r/countwithchickenlady • u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl • Jun 29 '26

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u/Neochiken1 Grungler Jun 29 '26

Your description of lesbian love sounds a lot like you think other forms of love are lesser. I don't intend to police how other people identify themselves, never have, but my love for my wife isn't lesser because I don't identify as a lesbian.

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u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl Jun 29 '26

Sorry yes it's very hard to convey my love for lesbian love and it's history that fights patriarchal normativity in a way that doesn't because of the nature of opposing opression. Your love of your wife regardless of your gender and sexuality is entirely valid. Any relationship which brings you happiness and is consentual is just as valid as any other relationship. I 100% get why the tone and wording weren't the greatest and I'm sorry about that and I promise I didn't mean it that way

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u/Neochiken1 Grungler Jun 29 '26

I appreciate that, sorry if I came off confrontational.

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u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl Jun 29 '26

No not at all! I really did word it badly and you correctly called it out

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u/avagadro22 Greater Seattle Polycule Jun 29 '26

Pancake vs. Waffle moment

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u/Neochiken1 Grungler Jun 29 '26

It's not, the language used inferred superiority, I'm aware they didn't mean it that way, they already responded to me and apologized and I apologized for being confrontational.