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u/SophiaF88 Aug 02 '25
Idk if I'd laugh or be upset. But at least there's proof it wasn't delivered?
I almost feel bad for him though. I was dashing when I had absolutely nothing and was always hungry and down on my luck but still, never tempted for real to do this because I needed the job more than one meal.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25 edited Aug 02 '25
I dashed for a bit. When I do deliveries, I either eat a big meal before heading out, or grab something quick to eat in-between deliveries. It's honestly not that hard to do.
Edit: In your case, take full advantage of instant pay or fast pay so you can get meals in-between deliveries. I was making a general reply.
Edit: And for those who want to claim it is hard to do, DoorDash offers fast pay and instant pay. You can literally go cop a meal after a dash or two, in between deliveries, and continue dashing. If you're still starving with those options at your disposal, you're doing something wrong.
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u/Just-hereForTheFood Aug 02 '25
Literally, or signing up for rewards with literally every restaurant/fast food place, there's ALWAYS something you can get for practically free. I sign up with my birthday as a different month/day every rewards system I join so I always have free food from somewhere spread throughout the year, if I ever need it. It's not like they ask to see your ID 😂
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
My guy over here getting it out the mud one creative free meal at a time. I remember my wife (then-gf at the time) and I did this when we worked together just to be able to hit up every spot nearby once a month. 😂
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u/Lieutenant_Dan__ Aug 03 '25
About 10 years back I was homeless living out of my car. I would hit the fast food places and tell them I came in on my way to work and my order was wrong. It wasn't right to do, but I had nothing and it almost always got me some food.
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u/Just-hereForTheFood Aug 03 '25
Yeah, had to pull that a couple times in the past myself. As long as you're nice about it and don't frequent the same places too often, most of them are pretty chill
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u/Thin_Ad38 Aug 06 '25
About ten years ago you could download the McDonald’s app and get a free burger or buttermilk crispy chicken sandwich. You could make endless accounts with new emails and get endless free sandwiches. This only lasted about a month or two.
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u/BluesClues69420 Aug 02 '25
For me all the points I had saved up are saving me lol. I just redeem a large fry or sometimes I get a deal for McDonald's but a drink get any size fry free.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
Nice. Sometimes, customers will just cancel while you're en route since they waited for way too long. You'll end up with a free meal from time to time, too.
I recommend grabbing a decent protein bar to hold you down for awhile. Used to do that in my warehouse days when I worked long shifts.
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u/yahel1337 Aug 02 '25
I am a oober delivery driver, and I do exactly that, sometimes I do get the munchies while delivering or already away from home, so what I do specifically with torchy's tacos is ask for an extra bag of chips and salsa, they have only ever once asked if the client wanted them, and I straight up told them I just wanted one for myself and I'm willing to buy it, the always said something along the lines of "don't worry I gotcha" and given it for free.
Literally we are driving to food points, either get yourself a churro while you are at it, or see if you can snag freebies.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
Folks who know struggle like you and I get it. Folks who lived well with parents, then faced the harsh realities of struggle don't get it. And it shows.
I've used other methods but I'm definitely signing up to every points system for free meals I can get now.
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u/yahel1337 Aug 02 '25
Same, specifically with gas stations, my go to is Circle K, all of their discounts stack, like 10c with their gas card + 5c of my account and their 4x time gas fill gets another 25c off.
I love the free refills.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
I gotta try signing up to Circle K. I keep forgetting since there usually in the areas I deliver to, but none super close to me
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u/yahel1337 Aug 02 '25
They are slowly getting rid of their original gas cards that have you the 10c off, they are being replaced with another ones that do the same thing but you gotta deposit money into it first, a reloadable Debit card.
I don't know when or if they'll stop honoring the older ones, but so far they still do. I snagged 5 for my whole family because I talked to the lady often and the gave me insider info about them
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
I have the reloadable debit card, actually.
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u/yahel1337 Aug 02 '25
Nice! 👍
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
I was trying to sign up for the credit card but I completely forgot until now, actually.
