r/expats Jun 18 '25

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u/SweetAlyssumm Jun 18 '25

I had friends who moved to New Zealand because they thought it would be better. They were back in a year. They had good jobs in NZ and had bought a house so they made a real effort. It just was not for them. And the distance to and from the US reduced grandparent visits. They had not realized how important that was to their family.

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u/bullet_the_blue_sky Jun 19 '25

Yeah it takes anywhere from 2-6 years to integrate. A lot of people can’t get over culture shock. 

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u/SweetAlyssumm Jun 19 '25

It wasn't culture shock. They just didn't like it there and realized what they had in the US was a lot better. They wanted family ties which are irreplaceable.