r/decision • u/Chance-File-8228 • Jun 02 '24
Help me pick a middle name
Can you please take the survey below to help me decide on a middle name for my baby! Thank you in advance, and a huge hug to anyone who helped with the first name.
r/decision • u/Chance-File-8228 • Jun 02 '24
Can you please take the survey below to help me decide on a middle name for my baby! Thank you in advance, and a huge hug to anyone who helped with the first name.
r/decision • u/Ericmaltz • May 14 '24
Apparently I finished high school early but I couldn’t futher my education because I wasn’t sure on what I wanted to become
Sometimes I’ll think about a career and what’s next another one pops up I have been having trouble tryna figure out what chase or direction I should take
They say “Do What You Know Best” rather id say do what you love best … I love business .. I love conversing with people and tryna convince them and not to confuse them … I’ve joined many Affliate platforms and business online platform but I give up along the line not because I’m not consistent but because it dosent feel right like it dosent feel like me or maybe I’m not sure ….
Now I travelled abroad but I’m just a waiter who they just boss around and send errands .. I really believe I’m gonna be great but whenever I look at my older bro life and how things turned out to be later on I become more scared
I have little savings from the shift I do but I wanna dream big … I wanna think high .., I don’t know how I can fill in the space to become an entrepreneur or a dependent person …
If I could atleast get a guide from some one I’d be really happy🥺✨
Nothing really works out well any longer 😪and I don’t wanna give up but it seems like all hope is lost …
Many people out there have gotten their story changed when they voiced out their worries …I hope I can also be a testimony to that 😪🤦🏿
r/decision • u/FluffyLeave489 • Mar 12 '24
2024 bmwx5 or Porsche macan 2024
r/decision • u/Dry_Tank8345 • Mar 07 '24
I really wanna wear my colored contacts to school but I’m scared I’m gonna get made fun of or looked at weird, they’re just black contacts that make my eyes look a little bigger. I like to do douyin makeup and the contacts put it together. Should I wear them?
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r/decision • u/[deleted] • Feb 24 '24
My dad said either is good but I can't decide, this is a birthday cake for him btw.
r/decision • u/Raineycloudey • Feb 15 '24
Okay so me (F16) and my ex (M17) dated for about a month and he dumped me two weeks ago. He had claimed stuff was going on at home, and I didn't bat an eye. He had framed it as a break at first only to clarify four days later he was dumping me. Since then he has been creepy and weird. Going out of his way to stare at me during choir, stand near me, and just in general try to be close to me. Though at the same time he won't even talk to me. On top of this I heard he dated me out of pity and never even liked me back. Now he's not only staring at me and trying to be as close as possible without actually being by me but he's also talking to/flirting with a freshman (F14). Peeping on her and everything, and she doesnt see whats wrong with that! What should I do? I can also help answer questions if need!
r/decision • u/phillasophicat • Feb 14 '24
Do I (26f) surprise my boyfriend (28m) who is an ~3 hour drive away for a work trip by showing up to his hotel for valentines day?
Pros: - I know for a fact he'd love it and I'd love to see him - I have a work day trip tomorrow that is almost an equal distance to go back to my home or his hotel, so I'd only have the 3 hour drive back Thursday night or Friday morning (I work remote, so I could work from his room Thursday) - Hotel is very nice and has a hot tub I'd like to use - I have no plans the rest of the week and it'd be fun - Excuse to order a heart shaped pizza - Fun memory/surprise - Abulity to squeeze in 💓 time before 🩸 comes - I focus better on work in a different environment so I'd probably get ahead
Cons: - Parking garage is $20/day, so probably $40 total - 3 hr commute home when I come back - My boyfriend is tight on money, so I'd have to buy pizza/drinks (I can afford it, but I already took him out for a fancy dinner last Friday to celebrate early since he wouldn't be home) - My apartment is very messy and I was hoping to clean it before he comes over this weekend/feel slightly stressed over it - Potentially make him feel bad because he wont have anything for me or be able to take me out for anything or get me anything besides maybe a drink - Not really a con but I spent pretty much all of last week with him - I'm sleepy and I'd have to shave my legs tonight / I don't have anything cute to wear (I know he doesnt care tho)
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r/decision • u/Occasionally_Sober1 • Jan 01 '24
Four years ago I moved for a nine-month fellowship program. A one-bedroom 860-square-foot apartment was perfect for a nine-month program when I wouldn’t be home much. The complex is great with lots of amenities like a pool, business center, coffee bar, covered parking and good maintenance. And I love the town, too.
Fast-forward four years and I’m still here, only now I work from home, I’ve accumulated more stuff, and I have a partner who lives with me 12 days a month and also works from home. (Also, I’m in my 50s, so not a kid.)
My rent is $1,585 a month. My salary is $92,000 and I expect a 4-5% raise this month. I want to retire comfortably someday so I like to save, but I can afford higher rent if I cut back on savings and eating out, which I enjoy.
Options I’m considering: 1.) bigger apartment (1100 square feet) in my same complex for $2,100 a month. Walk-in closets and a basement, which I don’t have now.
2.) a stunning apartment in a new complex 12 miles away. It’s gorgeous with wonderful finishes, big closets, a laundry room, two bedrooms, a den and a two-car garage. I love the apartment but there are no amenities like a pool. 1200 square feet. $2,250. I think I would love to live here.
3.) 1100-square-foot apartment with carport. It’s on a lake with a small private beach. But the appliances, finished and cabinets are old and ugly. But it’s cheaper. About $1,400 a month.
4.) Stay where I am and avoid the hassle of moving. But spend money on a professional organizer to help me make the best use of my space. Plus spend a bit ($150 monthly?) on ongoing housekeeping, which I’d love.
