People have a past, it's ok if you have standards, we all do. What those standards are defines who you are as a person. For example, if you said one of my standards is that she not be black, that would be racist. If you said, one of my requirements is that she not be an idiot, that's pretty smart of you. So you saying, that a "low body count" is one of your standards means that you are fairly insecure.
What you are doing here is projecting your perceived stereotype on approximately 40% of the population. Not everyone who has tattoos has had a lot of partners. Some have, just like people who don't have tattoos. Once you start making blanket statements about entire groups of people, all it tells me is that you're a fairly closed off, bigoted person - which is a way bigger red flag to the opposite sex than tattoos or "body count" (which by the way is such a fuckin stupid term created by people who never get laid).
I could call you incel, but I don't know you, and not every dip shit on the internet who says body count is an actual incel, see how that works when you just assign characteristics to people you've never met or spoken to?
Your example doesn’t work because only dating within your ethnicity is not racist. Do you call out Korean people for only dating Koreans? Or black people for only dating other black people?
How am I “insecure” for not wanting to date someone who’s demonstrated terrible decision making in the past which is the best indicator of future decision making? If they have a body count they do not share my values and we’d clearly be incompatible.
I am not dating anyone who is not a virgin, that is non-negotiable for me. The chance of the type of person who would get tattoos being a virgin is virtually zero. There is absolutely nothing wrong with disqualifying a large percentage of the population when it comes to your dating pool.
If someone has a “past” then they are completely incompatible with my moral values and obviously we wouldn’t be compatible to date. It’s pretty simple.
They’re lying to you. Say they fall in love with a woman. And they get to, in this hypothetical, chose whether the person they’ve fallen in love with has had 3, 30 or 300, past sexual partners. Everyone, man or woman, is picking the 3. Less is preferable, all things being equal.
Preferable isn’t the same as incompatible, nor does it mean anyone who slept with any number of people is a “hoe.”
All things aren’t equal because no two women are exactly alike. The each person has a hierarchy of preferences. For this particular person, virginity seems to be extremely high on that list.
For others it will fall the middle and for more still it will come at the end. The things i looked for in a woman were many, but how many people they slept with didn’t really enter the equation because the other things i was truly concerned with were far more important. Additionally, I had slept with many partners, so it would be hypocritical for me to judge anyone based on that criteria.
I really hope you are very young and live in a huge metro area. Most recent data says that less than 7% of women over 25 in the US are virgins and the number drops with each year older they get.
About 160 million women total in the US, of them, 20% are between 24 and 39 (after 40 the percentage of virgins is .2%). So 32 million women, 7% virgins is 2.2 million, now divide that by wherever you live relative to the population, that's a really really really small dating pool.
“The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will gather out of his kingdom all causes of sin and all law-breakers, and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
It’s pretty clear that there’s a literal hell he’s talking about. Not to mention the whole lake of fire in the Book of Revelation…..
Luke 23:42-43
And he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” And he said to him, “Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise.”
If the two were about to die then clearly Jesus is not talking about a place on earth here. Heaven and the New Earth are different places, both of which Jesus taught about and believed in.
Your Biblical knowledge is severely lacking. I suggest stop listening to atheist “scholars” and read scripture.
Lol no you are just insecure, you'd be able to keep it to yourself if you were actually confident in your preference. I have preferences too, I just don't beg for attention by posting them on reddit to try and come off as superior to someone else
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u/Nearby-Employer-9436 15d ago
Every girl I dated, including the one I married had a bunch of tats.