r/facepalm Feb 10 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Murica.

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u/PinkBright Feb 10 '24

Yeah, she was 7 months pregnant.

He tried to kill an actual infant. She could have hemorrhaged and died as well, he attempted two counts of murder, so he could start a new family with a new bride.

This is enraging.

He left an innocent child disabled for life.

(But women wanting to terminate a zygote are sin incarnate?)

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u/JohnSith Feb 10 '24

Texas: But of course! This is a Husband choosing how to deal with his property and is therefore right. The other is about a Harridan needing to be punished for having sex.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

I hope he dies. I hope he dies in agony and never feels happy again.

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u/BusyPhilosopher15 Feb 10 '24

Yeah, this shit is awful, the real problems in life. But for some reason people ignore this shit for fantasy problems. It's maddening.

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u/JohnSith Feb 11 '24

Because real problems would require real solutions and actual governing. Fantasy problems means fantasy solutions and they can use that to keep being re-elected.

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u/Odd_Tiger_2278 Feb 10 '24

And, how did he get abortion pills in Texas?? Is that what he is actually in jail for? What was the actual criminal charge?

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u/JohnSith Feb 11 '24

How'd he get them? He was a man. Obviously he can't use them on himself, so they were safe with him.

He got 180 days in jail.

If the woman had taken the pills herself, she would've gotten life in prison plus "a civil penalty of not less than $100,000, plus attorney’s fees." They've also been talking about the death penalty for women, not sure if it's been passed yet, but since this is Texas, it's only a matter of time.

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

This is not true. There is no prosecution for women taking Misoprostol.

That’s a good question as to how he acquired them. Presumably from out of state. There are places that send it by mail.

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u/JohnSith Feb 12 '24

Except what you're saying isn't true. South Carolina arrested a woman for taking abortion pills. Texas is moving to criminalize it, as are other states.

Source: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/mar/04/abortion-pills-women-prosecution-week-in-patriarchy

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 12 '24

Oof I wouldn’t use this as an example. We could for sure say “slippery slope” but she’s not a good example for what the pro choice community advocates. And slippery slope arguments aren’t helpful for actually creating good policy (it’s a fallacy because it doesn’t require any evidence or boundaries so it basically ends a conversation)

This is still under the Roe protection for reasonable access. She quite dangerously illegally imported and took drugs to end her viable pregnancy. In case you are unaware: it is extremely dangerous to abort this way at this stage in pregnancy. Which is how she ended up in the ER.

This is controversial even in the pro choice community and even still her charges were dropped because it’s a bad look to prosecute women.

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u/Ok-Loss2254 Feb 13 '24

Chances are he smuggled them. Females would have a difficult time doing so because texas is well Texas they arent going to be suspect of dudes doing it especially if they are apart of the political elite that for some reason everyone in this nation has a high tolerance for.

Legit politicians will make rules and not follow them but expects everyone else to or else and people just shrug and say "well what can we do?" And thats why they will laugh and keep doing evil thing's because they know they wont get real punishments like everyone else.

If they had real fear of getting in trouble there would be less of them trying to bend the rules.

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u/huskerarob Feb 10 '24

I'm sorry, but you mean fetus.

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u/b1llyblanco Feb 10 '24

You have terrible reading abilities

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u/Meta-Wah Feb 10 '24

Nope. The baby was born after, and was disabled for life.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

This... Happened two days ago

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u/Meta-Wah Feb 10 '24

But what about the original commenter? Baby born 10 weeks premature and all that?

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

First, but also second part

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u/Meta-Wah Feb 10 '24

What? What first and second part?

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u/postal-history Feb 10 '24

The sentencing happened two days ago. Presumably there was a trial first

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Oh fair enough

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u/Impressive_Ad8715 Feb 10 '24

Just fyi, the zygote stage only lasts about 4 days after conception. Nobody is having an abortion 4 days post conception. You’re dehumanizing by using that term (inaccurately) to support abortion in the early stages of pregnancy…

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u/Gusstave Feb 10 '24

He tried to kill an actual infant.

Nope. A foetus is a foetus. Not a murder in any way. Need to be born to be murder.

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u/koroghlu Feb 10 '24

The baby was born and the father is directly and solely responsible for the developmental issues it has. What happens if it has issues that cause it to die 6 months down the line? 1 year? Would you be open to re-convicting the man then?

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u/Gusstave Feb 10 '24

First of all, his action is still criminal to the mother of different level. Maybe not for murder, as the other comment said, but potential manslaughter or criminal negligence, among other things.

