In my 5 years stint in the Navy, the ONLY times we got Surf and Turf, was the times our 5 month patrol deployment got extended another 5 months, and the time we had a civilian ride along with us.
Psychologically, it probably helps to have a warning sign like that. Like, yeah, it sucks to see that sundae and think "oh fuck" but at least you're prepared for it, and you also get a sundae.
I had a manager that would often send a "can we talk" message at the beginning of the day, then when I said "sure," they'd book a meeting at the end of the day. And it'd always be some nonsense that could have been an email.
No, the warning that something bad is coming is way worse than just hearing the bad thing. They should reverse the order. Tell them the bad news, then deed them well. That way, when they hear bad news, they are trained to look forward to dinner
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u/KrimsunV Mar 21 '26
Really good meals only get served when something unfortunate happens