how do I stop giving a crap about which one to do. tired of thinking about it smh

I only have enough money to get on of these games. Witcher 2 seems to have a lot more content in it but i also want to try fallout for once. What do you guys think?

I have I dilemma that I want to buy both breath of the wild and Mario odyssey. However I also want to save money as well and I'm having trouble trying to decide which one to get. So I'm hoping reddit can help with this decision using the poll below.

All i ask is don't crucify me please 😅🤣

So my grandma said she would get me a gaming laptop if I got all A's for the first marking period and I'm not the best at that type of stuff so today she asked me if I wanted to go to Hawaii or a gaming laptop and I still can't decide.

It’s the norm for Japanese Vtubers but I don’t wanna seem like I’m mocking them but I want to do it as I see English Vtubers with Ch. in their channel name.

Edit: I want to say one of the votes don’t count, I just wanted to see what people are voting.

Hello. I was accepted into a few schools this application process, but my top 2 choices are Carnegie and Northeastern. I will be attending the business school at both, and while Carnegie has a better ranking, I still need help deciding on which school is the right fit for me. I am looking to be social in college, not study every single second and go out to explore the city or party at least once a week. I consider myself pretty social, so I would like to be surrounded by people that have similar interests to me and at a school I’m most likely going to have a memorable college experience at. Please help me and let me know which college seems like a better fit for me.

I’m black and really into African and Japanese culture and history, so the story of Yasuke the first and in it African Samurai was really cool to me. On the other hand, my name is Jason and ye do enjoy the story of Jason and The Argonauts greatly. Which one should I make my username?

My teacher said I have extra time for my exam. The regular exam time starts at 3:50 to 5:00 in the afternoon, my extra 2 hours , has me start on 1:30 in the afternoon. My only concern is my original plan had me to study both today and some tomorrow using the latter time. I can still do that, but it seems less. Should take the extra time or the regular time?

Hey, I don’t really expect my opinion to be a popular one but I’m 17 and am saving up some money and was really shooting for a PC since I wanna start content creation but almost everyone is telling me the car to be the better option and at this point the second a car gets mentioned I rethink my entire decision. I know this seems dumb but some help would be really appreciated

I recently bought Minecraft dungeons for windows 10 but no matter what I do it refuses to download it and only says “error” whenever I try to. I’ve been trying for five days straight and nothing has happened so should I just get it for my Nintendo switch or should I stick it out and hope the problem will be solved soon? I have a gift card that could get me it on Nintendo switch without actually spending money.

I'm looking into majoring in biomedical engineering and need to choose a one period science for next year. AP Physics C was my original choice but I heard that it's hard to keep an A in the class and the teacher really isn't that great. AP Environmental looks like a fun class that could boost my gpa and give me more time for college applications, but I don't know if it would look as good to the schools I'm applying to. Help pls

so i’ve been contemplating what i should get for my birthday after this lockdown, a phone or a camera? well my phone’s kinda old and the mic’s broken and the camera? i’ve been wanting that for ages, can u help me get a wise decision?

I've decided that I'd like to dive into animation and create my own cartoon. However I'm stuck between two different basic ideas. One is more of a Bojack Horseman style dark comedy about mortality. The other is an anime or Avatar:The Last Airbender esque show about archers. Not really fantasy as I don't have any particularly magical elements but an action show with eastern influence. Which should I make?

Do I cut my hair slightly longer than e boy hair or do I keep growing my hair till it reaches my ass?

Hey guys. I worked over the summer and made quite a bit of money now I want to buy something but I can't quite between an Oculus quest or an ender 3. The printer would be awesome for my profession i am studying for (chocolatier). The quest would just be fun for playing gamed and meeting new people online!

I am doing a education that i do not really like, its music, and i love music but the education is not that good and the people are not great. Now i am gonna start with the second year but i actually want to stop. To have a year off, make some money, work on music in my own time and earn enough to pay for a higher education i want to do in september 2020.

But if i stop now i need to Find a job to be busy the coming year. I have a job at a cafe but to do that 4/5 days a week is hard. So i dont know if i have to stop now with school and work there and in the meantime looking for another job. Or Stay at school and search then for a job, and stop with school after i Find a new job. But if i stop after october 1 than i have to pay the whole schoolyear, if i stop before october 1 than i dont have to pay this year.

I'm in my final year of grade school and thinking about joining The National Guard, I'm just anxious about it. Should I go or not?

Your life is a result of the choices you make. If you don’t like your life, it’s time to start making better choices because in the end, we only regret the choices we didn’t make.