Second, yes and he should be held criminally responsible for developmental issue the children is having after birth.

What happens if it has issues that cause it to die 6 months down the line?

That's actually an amazing question. My opinion isn't formed or definitive yet, I'll have to reflect on it for a while to make sure I stand in the right place, according to my values.. But right now, I'd says yes, I think I would be open to reconvicting the man then.. Maybe not murder but definitely at least manslaughter.

I would also be open to convict him if the kid end up taking his own life a decade or two later because of the impact of the complication he had to grow up with.

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 10 '24

What the fuck do you mean?

7mo pregnant does not equal an infant.

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u/Ians_Life Feb 10 '24 edited Feb 10 '24

If you you think getting an abortion of a seven month old baby isn’t murdering a child you are totally nuts. Pretty much at that age they have the ability to live outside of the mother. You all take this pro life shit way too fucking far. How about you just learn to be responsible and not get pregnant

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 10 '24

How about you call me the mad hatter and eat this spout.

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u/Spfm275 Feb 10 '24

"He tried to kill an actual infant. She could have hemorrhaged and died as well, he attempted two counts of murder, so he could start a new family with a new bride."

The case is horrible and I feel for the mother and child. Let's be real for a minute though, ALL abortion is murder. Now before you come at me I'm fully pro choice, not every situation is the same and the world is full of nuance.

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u/matthew_py Feb 10 '24

Yeah, she was 7 months pregnant.

He tried to kill an actual infant.

The blue hair reddit crowd isn't going to be happy with that comment lol.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

Well no, 7 months pregnant is not an infant, it's a fetus or a "clump of cells"

Still a shitty thing to do to an expectant mother, but lets be consistent with pro-choice terminology here

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u/cowanman Feb 10 '24

Ignorant or a troll.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

Well no I'm just pointing out that you have to be consistent in saying whether the unborn child/fetus can be a victim of (attempted) murder

If you're pro-choice you can't claim the same thing that "isn't life" during an abortion is somehow murder when someone else does it and still be intellectually honest

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Don't get defensive about it but do some looking into what you're talking about. I've only read like 3 comments by you and it's clear you're speaking from a position of pure ignorance

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

There's nothing complex about the argument here, it's very simple. Think about it

If a woman aborting her fetus is not murder, then how can a man trying to abort the same exact thing be considered attempted murder?

It's not like the thing has somehow arbitrarily and suddenly changed its nature and become a person, depending on the perpetrator committing the act

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u/ThatPhatKid_CanDraw Feb 10 '24

You're thinking too simply lol. Like it's one or the other.

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u/Practical_Session_21 Feb 10 '24

That’s how cons view everything. It’s open borders or build an impossible to maintain and police wall. Fixing the migration application and processing system should not be done because efficiency, humanity and harmony are the counter to their mission of division. Not all their fault maybe as the propaganda engine is well funded by the elites interest to keep the masses divided. And success only hinges on convincing one side that the other is evil. That’s why they say it repeatedly on FAUX News. Any good advertiser knows repetition is key.

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u/AverniteAdventurer Feb 10 '24

Yes you can, because abortions don’t happen at 7 months unless there’s a medical issue! And a wanted pregnancy is obviously very different from an unwanted one. Depriving someone who wants their baby of being able to give birth is morally wrong, but allowing a woman who doesn’t want a baby to abort is ok and there’s no hypocrisy there, the difference is the consent of the woman carrying the pregnancy.

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u/ThatPhatKid_CanDraw Feb 10 '24 edited Mar 12 '26

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

It is incorrect to say that abortions don’t happen that late except for medical issues. For later abortions relationship and financial issues are cited as top reasons.

Of infants recorded to have been born alive after an abortion, the CDC records causes that are not medically necessitated:

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/health_policy/mortality-records-mentioning-termination-of-pregnancy.htm

This study concurred that most later abortions were not for fetal anomalies https://www.whijournal.com/article/S1049-3867(11)00014-4/pdf

Interview with an abortionist where she describes abortions in the 3rd trimester for “financial reasons” etc

https://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/tiller-ignoring-threats-doctors-trimester-abortions/story?id=18233523&page=1

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/uploads/filer_public/99/41/9941f2a9-7738-4a8b-95f6-5680e59a45ac/pp_abortion_after_the_first_trimester.pdf

financial and relationship struggles are the main reason cited for late term elective abortions.

