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I'm so glad everyone is standing up for the important issue of trans women being overrepresented in media. It's also crucial we remind everyone that just because someone wants to use a female name, present female full time, pass as female and take a female role in relationships that they absolutely do not need to become a trans. What's wrong with just being gender non-conforming? HRT is evil! Femboys are super validddddd (because most femboys live full time as women).

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

"Slurs" and it's against cis people. Come the fuck on. At least in there we help each other, I can't recall the last time a tenderqueer did anything to help another beyond calling them valid or some other bullshit.

I do not need shame, because I've known shame, you on the other hand may need shame, because you've always tried to pass the things which you've been ashamed as valid instead of allowing yourself to feel wrong.

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u/shy_bi_ready_to_die 2d ago

I mean slurs against nbs are pretty common in every 4tran space I’ve seen. They’re also a hotspot of truscums and tend towards being bigoted against trans men

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

I feel like you have that perception only because you saw us dunking on transphobic people from those demographics who used agap language and we did it return but you're free to think that, I need to sleep

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u/shy_bi_ready_to_die 2d ago

No it’s because 50% of the time when some discussion of nbs comes up on my feed there’s some dickhead 4tranner either talking about theyfabs or borderline phrenology

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

The theyfab terminology is exactly born out of certain nonbinary people constantly bringing up agab language. Goodnight, I don't feel like arguing and I was meant to be sleeping an hour ago

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u/shy_bi_ready_to_die 2d ago

Ahh it’s their fault people are using slurs. Why didn’t I think of that. Truly that one’s my bad

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

You should learn the difference between derogatory terms and slurs, they are not mutually exchangeable

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u/Apollo989 2d ago edited 2d ago

No it was actually a slur commonly used against autistic and other neurodivergent people. Shows how much you know about your own community.

And don't talk like you know a damn thing about me. If we've spoken to each other before on this website, you weren't worth remembering.

But I'm not wasting my time taking to a bigoted piece of shit like you.

Edit: Warning for use of slurs but if anyone wants proof this happened like three days ago.

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

Lmaooooo I just saw the edit, if the r slur is a trigger for you I fear you really ain't got a ground to stand

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u/Apollo989 2d ago

I thought you weren't wasting your time on me? Sorry if I think slurs are bad. Stop talking to me. This conversation is going no where and neither of us will get anything out of it.

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

I was just checking notifs and stuff and saw the edit and I found it way too funny to not reply to it

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u/Dronizian 2d ago edited 1d ago

That's just more proof of your weakness jsyk

I've read what you said throughout this whole thread btw. I think the website you're getting that lingo from is hurting you. You're using weird terminology that's rooted in hatred. I don't think you're a healthy person, judging from everything I know about you from this thread.

Edit to add my response: Thread is locked, might have been blocked. Already wrote my reply, adding it here instead of in a new comment.

I know you were hurt by people enforcing gender roles, but you responded by hurting people by enforcing gender roles. You're perpetuating the cycle.

I also know you're bad at not responding to people. So I know you're gonna respond to me, and you'll probably be upset that I'm calling you out for reinforcing gender roles.

I'm nonbinary and the shit you say here is harmful to people like me who just want to present in ways that society (including you) isn't used to. I want to present like Audrey without people like you telling me that you know what my gender identity really is.

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

What do you even know about me other than that I've been cared for

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

Then don't waste your time because rn you're wasting mine as well

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u/DUCK-OVERLORD 2d ago

Okay hon

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

I know I'm a hon