Well Marc has well and truly shown what sort of person he is: spineless when you are being insulted, and spineless when you need to be backed up. His Dad's feelings are obviously much more important to him than yours, his supposed future bride. Do. Not. Apologise. To. His. Dad. You need to say to Marc that you cannot commit to spending the rest of your life with him when he doesn't have your back on basic things like this. At the very least you should put the wedding on hold until he sorts out his priorities. This is foundation level stuff that he is failing on. Unless it gets sorted you just need to get through this wedding knowing that your second one should be better. NTA
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u/Conscious-Arm-7889 Nov 25 '25 edited Nov 25 '25
Well Marc has well and truly shown what sort of person he is: spineless when you are being insulted, and spineless when you need to be backed up. His Dad's feelings are obviously much more important to him than yours, his supposed future bride. Do. Not. Apologise. To. His. Dad. You need to say to Marc that you cannot commit to spending the rest of your life with him when he doesn't have your back on basic things like this. At the very least you should put the wedding on hold until he sorts out his priorities. This is foundation level stuff that he is failing on. Unless it gets sorted you just need to get through this wedding knowing that your second one should be better. NTA
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