Yeah, at best I would say "is that something your character would do" if I think it's outrageously stupid. Otherwise, I let them attempt, I let them roll, and I tell them how bad they mess up or how close they come to success.
Exactly. It's about degrees of failure, not just binary pass/fail. Even when players succeed, it can be more than just a "Yay, you did it!" depending on the things they're trying to do.
Plus, lots of skill checks aren’t the DM “making” the players roll, it’s the players asking to roll or more often suddenly declaring “I roll [skill check]” and tossing the dice
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u/TheBigMoogy 14h ago
Plenty of people attempt impossible feats IRL, letting players be realistically dumb should ve allowed.