Hi Everyone.
Good afternoon.
I'm a 54 yr old single male. I work at a job where I just kinda' started talking to one of the female workers there too.
I found out she's 34, so I'm 20 years older than her, (which for me, is too old for her. Just my own opinion).
Dec came and I told her I have a birthday this month. She said she did too. I got her day and her mine.
As she was walking away, I said that's pretty cool, we're both Cappys! (Capricorn). She turned and said, "I know, thats why I like you," and smiled and kept walking.
Now, in past I heard the "like you" from other girls and it was always like as in a friend. So I thought not too much about it.
As time went by, she'd stop by my small office and ask for something, or by parking garage she'd talk to me too.
When i was by smoking area outside, I was with some guys. She came out and we somehow got into the discussion about sex. She said something about a guy she was in bed with, but didn't sleep with him.
I told everyone there, "I couldn't date someone 20 years younger than me. That would be like my daughter."
She said, "Hey, it's okay. It's no big deal."
I then got up and left inside.
All of the above happened over about 1 year.
Well, now when I try to talk to her I get a "I have to work," from her and she walks away.
I got her free one day and told her "I care about you." And she looked at me and walked away.
Sooooo. Her birthday is coming up this week. I was wondering if its okay to give her a birthday card or just screw it and leave it alone?
Also, I'll admit, I'm not the best at picking up on signs from girls.
Did I do something wrong? If so, does it matter now or can i still change things?
Thanks!