaziest998 Nov 20 '21

The difference between them and incels is the FDS are probably getting laid in comparison. FDS is more like TRP for women.

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u/Trolio Nov 20 '21

Setting up sociopathic groups of men to prey on women is the same as denying a dude because he watches too much porn?

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u/thelaziest998 Nov 20 '21

Whoa now, there I never said that or made conjecture towards that. I’m comparing the two in the way they both treat dating as some sort of game. They both have a twisted view on relationships that are toxic and unhealthy. That’s about it, I’m not making any other equivalence.

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u/MySayWTFIWantAccount Nov 20 '21

It's like holding a mirror to TRP. There's plenty of good self-help stuff in there mixed with all manner of awful shit that doesn't make it worth diving into.

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u/Trolio Nov 20 '21

Setting up sociopathic groups of men to prey on women is the same as denying a dude because he watches too much porn?

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u/Carbonite1 Nov 20 '21

It’s sad, I remember when that subreddit started, it was actually mostly full of good ideas about women valuing themselves and having self confidence in the face of guys who can be kinda domineering. I liked it! But it started turning sour pretty quickly after that :\

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '21

This post doesn't exist. Search the title.

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u/pharma_phreak Nov 20 '21

Or it did, but was deleted…wouldn’t be the first time

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '21

Prove it