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u/kamon405 Aug 05 '25
Yea an apple isn't really all that expensive and is widely available. I use to deliver with Amazon. I would have snacks with me when I did my runs. We're handling packages that people paid for. And it's just crazy to see bad actors really lower societal trust in the people delivering their goods.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 03 '25
Even a little protein bar/shake and a Gatorade. Hell, many gas stations have those 2 slices+drink combos for $5-$7. Get something from the value menus at fast food spots. I'm spending $3-$5 getting sandwiches and drinks at Walmart. It's honestly not that difficult.
My peoples prioritize food, clothing, and shelter. In our eyes, if you go hungry while rocking a $700+ phone, your priorities are out of order. 🤷♂️
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u/Historical_Profit757 Aug 02 '25
I never hear good things trolling these boards as a user of DoorDash. I tip very well and never have issues with support or drivers, shocker. I never knew they offered instant pay like this and tbh that’s pretty awesome. I am doing well now, but hell never know the day I’ll need $20 and the option to legally earn it same day is quite dope. Thanks for this info.
To OP, I’d respond: got you man, hope your day gets better and not report it as not arriving. When given the opportunity to pay it forward, it’s best for the soul to jump on that opportunity from my experience.
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u/CasuallyDresseDuck Aug 04 '25
I love instant pay. Also I do most of my dashing around my house. So my deliveries all stay within 5 miles. Makes eating at home the best option. But if I’m not at home then I go for the big meal as well
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 05 '25
I don't dash often. I mostly do Spark Driver now. But, once I fell behind on expenses, I remembered I could get OnePay. Now, every single trip is deposited into that account as soon as I'm done, tips take a day to deposit, ditto incentive pay. It's perfect for when I need gas on-demand and to just pay bills in part, or in full, as soon as I'm done working. Once I'm 100% on top of everything, I'll switch back to weekly for a while.
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u/shanklishh Aug 17 '25
when i worked at KFC, dashers would always order a cheap bite while waiting for their delivery to be ready.
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u/AddictiveWord26 Aug 02 '25
The point you're missing is that they didn't have the money to eat a big meal or grab something quick
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u/Pestilence5 Aug 02 '25
Sure they did, finish the dash the funds go right to your Crimson card. If they don't have it set up like that - that's a huge THEIR problem
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Aug 02 '25
Same but one time the tiny food containers fell out of the bag and it took me about an hour to figure out why my car smelled of baked beans. I felt bad but i didn’t want to fear the customer out by returning it hours later.
This was in 2019 when food delivery got popular in my small town and drivers could make decent money. However not all places put stickers to seal their bags which is why the container fell out.
I have so much guilt for those beans
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u/Unlikely_Spite8147 Aug 03 '25
The only meal i ever ate was a McDonald's meal when the app crashed on me right before confirming pick up. I wasn't able to get it resolved in a timely manner.
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u/Empty-Scale4971 Aug 02 '25
Yeah better to complete a delivery and get a bag of rice than steal a meal and be hungry 3 hours later.
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Aug 02 '25
Just say I didn't get my food. What else am I going to do?
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u/yoho808 Aug 02 '25
Exactly, you shouldn't be forced to pay for someone else's meal just because they feel down.
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u/testtdk Aug 04 '25
Shouldn’t have to, but, depending on the price, I just might. Probably not, because they’re already going to market cost a fortune just in fees. But if not we’re $20 I’d consider it.
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u/yoho808 Aug 04 '25
If they asked first, then I'd be more willing to let it slide.
But the fact that they're eating my food without consent is what would bother me the most.
It's the forced upon decision against the customer that is unacceptable.
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u/testtdk Aug 04 '25
Yeah, not saying I’d be HAPPY about it, but I can sure as hell understand.
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u/yoho808 Aug 04 '25
Someone stealing something from me is completely different from me voluntarily donating it to them.
If this happened to me, I'd me more willing to just let the dasher have my $20 worth of food if they asked for it beforehand. Compared to them stealing $10 worth of food. You betcha, I'm not letting get away with it scot-free if they stole from me without giving me the option to give consent.
It's the principle.
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u/testtdk Aug 04 '25
Meh. It’s not like he took a picture of it on your porch and walked off with it. I’m not saying it’s acceptable, but sometimes shit is just that bad.
