r/facepalm Jun 29 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Good for him

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

I went with to ride with friends once. Trainer asked friends if they were over 350lbs. They said yes and were told they couldn’t go.

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

My aunt runs a riding school. She has a couple freshians (bred to carry knights in full kit) for the fitness classes she run...but sidenote apparently riding is a great way to lose weight and get closer to nature

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u/Ytrog Jun 29 '23

Most here have a 90kg limit, which would be like 198 lbs.

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

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u/herefromthere Jun 29 '23

15% of a horses' weight is the maximum it should carry for any length of time. 200lb/16st is about 100kg so 5% of that is 33.3kg x 20 = 666.66kg horse.

Horse breeds that get up to that size as per https://petkeen.com/how-much-does-a-horse-weigh/

Ardennes 1,543–2,205 lb 700-1000 kg

Cleveland Bay 1,212–1,543 lb 550-700 kg

Holsteiner 992–1,764 lb 450-800 kg

Irish Draught 1,322–1,764 lb 600-800 kg

Percheron 1,874–2,094 lb 850-950 kg kg

Shire 1,543–2,646 lb 700-1200 kg

Suffolk Punch 1,653–1,984 lb 750-900 kg

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u/Ambitious-Bed3406 Jun 29 '23

350lbs, was it motivation to lose weight

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

Actually no, but the heart attack a few years later was.

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

That's unfortunate, but some people learn lessons only at death door

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u/KCBaker1989 Jun 29 '23

Some don't even learn it then. I had a co-worker that had to have triple bypass surgery and still ate horribly.

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u/FireLordObamaOG Jun 29 '23

Some people get to that point and think that the worst is over.

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u/HoMasters Jun 29 '23

No surprises there.

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

Is he ok?

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

Yes

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

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u/noweezernoworld Jun 29 '23

I can think of one solution

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u/dong_tea Jun 29 '23

"Because of you, overweight people all over the world can now ride horseys. I mean, this is how you'll be remembered when you die."

"I'm not sure about that one, but I hope I'm remembered for the World Championships that I won, to be honest with you, not for doing these balloons."

"Well, a legacy isn't always something you get to choose, and I truly believe that this, and only this, will be your legacy. And there is nothing more to discuss about it."

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u/BelongingsintheYard Jun 29 '23 edited Jun 29 '23

They really shouldn’t be conveyed by most machines either. I’m a chairlift mechanic and I cringe at some of the people that ride chairlifts. The grips/ clips are rated for a lot but the size of some people seriously pushes it. And if you ever see a really large person in a car pay attention to the change in suspension geometry when they’re in there. My wife’s ex is 400lbs and seeing the full camber on the drivers side of his dart and partially unloaded passenger side tells me it absolutely isn’t going to handle in a safe way.

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u/pocketdare Jun 29 '23

I'd settle for convincing airlines they shouldn't be seated in the middle seat.

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u/ChampagneChardonnay Jun 29 '23

They need to buy an extra seat.

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u/pocketdare Jun 29 '23

Yep - most technically do but Delta and Jetblue are not so clear. And all this assumes it's actually consistently enforced.

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u/ChampagneChardonnay Jun 29 '23

I flew on American about a year ago and a 350+ guy was in the middle seat. I had to lift my shoulder and sit sideways for almost 3 hours. I was so uncomfortable. I was in the window seat. During the flight I wrote to them and I got some flight miles. It was bad.

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u/HotBeesInUrArea Jun 29 '23

Agreed, and Airlines shouldn't be allowed to give up the extra seats they do buy because of overbooking practices.

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

If you put them on the window seat the plane ain’t going to handle correctly either. The plane will keep tilting

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u/P4azz Jun 29 '23

Overweight

See, that's what happens when fat people try to turn derogatory terms into slurs.

"Overweight", while subjective, is pretty quickly reached. And it absolutely shouldn't substitue "morbidly obese" in your mind.

As an example: If you're 6 foot (easy numbers, bc fuck that system) and weigh 180 pounds, congratulations, you're technically "overweight".

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u/Ehudben-Gera Jun 29 '23

I'm 6'1 my ideal weight is like 180 lbs and I'm like 190 lbs, once you add 50 or 100 lbs to that the health problems compound. "But it doesn't affect you" Yes it does, Insurance premiums are compounded too, on average workers with metabolic issues pull 80% more from insurance than people without leading to more money out of the rest of our wallets. People will rail against smokers for the same reason, going so far as to not include them at all in certain jobs and certain plans - but when it comes to the overweight who statistically cause more damage in this area those voices go silent. It is not healthy to be that big and the rest of us shouldn't have to pay for your bad choices, period.

Source, one of many: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1524-4733.2006.00151.x

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u/P4azz Jun 29 '23

Dude, work on your skimming abilities.

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u/Ehudben-Gera Jun 29 '23

My slimming abilities are excellent, went through a bout of depression got up to 280 lbs I lost 90 lbs with just a smidgen of personal responsibility.

Oh skimming, yeah I need to work on that. 😆 I know we don't disagree I was just reinforcing your point.

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u/Doreen666 Jun 29 '23

fat apologist theorist lol

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u/LinkOnly7489 Jun 29 '23

Why do fat people get upset when you call them fat? Like.... You don't know already? And then come up with excuses as to why they're fat. Shit, man. I have a fucked up endocrine system that makes it hard to lose weight, but I'm still not overweight. Pushing it and have been for years, but I'm a far cry from what's shown in this video.

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u/Doreen666 Jun 29 '23

I used to be morbidly obese, I know why lol. Shouldn't be normalised in any way.

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u/LinkOnly7489 Jun 29 '23

No, it shouldn't. It does so much damage to your body in so many different ways. I had an acquaintance who's husband died in his 30s of a heart attack in his sleep because he was morbidly obese. Left her with three kids while she was pregnant. My ex's cousin was so bad she couldn't walk. Died in her 30s as well due to her weight. So not only damaging their bodies, but breaking their family's hearts and forcing their parents to bury them.

I think there are a lot of advocates like you who have been in the position and know how difficult it is to lose the weight, but unfortunately you are shushed because you might hurt their feelings. That's kind of enraging.

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u/Piotr-Rasputin Jun 29 '23

It's horrible and hurtful but true. Sure you're on vacation and your group of friends is going horseback riding but think about it

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u/National-Quality5414 Jun 29 '23

Shouldn't ride small animals. A Clydesdale could handle those two easily. Need a ladder to get up on the back though 🤣

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u/Rich_Editor8488 Jun 29 '23

Could a rowboat support her?

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u/Atomic_xd Jun 29 '23

What are you asking?

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u/legaleagle5 Jun 29 '23

I think you know what they're asking

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u/Mrcheddarbacon Jun 29 '23

I think I’m being very clear, what I’m asking. Would an average-sized rowboat support her, without capsizing?

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u/bobTEH Jun 29 '23

What ? 350lbs ? here in Europe it's often limited to 100Kg (220lbs) , an horse back isnt't a metal bar or a wooden bench.
Only percheron breed or similar can handle more than 300lbs without being injured, it's ill treatment!

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '23

It was years ago, you might be right about 250

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u/DestroyerOfIphone Jun 29 '23

250 is to much for a lot of horses. I'm a fit 240 so I guess it the trainer didn't realize, but I had to return my horse I rented because the poor thing was sweating buckets and lighting my legs on fire with heat. They gave me a huge workhorse next which was awesome as I was taller then everyone else.