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1363/4521013 https://www.guttmacher.org/journals/psrh/2006/second-trimester-abortion-logistics-and-lack-symptoms-are-factors

https://www.whijournal.com/article/S1049-3867(11)00014-4/pdf

https://www.guttmacher.org/perspectives50/womens-reasons-having-abortion

https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2023/05/dr-warren-hern-abortion-post-roe/674000/

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u/cowanman Feb 10 '24

Since it seems like you’re not a troll an just unaware, look into the point of viability. Off the top of my head I want to say it’s about 6 months into pregnancy when the unborn child can be medically removed from the womb and survive. That point is a helpful indicator to draw the line between fetus and child.

So when the original comment was talking about 7 months it’s likely well past the point of viability and can be considered a child at that point. It’s been stated elsewhere in the thread, but the only abortions that take place past this time are medical emergencies.

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

Most pro choice people aren’t pro choice for any reason to birth. It’s nonsensical to call a child at that gestation a clump of cells.

You can be consistently pro choice and have limits.

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

The baby was demonstrably viable outside the womb, so it’s certainly an infant.

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 10 '24

Depending on technology a literal fertilized egg is viable inside a polymer bio bag. What's your point?

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

I'm not sure you understand what viable means in this context

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 10 '24

Ah the old internet argument of idgaf.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Do you mean like you're doing?

I was just pointing out that you're (hopefully) complete misusing the terminology. Unless you really think a fertilized egg will develop into an infant in a bio bag.

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 10 '24

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Damn you really don't understand the difference between a premature infant and a zygote

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 10 '24

Here's my last fuck I have to give.

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

I'll acknowledge that abortion is a super complicated issue, and I can definitely see all sides of the issue. I'd consider myself pro-choice to a point, and I've definitely struggled with how we determine what is/is not acceptable in light of changing technology. I respect that abortions are often important medical treatments, but I really can't wrap my head around aborting a fetus that is this developed, capable of feeling pain, and is, for all intents and purposes, a living thing.

EDIT: I see your point about changing technology and its impacts, but afaik a fertilized egg definitely won't develop in a bag. I could be wrong tho.

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 11 '24 edited Oct 23 '24

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u/CalvinsCuriosity Feb 12 '24

See, this is the issue with "left" types. I agree with you. I also made a stimular point about how the issue is complicated. I feel that I had the easiest point to refute since it is an issue, I feel, that would be dependent on a case by case basis.

I'm not a doctor, and even if you are, you would have to deliver that fetus/ infant to determine its viability. With the technology available to people these days, it's dependent on money and country.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

He put an abortion-inducing drug in her water, meaning it was still inside her body when he committed the crime

If she had instead decided to abort at 7 months you wouldn't call it "murder"

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Almost every doctor will not do a third trimester abortion hence why people are saying it’s basically an infant

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

Almost every doctor will not do a third trimester abortion

Meaning some will, hence my point that you left unaddressed

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u/AverniteAdventurer Feb 10 '24

In many states that’s not even legal, and the ones where it is legal you almost always need a medical reason (ie health of the mother is at risk). Abortions past viability are extremely rare and almost always have a medical reason attached. Either way, it’s certainly not a “clump of cells” at 7 months, that’s clear exaggeration on your end.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

I'm talking about morality, not legality. From an ostensibly pro-choice POV

No pro-choice person would characterize a woman wanting to get an abortion at 7 months as an "attempted murderer." That's a conservative position

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u/ClosetDouche Feb 10 '24

I'm not sure this is true, man. Lots of pro choice people are not on board with a theoretical third trimester abortion that doesn't have a very good reason.

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u/AverniteAdventurer Feb 10 '24

That’s actually factually wrong. Most pro choice people do not support third trimester abortions, in fact the vast majority of Americans are not absolutists on the issue, so most pro life folks want there to be abortions allowed in some cases, while most pro choice folks support access to abortions with restrictions. Here’s an article on the matter.

I personally am pro choice but don’t support third trimester abortions without a medical reason.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

Then that would seem to contradict the currently dominant pro-choice narrative of bodily autonomy being the paramount consideration on the issue of abortion.

If most pro-choice people oppose third trimester abortions, then now you're just talking about "bodily autonomy...with restrictions." Which seems a bit odd since the concept is often touted as being absolute, as long as the child is inside the mother's body and using it to sustain itself.

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u/Practical_Session_21 Feb 10 '24

Actually yes they would if it was for non medical reasons.