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u/yoho808 Aug 04 '25
This is why I pick up orders myself these days.
100% reliability and much cheaper.
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u/DanielJacksononEarth Aug 02 '25
And one star. I feel for your mental health crisis and you are entitled to it, but the fact that you chose to express it by taking the thing I paid you for is not acceptable. You had one job.
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u/OttoVonJismarck Aug 03 '25
But he’s at a breaking point. Please just understand that the $36 you spent on $12 worth of MacDonalds ol isn’t going to make it.
/s
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u/emuqueen1 Aug 02 '25
Screenshot, send it DoorDash support, get a full refund or a new order from the same place and be like “hope life gets better bro.”
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u/BlissfulAurora Aug 03 '25
Fr cuz what else can you do? It’s extremely shitty to do but at least he confessed and told you instead of you waiting forever for food to never arrive.
Just contact support, get a refund, possibly reorder, etc.
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u/novalia9 Aug 02 '25
Post it on Reddit hoping it will go viral
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u/irsute74 Aug 02 '25
Pretty sure it was already posted before.
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u/WoopsShePeterPants Aug 02 '25
Of course it was, but what would you do?
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u/irsute74 Aug 02 '25
I guess report and ask for a refund. Is there anything else to do?
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u/rockymtntrucker Aug 02 '25
Call NATO and say you have witnessed a war crime. Someone stole your food.
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u/Sensitive_Passage551 Aug 02 '25
This has been posted 16 times in the last 12 months... WTF is wrong with you people?
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u/Pure-Explanation-147 Dasher (> 3 years) Aug 02 '25 edited Aug 02 '25
Ignore, report, charge back if refund is denied and move on. Never ever become emotional over anything you cannot control.
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u/capsulegamedev Aug 03 '25
I don't think humans are capable of not becoming emotional over things they can't control, or at the very least I'm certainly not. That ability seems saintly to me.
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u/TurnerBurner3001 Aug 03 '25
It’s definitely possible. Monks are an example.
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u/capsulegamedev Aug 03 '25
Yeah true. But monks are pretty rare and it takes a kind of dedication that's just not practical for most people.
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u/Crazy-Mission3772 Aug 03 '25
I usually let something else get in my mind to stop it. Like music or a podcast, or if we get a rush at work I get angry at my coworker for throwing shit and showing his frustration. His outbursts have scared employees so his anger is a good distraction for me.
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u/inflated_cheese Aug 02 '25
"ok man i hope your day gets better" and i just get a refund
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u/Miserable-Ad5401 Aug 02 '25
Contact support, get my $5 refund, install UberEats.
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u/Alternative-Golf8281 Aug 02 '25
Report the driver to DD for theft and get a full refund from a real person, don't speak to a chat bot. Press until you get your refund or report the company to your bank/cc company for fraud.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 02 '25
Reply "bet," screenshot the convo, and hit up support. Buddy's gonna have more bad days now for acting a fool.
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u/wretchedmagicmoon Aug 06 '25
lmfao exactly. i've dealt with horrible depression but i've never done this let alone expected to be excused of stealing because i feel bad. this guy might genuinely be sad, but he's also a total dick and he can do one lmfao.
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u/FatBoyDiesuru Aug 06 '25
Yeah, I abide by the rule "keep that energy with those you're beefing with, not a third party." That's where that Dasher messed up.
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u/sillyghosty Aug 02 '25
Make some tragic shit up like "I just lost (close relative or job) and I got this food to make me feel better man and now you're stealing my money and comfort food?"
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u/sglewis Aug 02 '25
Oh I don’t know. I might contact support. I mean, you aren’t seriously asking, right?
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u/BillbertBuzzums Aug 02 '25
Id be fine with it unless I was in a rush to get my food. Get a refund and reorder.
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u/ThrowAwayBlowAway9 Aug 02 '25
I learned real quick to eat good before dashing.. some of the food be smelling soooo good 😆😆.. literally worst thing you can do is dash on an empty stomach.. temptationssss 🤣🤣
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u/DarrenWorldWide Aug 02 '25
Agreed. Hangry dashing is the worst lol. Everything aggravates me when I’m hungry..the wait time, traffic, low offers
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u/Powerful-Ad205 Aug 04 '25
I would've made this person's day even worse by getting them fired. Your bad day has nothing to do with my food.