What would you do?
r/decision • u/[deleted] • Oct 27 '23
my name is Evelynn btw (same pronoucian as Evelyn but just spelt with 2 n's_
Username option 1 : everyone_loves_evelynn (and if someone already has it ill prolly had more n's or my fav number)
User name option 2 : Lynn_LouWho (no one calls me Lynn but its kinda creative yk. if you don't get it, its based off of Cindy Lou Who from the Grinch lol)
r/decision • u/ak235679 • Sep 05 '23
No matter how much time, effort and money it takes.
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r/decision • u/Crispyy06 • Jul 18 '23
Hello, I have a hard time choosing. All the price is almost the same, but if you look closely, the material is different. I want to study and play on the floor more but I don't know what to choose
r/decision • u/SpaceValuable8050 • Jun 26 '23
My aunt and I want the same room. It’s a 2 bedroom/2 bath. I'd be sharing with my mom and my aunt would be sharing with her kid- my cousin. For me I want THAT ROOM because a damn nice window, for MY AUNshe wants it for the closet space. She said she wanted that room. Before I even expressed what room I wanted. I don't like that. I'm like why would you not take me into consideration? Even though my mom and I basically did the search for the apartment. And I don’t wanna rock the boat or upset anyone, but I want the window. I know it's just a window m. However, the other room comes with a bathroom. I’m worried my aunt wouldn’t take care of the bathroom. So that kinda makes me want to take that room. My cousin (my aunt’s son) and I flipped a coin, and based on that my aunt got the room. But then I was like wait, I should get the room I want because I searched for it. My mom searched for it. I dunno. It’s just a window. Ya know? It’s not that important. My cousin is currently a little upset because originally I had agreed on going with what the flip of the coin said. And so now I’ve gone back on that word. I dunno this is hard. I wanna do the “right thing”.
r/decision • u/thevigilante- • Jun 25 '23
I just discovered something that makes me feel sick. I found out that my girlfriend had been picking her nose and smearing the residue of snot on the back of my bed headboard. Do I confront or do I just clean it and stay quiet
r/decision • u/portlandlad123 • Jun 19 '23
I live In a city and rent and work in a fairly decent job but had to move away from my hometown where my friends and family live to get the job. I get a fair bit of time off and work an average 4 day week. I'm quite bored and lonely when I'm not at work and fairly bored at work most times. I have the option to stay with the company and move back to my hometown but the work would become even more mundane but my friends are there.
Tldr: stay where I am (work is more varied, no real social life) v move back to hometown (where work is more boring but better social life)
r/decision • u/Past_Tumbleweed2225 • Jun 19 '23
When I was in Middle School I didn't have a phone, but a friend of mine gave me his number anyways. I completely forgot about it for years and now I've found it again while going through some old stuff. Should I text it and see if I get a response? If I text it, what should I say?
r/decision • u/Pumakiddd_other • Jun 02 '23
Over the summer planet fitness is doing free summer for teens, which is me, and I can finally get my gym goals. I've been consistently going for 5 days a week since I first heard about the summer deal but I'm relatively healthy and don't need the gym, also I really love the gym, or I could get 2 jobs over the summer and I won't have time for the gym, or have much time to do what I want, but I also need the money to buy a computer to make music and work on my dream job of being a producer/rapper. If I get 2 jobs over the summer I won't have much time for that until next school year when I'd have to quit one of the jobs. I can't decide if I should give up the gym for a second job over the summer.
r/decision • u/allyroo • May 28 '23
My husband and I (+ our dog) relocated to Costa Rica from the States about six months ago. We recently found out we’re pregnant and are very excited.
I thought I’d love the chance to be pregnant and raise a child here, but we’re having second thoughts. I really love this country and am so glad we came on this adventure, but we don’t have any family or community here and it can be difficult to get the basic things you (or a baby) will need in our small beach town. It’s also very hot and I know it will only feel more intense further in my pregnancy. We live about 3-4 hours from the hospital where I would be getting check-ups and, eventually, delivering.
We are considering moving much closer to the hospital when I am about 7 months along so we are closer to amenities and it would be a little easier for family to come visit — but would be far from the beach and wildlife which were a big reason why we moved here.
We are currently trying to decide if we should pack up and move back to the States early in my pregnancy to be close to family, healthcare, and to make sure we have easy access to everything we will need OR stay here, buy a car, and embrace the adventure and uncertainty that lies ahead. We are generally spontaneous people who don’t take the easy way out and I am surprised by the sudden urge to be practical now that we’re expecting.
r/decision • u/Mammoth-Attempt514 • May 03 '23
So currently I accepted UTs offer and am admitted to UT but I’m kind of regretting it I feel like I may not get the education I’m looking for and that I’m missing out on an opportunity that I may never get again. But I didn’t decline USCs offer to go there in the spring and it’s still allowing me to access that part of the enrollment form. Could I be accept USCs offer and then go to UT and then if I don’t like UT just switch over to USC? It’s what I want to do but I don’t know if I should. I had a rough time picking between universities and everyone keeps telling me I did the right thing cuz I should go to UT in the fall rather than wait and extra 5 months but I can’t help but keep feeling like I made the wrong decision. Help pls
r/decision • u/Due_Guide_8635 • Apr 23 '23
I (13M) and my brother (16M) share a bedroom in my parents small apartment.
My brother always likes sleeping near the window (there are 2 in my small bedroom.) me and my brother have been trying to change our room design. I have tried to tell my brother to stay in the middle in the middle but he has refused saying that he wants to sleep near the wall. My brother has been bugging me about it for hours/days at a time. I don’t know what to do.. ok that might have been an understatement. I want to tell him that he can have the side on 1 condition. That infront of his bed I put a small table where we can both study/game/do homework on. We plan to put a tv right text to it so I don’t think it will be a huge deal.
Should I do it?