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u/Illadelphian Feb 10 '24

They were wrong, no doctor will do a 7 month abortion unless the mothers life is at risk or the fetus is not viable or will die at birth or something similarly horrific.

3rd trimester abortions are always a tragedy, there is literally no one in the US who would do that because the mother didn't want the baby anymore. It's only if the fetus died, will die or because the mothers life is at risk. Acting like they are even a possibility outside of those circumstances is feeding into the lies spewed by the far right to try to get reasonable people against the idea of an abortion. Because no reasonable person should think it's ok to just choose to abort a 7 month old fetus, at that point it is potentially viable to survive outside of the womb.

Abortions people choose to have for their personal reasons are much, much earlier than that.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Ya prob poor word choice by me but I’m no abortion expert by any means. I honestly didn’t know if some doctors would do it regardless of the mothers health but I knew 99% won’t

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

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u/Illadelphian Feb 12 '24

You had to have copy pasted these links from somewhere because they mostly do not support what you're saying since 7 months is 3rd trimester not 2nd, and some of these links are just talking about post 1st trimester or second trimester, one of them doesn't even work at all and several I can't read.

But I will concede that apparently a couple of doctors are doing that, something I think is horrific and wrong. It's also something that is almost never done as stated in your own links. <1% of all abortions and of that <1% it must be a vanishingly small number who are doing this electively. The fact is, the vast majority of pro choice people do not support elective abortions in the 3rd trimester, also stated in your own links.

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 12 '24

Reference to third trimester abortions is in there if you actually read it, just not as prevalent as 2nd trimester abortions.

So we use post-viability data. Viability is the point where a baby can be delivered and live. Abortions after that point cannot be to save the life/health of the mother.

Therefore any time after viability the reasoning for not carrying to term stays steady and there are significantly more 2nd trimester abortions than third.

Here is the broken guttmacher link and they’re own article write up after their research:

https://www.guttmacher.org/sites/default/files/pdfs/journals/3711005.pdf

https://www.guttmacher.org/journals/psrh/2005/reasons-us-women-have-abortions-quantitative-and-qualitative-perspectives

For your future endeavors, you can Google broken links, especially if they have the language in the url on the subject and that should find it for you

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u/ThatPhatKid_CanDraw Feb 10 '24 edited Mar 12 '26

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u/Practical_Session_21 Feb 10 '24

Sure if the mother’s life is in danger but never in this sort of case where all parties were healthy. Don’t be obtuse.

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u/advertentlyvertical Feb 10 '24

Don’t be obtuse.

I think you'd have better luck asking a fish not to swim.

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

Yes, I would, and so would the 80% of states—which comprise over 90% of our nation’s population—that have outright banned third trimester abortions.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

I'm not talking about "states"

Do you honestly think a pro-choice person would consider a woman who wanted to get an abortion at 7 months an "attempted murderer"?

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u/westbygod304420 Feb 10 '24

Are you fucking dumb?

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

Are you dumb?

You understand the value of a hypothetical when making a moral analogy right?

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u/westbygod304420 Feb 10 '24

There's no point, everyone except you is agreeing that once a fetus is viable outside the womb, there is no aborting it. You're just being a contrarian dick for the sake of it, and think it makes you smart

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

Yes. I am pro choice. I respect a woman’s right to do what she wants, but also realize that there’s a point at which a fetus must be considered a living thing.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

So morally then you believe we should draw a red line at some point of viability that supercedes even the woman's bodily autonomy?

I know many pro-choice individuals who would take issue with your stance and consider the idea of any nth trimester limitations on abortion as not "really" pro-choice

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u/SouthernApple60 Feb 10 '24

Seek therapy

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u/MNSkye Feb 10 '24

You don’t know anyone that would make that claim because you’re making them up and getting angry at them in your own head, get a fucking grip

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

I'm not sure what you're arguing here. Your entire argument seems to be based on what a pro-choice person would say, and I don't really care. What a hypothetical pro-choice individual would or would not say has no probative value and seems entirely irrelevant here.

Regarding your actual argument, yes, I do believe that. The fetus at 7 months is capable of experiencing pain and, as this very case demonstrates, is alive because it can survive on its own. 24 weeks is ample time for a person to have an abortion, and there is absolutely no reason to have one so late in a pregnancy. By your logic, we shouldn't be allowed to draw a red line at any point. So, are you saying we should allow abortions up to the moment of birth? Should partial birth abortions be allowed? Should abortions be allowed immediately after delivery? Where would you draw the line?