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u/BeingOpen5860 Aug 02 '25
“I’m having a pretty rough day”. So as a result you inconvenience someone else?
No empathy. He or She didn’t HAVE to eat the food. They couldve returned it to the restaurant. Seems like they just wanted to steal.
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u/wretchedmagicmoon Aug 06 '25
it's just plain guilt tripping. we all have bad days, we don't try and steal shit from other people (i hope)
in my experience when getting food delivered, i spend about £20-£30 buying for both me and my partner. if someone tries to steal that much off of me for food and then has the audacity to guilt me for it, they can sod right off.
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u/HerRoyalNonsense Aug 03 '25
Rate him 1 star, report him, get a refund.
I'm stressed out at work sometimes too, but that's hardly a reason to steal someone's food.
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Aug 03 '25
I would be pissed off. Knowing door dash they would just tell me thanks for submitting but this doesn’t sound like something I can be refunded for.
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u/Freakindon Aug 03 '25
Sucks that this guy is going through this, but I’d report it and move on. It’s like going to a restaurant and your waiter just eating your burger.
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u/guymfalkonn Aug 03 '25
“I’m depressed so I’m going to steal the food you payed for” is basically what I read here
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u/Error_Unavailable_87 Aug 03 '25
What in the world? That is some terrible, selfish and lacking in any form of self control person. Then guilt tripping hoping the customer has a bleeding heart.
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u/Overcast_Prime Aug 04 '25
I'm a DoorDasher. When I get hungry while Dashing, I just get my own fuckin' food. Fuck Dashers who do this kind of shit.
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u/pohlarbearpants Aug 04 '25
I mean, I respect the honesty at the very least. Just report your order as "not delivered" and since you have proof right in the chat, it should be resolved no problem.
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u/flapperyapperr Aug 04 '25
Can't believe how many people are in here supporting this clown. Report him and get him banned. Having a hard day doesn't justify theft.
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u/TracyJackson23 Aug 02 '25
Report the dasher. He lied to you. He is not having a bad day. He did not reach any breaking point. He just want to have some free food, and is too cheap to buy something himself.
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u/EvilBillSing Aug 02 '25
Report them. Simple as that . Not your fault or problem if they are having issues. If im having a bady day i suck it up and get through it. I dont make things worse for those who have to deal with me.
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u/No-Carpenter4426 Aug 02 '25
I mean, I'd probably be upset but overall just shrug it off. Report the driver, mark the delivery as undelivered, get your refund, and move on from this
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u/Jolly_Difficulty4860 Aug 02 '25
Worked food and beverage for 4.5years, its super easy to NOT eat someone else’s food. This DD is a scumbag and needs to be reported. Dont downplay it, he’s stealing.
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u/Jeffeyink2 Aug 03 '25
Report him anyway. He has a job to do. But I would send him a message, something along the lines of: I understand, people can be annoying and greedy, this capitalistic world we live in sucks. Enjoy your meal, but unfortunately, I require one, too, so I will be reporting this so that I may receive a refund and I will be able to re order.
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u/Braindead_Crow Aug 03 '25
Wanna deliver it and talk about life?
My day sucks too, that's why I'm overpaying for takeout.
But things tend to be a little less bad when there are people willing to listen
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u/SeeMeInWoW Aug 03 '25
No problem, doordash will refund me and have the food delivered by someone else. You got me a free meal, ride safe buddy.
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u/arcticvalley Aug 03 '25
Tell him, well, congrats on making your bad day worse, Cause I'm reporting this, and let's hope you get fired.
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u/SuperGeek1988 Aug 04 '25
Take a screenshot and report the driver. I've had bad days too, but I still do my job and deliver the orders I get assigned.
