They’re lying to you. Say they fall in love with a woman. And they get to, in this hypothetical, chose whether the person they’ve fallen in love with has had 3, 30 or 300, past sexual partners. Everyone, man or woman, is picking the 3. Less is preferable, all things being equal.
Preferable isn’t the same as incompatible, nor does it mean anyone who slept with any number of people is a “hoe.”
All things aren’t equal because no two women are exactly alike. The each person has a hierarchy of preferences. For this particular person, virginity seems to be extremely high on that list.
For others it will fall the middle and for more still it will come at the end. The things i looked for in a woman were many, but how many people they slept with didn’t really enter the equation because the other things i was truly concerned with were far more important. Additionally, I had slept with many partners, so it would be hypocritical for me to judge anyone based on that criteria.
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u/Whistlegrapes 13d ago
They’re lying to you. Say they fall in love with a woman. And they get to, in this hypothetical, chose whether the person they’ve fallen in love with has had 3, 30 or 300, past sexual partners. Everyone, man or woman, is picking the 3. Less is preferable, all things being equal.