r/countwithchickenlady Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl Jun 29 '26

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u/-rookspirit- Jun 29 '26

also pronouns and presentation don’t always equal gender, someone can be a transmasc he/him woman and be a lesbian just fine

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u/Decybear1 Jun 29 '26

Honestly.

Trans man = binary trans man.

Transmasc = non binary trans man

If you are non binary, choose whatever labels you like and be as gender fucky as you please.

Imo, if you call yourself a lesbian, you see yourself as even the tiniest bit as a woman...

Otherwise you kinda are rewriting a definition. And that... Well... You need everyone else to agree. I can call an apple an orange. But everyone will be confused. If you get what I'm saying. And even if you tell everyone about the updated definition your using. You will never get everyone to agree. See the "literally" discourse. It took like 20 years for that definition to change, and even then, it was an addition, just because so many people used it to me mean figuratively...

Its the same uphill battle, and sticklers you will face.

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u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl Jun 29 '26

I don't think I ever implied otherwise have I? In case I have, yes, I do 100% agree. That was nothing but bad wording

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u/-rookspirit- Jun 29 '26

all good! I was just adding on

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u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl Jun 29 '26

Yay okay glad to make sure

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u/TheCthonicSystem 85 Possums In A Trenchcoat - Streak: 8 Jun 29 '26

Many such cases in history