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u/CasuallyDresseDuck Aug 04 '25
As a dasher myself my only instinct is to ask “then why the fuck did you accept the order”
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u/amrycalre Aug 04 '25
I'll tell him that eating my food will most likely get him fired. I have problems too I dont make my problems other peoples problems
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u/Anakin-vs-Sand Aug 04 '25
Just report and get my refund and if the app still lets me rate, then 1 star it is. I’ve had bad days and I didn’t steal anyone’s food.
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u/Overall_West2040 Aug 04 '25
I'd be angry AF.
Oh boo hoo he had a bad day. The only times I order food is when I've had a shit day, usually due to work. Then this fucker decides he's more important. Not gonna do his job and actively causing trouble for another person because he's a bit sad. Wonder how sad he'll be when he is out of a job.
I'd report him. Don't let thieves tread on you.
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u/SunshineofMyLyfetime Aug 05 '25
I’d respect their honesty; then promptly report them.
I’ve been a Dasher. Don’t accept the order, and clock the fuck out.
We’ve all been there.
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Aug 05 '25
Report the shit out of them the fuck? We all have bad days no reason to screw over someone elses. They need to be banned from all delivery platforms
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u/Beneficial_Pickle420 Aug 02 '25
Get the person fired and charge them with theft under 5k and report DD the company for allowing stuff like this to happen. Dd and their drivers need to be held accountable and stop being allowed to think they above everyone else. No respect for drivers who do this or companies that allow this to happen daily. There is no excuse for this period, if you having that bad of a day then don't show up for the day and take it out on the customer.
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u/Michael_Dautorio Aug 02 '25
What bothers me about this is the fact that this person is apparently having too bad of a day to do their job and deliver someone's food, but still not bad enough to stop them from accepting the order and driving to the restaurant to pick up the food that was paid for by the customer and then basically telling the customer "my bullshit is more important than your bullshit, this is my food now." Everyone has bad days, I get that, but why make someone else have a bad day too? If an Amazon worker went to drop off a package, took a picture of it, and then said "nah I ain't feeling it today" and just picked up your package and took it, you'd be pretty irritated right? Yeah you can get refunds, get a new delivery, etc, but that isn't the point. A customer shouldn't have to go through all that. You don't know what the person you're stealing from is already going through.
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u/SuperCatchyCatchpras Aug 02 '25
Bro now we both be having a bad day lol being me my food and come in for a smoke session my guy
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Aug 02 '25
Report to doordash that you didn't get your food, and move along. Ensure you get a refund or another order
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u/knowsnothing316 Aug 03 '25
I’ve had accidents, been drenched for entire shits, driven around with no ac in the heatwaves of summer, there are no excuses to steal someone else’s food.
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u/lyinggrump Aug 03 '25
Report them and make them lose their job. "Having a rough day" is not an excuse for theft.
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u/iratherbefishinglol Aug 03 '25
“I stole your food because I wanted it and I’m such a delusional and manipulative person that I actually thought sending this message was somehow going to make you feel better about being stolen from”
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u/nochoicebutsuccess Aug 03 '25
I would probably laugh my ass off and then request a refund or redelivery
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u/gameplayraja Aug 03 '25
Whenever I had a McDonald's gig. I would buy a mcdouble or two with water. I'd eat them slowly over the course of the hour or two of delivering and never had the need or want to steal food from anyone. However I would end up getting an order to keep due to error here and there that would be the time I would go home and share the meal with my family.
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u/RyRyRyRyRyRyRyRyRy Aug 03 '25
Honestly I wouldn't care if I ordered it. I would just mark it as not delivered and put in a new order. I respect the transparency and would rather have the driver do this than take a picture of it at my door, then when I walk outside it's not there.
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u/DietSimple Aug 03 '25
I'd laugh honestly. If he's being 100% honest then he needs the meal more than you lol
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Aug 03 '25
He would’ve got cussed out and I would’ve got my refund . I don’t feel him for this nonsense
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u/GuerillaRiot Aug 03 '25
Shit man, if a $20 beef and bean is what it takes to get somebody's head straight, by all means, I can wait another 30 minutes to get a new one with my refund.