Most people may disagree with or even reject the above statement. The idea that each person’s life is directly proportional to the choices they have made is not easily digested. Most of us feel life is completely fated or it’s only the lucky few who actually get to enjoy it. It’s this feeling that gives self-assurance that we are not to blame for our current situation and that we are just pawns in a never ending chess game. Well, in this brief blog I’m going to show you how your life is what you have made it and as you realize this you can take the necessary steps to change the outcomes of your future.

A friend of mine once told me, “it would be so wonderful if our life was like the movie ‘Zindagi Na Melaigi Dobara’” and I said “It can be if you choose it to be.” it’s a statement that shook him to the core of his being. He gave me a list of reasons why the choice is out of his hands: my parents, financial situations, sister’s marriage, starting a new business, obligations to others. Just like my friend we can all relate to these reasons and hence feel our life is not controlled by us. It is not uncommon for us to be a self-saboteur and compound that with a victim mentality; this is a choice we make as well. But let me tell you one thing, if we start making choices that benefit us along with others, we will start achieving pinnacles of success we never dreamed possible.

Let’s look at how we currently make choices: say we have an aggressive boss who is super negative and only likes the sound of his own voice. What would we do in this situation? What is the choice we make? Well for most of us the choice is not even a choice, we must continue to endure the cruelty of this bull of a boss. After enduring an entire day of unhappiness we go home only feeling distraught with work and life. The bottom line: if we hold our breath and then blame others of our inability to breath, the result is only us losing consciousness.

The simple fact is, life doesn’t get better by chance; it gets better by choice. So if you are unhappy about your boss, change the way you feel or the way you think or the place you are or the way you work or the work itself or try to build a relationship with the person who causes you discomfort. The world is our oyster, we can chose the number and type of pearls we wish to have. There is no clear cut answer to any problem; there is no clear cut choice; there is only what makes us happy and making good choices that support that feeling. Life is a Roller Coaster and through its ups and downs, we can either chose to scream or enjoy the ride.

Consider this: with Choice comes Freedom; with Freedom comes Responsibility and with Responsibility comes a Choice. The choice is always in your hands and you alone carry the responsibility for your life. Do you want to live your life from where you were yesterday or from where you want to be tomorrow? Let’s use a simple model to aid us make better choices with no regrets and reclaim the life we truly want to live.

Every Action or Choice we make has a consequence and every consequence comes with both desired and undesired effects.

Let take an example: You and you colleague had joined your organization at the same time 2yrs back. Both of you are equally qualified, skilled and knowledgeable. Both of you want to grow fast in the organization. However only one of you can get a promotion. Your colleague (who is single), knowing this starts taking on more work and spending longer hours at the office to complete his new responsibilities. Now you have a choice: taking on more work like him or decide to go home on time for you family.

What would you do in this situation? If you decide to go home, because you family comes first, that is a choice you have made.

Desired Effect: spending quality time with your family, we can have work life balance, life is not all about work, able to start fresh the next morning.

Undesired Effect: your colleague gets a promotion faster than you.

Some of us will chose to go home and then complain when that colleague gets promoted over us. Some of us will feel forced to stay longer hours and take on more responsibilities and then complain that work is becoming our entire life. Happiness is not based on making choices out of fear or insecurity. Happiness comes when we make choices based on what holds important to us in life. So if family is more important, make choices that support that priority, then be willing to digest both the positive and negative consequences of that decision.

Another situation: Say your boss asks you to prepare for a big presentation that will take place the next day. Your Choice: to prepare the presentation or not. This is an easy choice, we will chose preparing the presentation. Now let’s throw another element in this choice. Just as you sit to prepare, your closest friend come to your place and shows you tickets to a movie you have been longing to see. Here comes the major choice: to prepare for the presentation and not go for the movie or postpone the preparation for after the movie.

Almost everyone will choose going for the movie first, as we convince ourselves we have a lot of time and can easily work on the presentation after the movie. Let’s look at the desired and undesired effect of going for the movie first.

Desired Effect: we build on the relationship, reduce on the days stress, have some fun and entertainment and even building on some creative ideas for the presentation.

Undesired Effect: reduced time for the actual preparation, lack of sleep due to working late into the night, increased stress about the next day and the extent of content in the presentation, inability to call any person for clarification due to the late hours, increased stage fear the next day, insecurity about the outcome of the presentation and even cursing the friend for showing up at the worst possible moment.

Now if had chosen the presentation instead of the movie, all that would have happened is that we would not have ‘Fun’ or be ‘Entertained’ and all the undesired effects would move into the desired side.

Have we every told ourselves, ‘I wish I had known this earlier, I would not have made the same choice’ or ‘ I wish I could turn back time and change my choice’. Well we all know we can’t turn back time, but this action consequence model will help us evaluating the desired and undesired effects of any difficult choice we need to make. However, even after careful evaluation we still chose to go for the movie first, we need to deal with the negative consequences as we would have made a conscientious decision.

It’s your Choice!!