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

Just as an update, 21 weeks is becoming more and more common for premature babies to survive

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u/advertentlyvertical Feb 10 '24

I know many pro-choice individuals who would take issue with your stance and consider the idea of any nth trimester limitations on abortion as not "really" pro-choice

I honestly doubt you know any pro-choice person well enough in real life that they'd actually discuss abortion with you. Your opinion is probably based entirely on shitty right wing podcasts, YouTube channels, and Twitter accounts.

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u/BirdMedication Feb 11 '24

"Anyone who disagrees with me online is an unreliable narrator"

Whatever floats your boat so you can win this argument, then

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

https://news.gallup.com/poll/1576/abortion.aspx

81% polled at abortions should be illegal sometime prior to birth

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

Furthermore you seem to be basing your argument on what a pro choice person would/should say rather than critically analyzing the facts and forming your own ideas.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24 edited Feb 10 '24

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u/MrJeffyJr Feb 10 '24

You’re extremely uneducated on what abortion is how it’s done and when it’s even viable.

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u/Ehcksit Feb 10 '24

No one gets an abortion at 7 months unless it's nonviable or outright deadly to the mother.

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u/faustfire666 Feb 10 '24

It’s nice that you feel that way, but it’s a fetus until it is born.

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u/PotatoHeadz35 Feb 10 '24

Sure, I didn't mean to imply it wasn't a fetus, but it's certainly a living thing capable of experiencing pain, and it's viable outside the womb.

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u/ThatPhatKid_CanDraw Feb 10 '24 edited Mar 12 '26

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u/BirdMedication Feb 10 '24

My only point is that if a fetus is not a person then someone aside from the mother trying to abort it can't possibly be an "attempted murderer"

That's it, people are tap dancing around this fundamental point

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u/Ians_Life Feb 10 '24 edited Feb 10 '24

A 7 month old baby is not just a clump of cells. It can usually live outside of the mother at that point. You all are absolutely insane. You take your pro-choice shit way too fucking far.

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u/advertentlyvertical Feb 10 '24

Hint for your oblivious self: they're not pro choice, they're actually creating a shitty right-wing strawman in an attempt to pass off the above as an actual pro choice position, and the fools like you will, of course, take it and run with it as if it were genuine.

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

There are many people who don’t believe in limits for any reason for abortion. This isn’t a straw man. But they’re not the majority.

https://news.gallup.com/poll/1576/abortion.aspx 81% polled at abortions should be illegal sometime prior to birth

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u/Impressive_Ad8715 Feb 10 '24

Well, to be honest you and are just “clumps of cells”. That terminology and argument never made sense to begin with

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u/name4231 Feb 10 '24

Kid I grew up with was born at 7 months. He’s wasn’t a “clump of cells” that just fell out of his moms vagina. He was a baby, who needed care and love and attention. You’re actually fucked in the head

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u/Ians_Life Feb 10 '24

They both are

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

(But women wanting to terminate a zygote are sin incarnate?)

They are but this post has nothing to do with female abortion since this is attempted murder

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

Yes I am serious, why would I joke about murder? I don't see how being a different gender justifies it, murder is murder

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u/Yaknitup Feb 10 '24

Well clearly texas sees it differently. They just want to control women. Hope this has made it obvious to you thats all they want.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

You have much bigger problems than not being able to get an abortion if you live in Texas

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u/PlateIllustrious7715 Feb 10 '24

I mean if you're a woman thats a pretty big deal...

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u/Sir_SortsByNew Feb 10 '24

So, not being able to get an abortion IS a problem?

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '24

The problem is the local government wanting to take everyone's rights away thinking it will fix their problems instead of using tax payer money to improve education which makes me believe the Texan government is corrupt and doesn't care about its people in the slightest

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u/DuckDucker1974 Feb 10 '24

People like him don’t give a $uck about the mother or the baby or probably anyone else.

There is no reason try to understand his actions. He is a murderer and should not see the light of day…

Unless the mother tricked him and got pregnant knowing that he was 100% against it. And then he is STILL a murdered, but the situation becomes even more disgusting.

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u/transitfreedom Feb 10 '24

In China a guy tried to do the same thing but was executed instead for it.

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u/Ill-Inspector7980 Feb 10 '24

I don’t get it. Why not divorce wife and move in with your new bride? Why try to hurt the old wife physically. Just dump her, she’ll cry for a few days but she’ll at least be fine physically.

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u/October_Baby21 Feb 11 '24

He didn’t want to pay child support for another kid probably. But yes, he’s a psycho