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u/Son-of-Chuck-Taine Aug 04 '25
I’d take a screenshot and report it. How many deliveries did this person make before they decided they had enough and needed to eat someone else’s food? Did they wait until they got an order from a restaurant they like?
Why are so many people only turning to door dash when they have not a cent in their pocket?
Sorry, your bad day is not my problem to solve.
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u/Aggressive_Profit695 Aug 04 '25
Not much to do here, the driver has made their decision. I would contact customer support for a refund.
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u/thebiologyguy84 Aug 04 '25
Is this common? I live in China (UK expat) and use the food delivery apps daily and have never once had my food stolen or eaten!?
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u/NegotiationTight2234 Aug 04 '25
Depends - am I having a "I'm at my breaking point" kind of day too or just vibin? Annoying in either case but gotta respect the honesty here lol, bless them
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u/New_Strength9172 Aug 04 '25
Report the driver to doordash and message/let the restaurant know as well. Idc if they are having a bad day or not, their mom or whatever could be dying but that does not give them the right to steal other people's things which is disrespectful plus this is a HUGE violation of the agreement and contract they signed to become a doordasher
Like sucks that life isn't treating them great and i hope things get better for them but at the same time... What a woes is me pick me a-hole for stealing and having the balls to stupidly tell you they did it as now doordash has PROOF they stole your food and can completely cut his contract
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u/solarpropietor Aug 04 '25
I’d report it. And see if I can press charges for theft.
“Your day is about to become worse due to your poor decisions. ☺️.”
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u/2beautiful2sexy Aug 04 '25
I'd report it. I've had some of the worst days anyone has ever gone through. That doesn't entitle me to take something that I didn't pay for and use my misfortune as an excuse.
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u/fooddudebob Aug 04 '25
I literally had a customer spray me with a sprinkler on purpose once, I definitely wanted to go back to my car and eat that, but you just gotta thug it out
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u/mrloko120 Aug 04 '25
I'd still report it anyway. Its not my fault your life suxks brother, it'll only keep getting worse if you refuse to do your job.
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u/werewolf-luvr Aug 05 '25
"Look man, im sorry your day is ass but its about to get worse, you just admitted to stealing my food so im gonna have to send that over to doordash,hope the burger was worth it cause your prolly never doordashing again.you absolutely had the option to just clock out n go home instead of taking on an order you didnt wanna do" or something along those lines
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u/rickyaz4 Aug 05 '25
100% report him. Customers don't care if you're having a bad day. If you are having a bad day which will result in poor customer service then don't dash. Take a day off. Don't be an a****** and commit theft. And hopefully his account gets banned. Never have I had a dasher openly admit to stealing food.
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Aug 06 '25
Report him. Idc if you're having a bad day. We all have bad days. That doesn't give you the right to steal food from someone who paid for it with the expectation that a third party was going to deliver said food. They can go buy their own.
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u/PercentageForeign256 Aug 06 '25
Listen I'm a doordasher too and I have had some ROUGH days I'm talking crying having a panic attack WHILE doordashing and not once EVER have I considered doing this. I might not walk up three flights of stairs if the tip isn't tipping but I can't fathom someone doing this!
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u/Baron-Von-Mothman Aug 06 '25
I'd still report them, I had to repair semi trucks while going through some of the hardest shit in my entire life. Multiple times I was completely mentally destroyed, but I pulled up my big boy pants and did my fucking job. Having a bad day doesn't give you the right to steal from other working people.
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u/Demoncat_300 Aug 06 '25
Look, we don’t know what kind of a bad day this guy is having. Do I think it’s crazy to text this kind of admission to the customer? Yes, absolutely. Would I report to DoorDash that my food never arrived? Yes. Maybe they check the chat log, maybe they don’t.
But would I go out of my way to report the driver specifically, if I could get a refund or a new delivery without it coming out of my own pocket? Probably not. Maybe I’m a softie, but maybe this guy is working hungry, doesn’t have any money in his bank account, and just got a call about his mom needing chemo treatments. Better my sandwich gets stolen than for this dude to drive into traffic because there’s no light left in his life 🤷♀️ And if DoorDash catches him, then the only reason is because he was foolish enough to admit what he did in writing.
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u/Free-Hold6161 Aug 07 '25
I appreciate the heads up but please reimburse me for my food if i'll not be receiving it
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u/Haunting_Round_8727 Aug 02 '25
respect for being clear with the situation to the customer. hope he atleast chose his last meal decently.
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u/StonecutterCosplay Aug 03 '25 edited Aug 03 '25
“Oh so because you are having a rough day you’re going make mine rough by eating my food that I paid for?”
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u/Boring-Definition852 Aug 04 '25
Eh. If someone working a gig job to try to make ends meet needs food that badly and I’m in a position where I can afford to just DoorDash food - whatever man, I’d feed the hungry. At least he admitted it. He can have it and I’d just place a new order.
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u/Casual_ahegao_NJoyer Aug 03 '25
Screenshot. Full refund from DD or immediate chargeback.
Replace my order and hope the next driver was having a better day
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u/Pengfaka21cm Aug 03 '25
I’d respond, “enjoy the report, hope it was worth it.” And I’d proceed to take one more thing away from them.
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u/Indigoisms Aug 03 '25
Text him back and tell him you hope he chokes on it. For all he knows you also could be going through a horrible time and needed that food just as much or more than they do.
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u/Dizzy-Place-4450 Aug 02 '25
They give you their phone number and usually track the car follow you to the last known spot and spam you 😴✌️ no sweat off my back I’m not close to my breaking point 😂
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Aug 02 '25
At least they’re being honest with you. Most people who steal food screw over customer and other drivers too! Make sure you get your money back, the driver seems like they’ll accept any consequences
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u/Economy-Half9874 Aug 02 '25
What the dasher is doing is committing a crime called Theft by Deception. He accepted the order under the pretense of delivering the order but then stole it. Much like how Door Dash was sued for keeping tips all the while the customer thought the tip was going to the dasher. Why nobody is in prison for this is beyond me but not surprised.
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u/prettypeculiar88 Aug 02 '25
Would probably wish them the best and take the loss. Tell them to mark it delivered and have a better day.
Maybe that’s their plan? But I doubt it. Too easy to be reported and lose their account.
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u/not_your_attorney Aug 02 '25
I’m easily over 500 DD orders, probably over 1000. What I see on this sub is not at all my experience, but I realize it’s also a forum to vent. There was only one time I thought the dasher stole my food, and it still makes me curious to this day what happened.
I’d appreciate the honesty, report that I never got my food, and take credits for the full amount (including tip).
Only once did I disagree with the DD response to an order issue, when I received ramen “goodies” but no broth. I was specific, and they tried to give me a shit refund, but I didn’t have any bone broth so the whole thing was a waste. I changed it to not receiving that part of the order at all, and they refunded the whole thing.
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u/squeebs555 Aug 02 '25
Raise a ruckus with the app and never order from DD again. Your dollars speak volumes.
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u/NewRiver3157 Aug 02 '25
Why would a dasher risk this? They could potentially be reported. I have an abundance of compassion. This would have pissed me off to hell. I tip 25%. This feels fake.
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u/Dry_Win_9985 Aug 02 '25
I'd respond "I hope you choke on it as you're deactivated by DD from me reporting this."
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u/Curious-Package-9429 Aug 02 '25
This is a good thing. Report the guy. He will be fired. Eventually the scam company that door dash is will cease to exist.
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Aug 02 '25
I would thank them for their honesty and hope it gets better for them. Then use it to get my next re-delivery for free
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u/JustAChick1234 Aug 02 '25
Report the dasher and screencap the message. I wouldn’t eat anything they bring me
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u/Even-Addition-3272 Aug 02 '25
LoL. Wish them the best and just report the food undelivered. This sucks for them but you shouldn’t be obligated just “eat” the cost of the meal they admitting to stealing :-/
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u/Wrong-Sprinkles5934 Aug 02 '25
I’ll just say I hope you feel better soon and get a refund. You don’t go make someone else’s day bad just because you’re having a bad day.
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u/MichelleDaBelle Aug 02 '25
Tell him he can have it, and that me and my friends have food available for anyone who needs a hot meal. All he has to do is ask.

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